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    o.k. Friday night My supposed greatest male friend and I went to a local strip club which shall remain nameless. We really just went to hang out but when I got there. There were two strippers there that were all over me and they wanted me to dance. Kept telling me i was beautiful blah blah blah.

    So one of them takes me to where the owner and the mangers were all sitting down together and he says fine so she takes me back stage and lends me a dress and when we come back out she takes me back to the owner so he can see me again in her dress. I don't know why and i know i know i should've known better but the owner says giver her a shot.

    Well stupid me takes it and then she takes me directly to stage well minutes maybe seconds later I am no longer there my head starting spinning I couldn't see I really after that shot remember NOTHING!!!!!!

    I don't remember dancing getting off stage getting out of the club going home nothing. Just when I woke up the next day I had all my clothes on and even contacts. I wear contacts. I was surrounded by dollar billls. and i thought oh no.

    I woke up feeling like super shit. so I called my male friend and was all embarassed like oh no I can't believe I danced you saw me. and I said dont' hold it agianst me lets just forget about last night and he seemed fine.


    Later on I went to his house and he started telling me all these things like I can't believe that I ve been trying to get you for a year now and I never gotten any and this guys knew you for 30 seconds gave up buck and they got to taste you and smell you and I was like what????????? what do you mean you are making sound like I had sex up there. He's like well yea you were. everyone was touching you and doing this and that.

    I was like what??????? he just kept saying its o.k. you lived your fantasy and I kept telling him I odn't even remember anything and trust me that wasn't my fantasy I felt so bad I really didn't want to know more but he just kept on sayin oh come on you liked it i could see it in your face. and when i kept on telling him I really dont' remember cause I dont'. he just kept saying i didn't know you didn't know what you were doing. I think you do remember you just don't want to. Making me seem like a total slut my best friend is telling me this the one that would say nothing is gonna happen to you if you are with me yeah right look at what happened to me.

    I think its fine that he let me dance but he said he saw me from far away taking hte shot and new they had put something in my drink since that used to be his club and he knows what goes on etc. So I got really sad and told him something like I can't believe you are telling me this or that you dont' believe me when I say it wasn't me I don't remember I owldn't do that I just started crying super hard and left his house he just sat there watching me get my stuff saying oh dont' be like that and i took off and hasnt' called me what a friend.

    Well then why did he let me get up there if he knew what goes on and he saw me take the shot I feel violated they even used my real name and kept on saying it over and over again at least that is what he says. And he even said there was this guy that knew me cause he kept on following me and yelling my name. oh no. I odn't know if you all understand the point of hte story I feel kinda doubths on putting this story here I m afraid to hear that yea it was my fault. Maybe it was but I still feel super embarrased not because i danced but because like my x friend said i was practicaly havign sex up there could it be that i was really don't htat or was it something they put in my drink the. I know the whoel time i was on stage the dancer was up there with me and she was the one spreading me open and takijng my clothes off all the way to nude and my friend is still telling me that it was all me.

    I know i would'nt do that I would'nt go nude I wasn't even prepared I wasn't even shaved. and even when i was sober and ready to danced in my head i was gonna topless only.

    Sorry kinda long hope you all understand the story and please try not to make me feel any worst. If there is something you dont' undersatnd please ask.

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    Oh dear! That sounds dreadful.

    So is your "friend" not telling you the straight story or just embellishing the truth?

    If your drink was spiked, which most likely could be the case, you do tend to go further with things you normally wouldnt so it could be possible.

    I dont understand why your friend isnt being more supportive of you. If thats not how you normally act and you're not attached to them romantically in any way, why is it such a big deal to them? Wouldnt they be protective of you?

    Oh dear, oh dear.

    I wonder ... if you were drugged you could go to the doctor and get them to test you. But then they'd have to know what to test you for.

    Cant you report this?

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    I'm sorry to hear that happened yeah I'd feel totally violated too. If it were me I would be posting the name of the club all over the place if only as a warning to other girls. That really sucks that he knew what that club was like and didn't step in to help you. I'd never talk to him again either.

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    First did you have a drink? Do you think you may have been drugged by anyone? And sex on stage? What club is this?

    I have A few doubts much happened like he said, especially the sex (pretty much) on stage in a strip club. Now VIP i would say ah sure hun, it happens.

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    well he meant i was getting eaten out and stuff like that I was like oh my god I swear to you all i dont' remember a thing. He even said that when i was sitting wiht the owner a bouncer went up to him and told him after your girl finished her dance get her out of here.
    apparently the bouncer knew somehting

    but n e way instead of saying lets just leave now no my friend goes and get change for a 20 he got 20 ones.

    But still i really hope he is exaggerating but it just feels bad yesterday he just totally looked different with me like you damn hoe.

    before the shot i had drank very little i was still well before the shot. My friend says I only danced one song i dont' even remember the song playing he said i went to go ask for it myself dont' remember that either. I did make 50 dollars though.

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    Eating you out on stage? I still doubt that. Any other place, Like VIP then yeah.

    It sounds to me like you were drugged, Especially if you only drank a little before taking that shot. If you go to the hospital, They can run tests to see if you were drugged or not.

    Regardless I am sorry this happened to you.

    My advice? Dump your friend. If I go anywhere or do anything, My friends will watch out for me. If I start 'getting too drunk', They'll be the first to take me home. He watched you get 'eaten out on stage' and didn't do anything? That's not much of a friend to me.


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    Dump your friend. If he was a real friend he wouldnt have let that happen to you. Don't associate with losers like that k?

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    get eaten out or "mimic" eaten out does happen on stage at some clubs, so that's not out of the realm of possiblities. Like the other girls said, if this guy was a supposed good friend why did he just let this go on? I would re think this relationship. Since he said something like you let other guys do what I've tried to do for a year, it sounds like a little or alot of jealousy that could of lead to emblishments in the story of what happened. Regarding the drugging, you can be poke with a needle and tested for various drugs but anything coming up (if you were drug) has a very small window like 1-2 days after "the drugging". Another question could be what you had a shot of, I can't handle everclear... at all even one shot will make me black out.

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    Some friend...
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    ^^ Exactly. I'd take him out back and beat him up but that's just me.


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    What kind of a club was this?Sounds horrible and It aint worth rthe 50 bux to be feeling as you seem to be feeling.(Find new friends!)Sorry...

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    ^ Agreed heartily. This guy sounds like a total dick. I can't even imagine what kind of a "friend" would allow this to happen to you. What a jerk.
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    I totally agree about taking him out back and kicking his ass. If he KNEW they would drug you, and saw you doing stuff you would never do onstage, he's a terrible friend. If he was that interested in you, why would he let all these guys take advantage onstage? He may also be embellishing what happened because he's jealous and wants to shame you into trusting him more (read as: sleeping with him). Especially telling you that you remember, you just don't want to admit it. That's so manipulative, and I've found, a way people use to make others feel bad about themselves, so they are more 'pliable' emotionally. Emotional black mail, basically.

    Either way, he doesn't sound like a safe person to be friends with. We all have had times where things get out of control, but we should be able to rely on our friends to help out. He should have grabbed you and put you in the car immediately.

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    who the hell would just eat a chik out on stage ?????Dont prople worry bout gettin stuff(No offense)

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    Ya think?!!!!!!!

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    well with a male friend like that, no wonder men have a bad name

    Another 100K women just turned lesbian with that assh**e in the world.

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    Yea I know I can wriite much right now I'm at work but I'm feeling better thanks!!!!!

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    Since she does not remember much at all, this could have been an after hours thing, with alot of regulars and staff alone there. I don't see getting oral sex on stage during regular business hours.



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    yeah well I worked with a girl who got her muff bitten HARD while she was onstage. I was there when it happened. saw her start crying and saw the bruise on her mons. Getting licked onstage is possible.

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    Something seems odd about this story, but I am glad you're doing better! Hmm.


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    I'd report that to the authorities. It sounds like the owner of the dump spiked your drink with that date rape drug which is illegal.

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    I agree Rose. I know this shit happens. But i almost feel as though she was taken against her will (of course she was) But you would think others in the club would be nervous about this happening. Oral sex on stage? And with multiple partners? I dance Miami, and we dont see this, only VIP does crap like that happen. I still think either the guy friend lied, or this happened after hours. What club these days wants to be in the papers known for this, and with a hefty fine....Too much for the club to risk, and she was drugged by the club to boot? Bad news.

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    Maybe I am wrong but I've never known for a club to do this. VIP section, Hell...It happens all the time. But right on a stage? Where were the bouncers, managers, etc? Oral sex on a stage just seems very odd to me. That could put the club at risk.


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    Well I guess I really will never know what really happened. I rather not say where I'm from but I am right on the border you can walk to mexico and trust me this is possible I've seen it happen before. Hope I didn't do it

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    Oh and another thing i don't know if its like this everywhere but i know that here all law enforcement gets in for free and gets royal treatment. Do you think this might be another reason why anything goes here?

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