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    Not onlydid I date a customer,I had a son with him....But he turned out to be a dick!LOL!

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    Nah.


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    Yes. Why do you ask? Are you, like, examining the world for hope or something?
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    No, I've had a boyfriend the entire time I've been dancing. What's with the poll results? It said I was the first "no". Are all you male customers responding the skew the results? Hehe.

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    actually here's how it happened. the night i was checking the club out i met this guy. we talked or whatever. i gave him my number. ( i wasn't working there yet). the next two fridays that i worked he was there, but he would leave when i danced. Antway we went out one night to dinner (last sat) and haven't talked to him since so i don't know what that is called. lol...

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    Yes, but briefly, a few years back. He wasn't a regular or a PL though, just a young dude there with his buddies. He did buy a few dances from me though.....

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    No, just gave the impression that i really wanted to

    Even really hot guys will come in and not buy any dances and expect to pick a girl up; we'll laugh at them in the dressing room. Hello, guys, we're working, and if you want to pick a girl up for real you should do so outside of fantasy land.
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    Default Re: Ladies, have you dated a customer from the club?

    No. And even if I was single when I was dancing, I still never would have.


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    Default Re: Ladies, have you dated a customer from the club?

    Quote Originally Posted by sandi_g
    No. And even if I was single when I was dancing, I still never would have.
    Same here. Then girls wonder why they get asked out all the time. The whole club atmosphere is just too artificial to ever start anything meaningful.... at least for me anyway.

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    Sometimes a newbie will, until she figures it's a bad idea, and counterproductive to her business attitude to view customers as potential dating material.

    There are always a certain percentage of dancers (though few who are SW members) who are into drugs and the party lifestyle who will go for the dealers.

    In this case, however, it is arguable that they are not ordinary customers, especially since a lot of them are too cool, in their own minds, to pay for lapdances. Also, the women in this case are generally getting drugs as part of the dating situation, which could be construed as compensation (even if it's frequently way less monetary value than the equivalent in cash which might be expected for a 'date'), so this could be seen as outside the normal dating situation.

    Odds are, though, unless you are a rock star, jock, big name actor, or just a guy that the vast majority of women find irresistable (in fact, not just in your head), you're barking up the wrong tree.
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    Default Re: Ladies, have you dated a customer from the club?

    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser
    Odds are, though, unless you are a rock star, jock, big name actor, or just a guy that the vast majority of women find irresistable (in fact, not just in your head), you're barking up the wrong tree.
    I wasn't aware dancers had a thing for rock stars, jocks or big name actors (in person, I mean). You know the deal about being big disappointments -- bad attitudes, poor tippers, generally PIAs.

    Dancers do like guys.....they happen to like. Just like everybody else. Right?

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    I go to work to make moeny, not boyfriends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    Yes. Why do you ask? Are you, like, examining the world for hope or something?
    I was wondering the same thing... It seems like there are an awful lot of threads (most started by male customers) essentially asking the same thing. Hmmm
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    NO. But if Terrell Owens from the Eagles team would chime in anytime, i would be happy to make him my first and only to date from the club. I have met him once, and he said he played for the 49er's at the time, i thought this was BS, untill drinks came free, and the owner knew what was up with all kinds of security all around. I was very impressed. Damn love that guy! Now i need a number 81 jersey from the Eagles...Although i love my 49er's!!!!

    Pic. for you Terrell!!!!

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    Default Re: Ladies, have you dated a customer from the club?

    Hmmmm, i seem to remember this same question from somewhere...?


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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner
    I wasn't aware dancers had a thing for rock stars, jocks or big name actors (in person, I mean). You know the deal about being big disappointments -- bad attitudes, poor tippers, generally PIAs.
    You weren't there when Trent Reznor came into my club...

    Though I would agree with your assessment of celebrities in general--most of whom cannot seem to avoid developing a serious attitude problem, especially when it comes to members of the opposite sex.

    It has been my experience, however, that women everywhere kinda have a thing for rock stars, jocks, big name actors--and dancers are no different. It should be said that men are also prone to fall all over themselves if some plastic, hyped-up bimbo like Pamela Anderson Lee walks in the room. That's life--and human nature...

    The smart, cool ones, like my girlfriend, could give a rat's ass about who they are, so long as they treat her with the respect she deserves. The up and coming rapper whose idea of a smooth pick up line was telling her he wanted to be "the daddy of your baby" got no more respect than he gave her with that.

    If you do a search for the various threads here on SW about celebrities in the past 2 years, you will find some interesting posts. Most of the dancers here have pretty much the same attitude, which is they give back what respect they get--though I recall a few posts which seemed to display a bit more adulation than that for various stars they have met. From my experience, the dancers here on SW are exceptional, but then I worked in a town where even the librarians were extremely shallow, superficial people.
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    No.

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    Twice. The one lasted 3 years and the other I'm with now. I have a personal policy against it but when you meet someone really special it becomes less important where you met them. I should say that both had to pass some very rigorous testing before they got anywhere with me. In 9.5 years dancing, of thousands upon thousands of guys, only 2 got my attention and passed the tests.

    As we've said many times before on the many other threads on this same topic: Some do, some might, most don't. Considering the number of guys we see and the number we turn away every hour, I wouldn't get my hopes up.

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    yep... and am still dating him almost a year later...

    i went out with a psycho once though.. had to get a restraining order against him. before i went out with my current bf, i had a background check done on him

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    Ugh, too many times, and then married one! Now I'm in the process of divorce...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela
    NO. But if Terrell Owens from the Eagles team would chime in anytime, i would be happy to make him my first and only to date from the club. I have met him once, and he said he played for the 49er's at the time, i thought this was BS, untill drinks came free, and the owner knew what was up with all kinds of security all around. I was very impressed. Damn love that guy! Now i need a number 81 jersey from the Eagles...Although i love my 49er's!!!!

    Pic. for you Terrell!!!!

    Pamela
    Aww...Pamela's got a crush on T.O. I am not a big fan of the cocky bastard, but he is a heck of a football player.

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    Once. Although dating is not really the word for it. He was amazingly hot, and we got it on a few times. End of story. It's worth noting that I didn't hook up with him until I quit working at the club where I met him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Twice. I have a personal policy against it but when you meet someone really special it becomes less important where you met them.
    I had a girlfriend once who I had met at work (an Olympic sprinter, as it turned out, who did me the immense favor of teaching me how to give a real massage). Before we began dating, and while we were still just friends, she insisted she "never dated guys at work."

    A year went by, things changed. We became involved. I eventually learned to my amusement that every guy -- every single last guy she had ever dated since college, and I mean every single one -- she had met at work. Policy and reality diverged radically in this case. Yeah, I know, "never dated guys at work" was a kiss-off to me when she first said it, of course. But every single one? Wow.

    Bridgette, for a dancer of your intelligence and wit, I figure 2 in 10,000 is just about the right odds. Oh, and sorry I left you off my "hang with" list. It's that friggin' dancing cow avatar. You know I love you.

    Anyway, guys who go into the club looking for gf's are hopelessly doomed. True. So what do we tell them when they post questions here? "Absolutely forget about it, it will never happen?" Maybe. Perhaps a better answer is, "if you have to ask, the answer is emphatically 'no'."

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    Default Re: Ladies, have you dated a customer from the club?

    Of the dozen or so dancers I know pretty well, only one thus far has had a successful relationship with a man she met at the club. Three or four others have dated guys from the club but it didnt work out for one reason or another. The rest wouldnt date a strip clubber no matter what...mostly due to their perception of guys who go to strip clubs. If he has to pay for attention... etc.

    If I were single, I wouldnt consider a strip club as an avenue for romance. Not because the women who work there arent intelligent, good looking or fun to hang out with. It's more that I believe a customer has just as much of a stigma to overcome (in the dancers eyes) as the dancers often have with the general public.

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