I'm amazed at how much interesting discussion my original "sluts and slobs" thread generated and I don't want to derail that. But I thought it might be interesting to try to define some of our terms a little more. Me first.
I originally defined 2 types of dancer: nice girls and sluts. Obviously it's more complex than that. I've found that there are at least 2 kinds of nice girls: college students (a relatively new phenomenon) and single mothers. And 2 kinds of sluts: party girls and single mothers. And probably at least one other category: seasoned pros. The primary thing that separates the nice girls from the sluts is drug use - the nice girls may be occasional users but the sluts are usually big-time users. And some of them will do almost anything for money, including dating customers.
There are also sub-categories within the 2 types of customer. Nice guys can be either white collar or blue collar and are usually but not always a little older. Slobs include both young punks and older sleezeballs. Some of the young punks are small time drug dealers supplying the sluts. The main distinguishing characteristic is that nice guys are looking for companionship, slobs are looking for sex.
There are several tiers of gentlemen's clubs, from very fancy to less so, but they all have similar characteristics: large, not very friendly, expensive, fancy, tuxedoed (or nicely dressed) bouncers and doormen, live DJ. The main emphasis is on fancy stage dancing plus there's usually private dancing in VIP rooms. Dances are usually fairly low contact and stage dancing usually isn't nude. Dancers are a mix of nice girls and seasoned pros. Customers are an even mix of white collar and blue collar nice guys with a few slobs here and there. The top tier clubs are often part of a national chain. These places are usually located downtown in cities.
Joints are much harder to characterize other than to say they're not gentlemen's clubs. I'm familiar with at least 2 types: neighborhood bars and lap dance factories. The neighborhood bars are the most common type of strip club and outnumber all the other types several times over. The main emphasis is on drinking and socializing. Dancers rarely are nude. There often aren't any private dances or if there are they're pretty tame and not many people buy any. Dancers are a mix of nice girls and sluts, depending on location. These clubs are located everywhere and are the home of the blue collar nice guys.
Lap dance factories are very different. They're usually small dark dumpy places with no alcohol, fully nude and very explicit dancing (if you want to call it that) on small stages, and inexpensive lap dances either out in the open or in a back room. Laps are often very high contact or more. Girls are almost exclusively sluts, except when the place is in the middle of nowhere as they often are, then they get more of a mix of girls because there's no alternative. Customers are almost exclusively slobs (mostly sleezeballls during the day and punks at night) although sometimes nice guys go too for a walk on the wild side. These places are usually located in run-down industrial areas or in the boonies and are often hard to find. Some are attached to XXX bookstores, a few have massage parlors next door. Some are open 24 hours a day, especially if they're near a truck stop. My guess from the comments on other threads is that few of you people have ever been inside one of these places. They're a lot of them out there and some of them are extremely popular (Wagon Wheel in Baltimore comes to mind.) Some girls make a ton of money in these places.
My personal favorites are the hybrids - places with a neighborhood bar atmosphere, alcohol, and low prices but with nude dancing and a back room that's much like the LD factory. There aren't many such places because in most states they're illegal. But where they're legal they can be highly enjoyable. You usually get a very entertaining mix of nice girls and sluts in such places and a broad range of customer types too. And when they're located in tourist areas as they often are (Key West comes to mind) they can be very popular.
That should get us started. Who's next.



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I have even been in some 24hr truckstop places, and worked in some joints that had pornshops and/or self-service booths attached. Yes, worked in all kinds of places all over the country, and visited even more. It's kind of a hobby of mine too - my bfs have always enjoyed entertaining my desire to check out the clubs too
And in my experience, MOST of the time, the dives/joints have fewer girls working and fewer guys gawking or grabbing, as the case may be.






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