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    Handicapped Customers

    I recently had a leg amputated and am somewhat self conscious about how the girl doing my lap dance is handling the experience when she feels my artificial leg. Is there any physical handicap that is a turn-off for you that you would prefer not to do a lap dance?

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    Aww, i'm sorry to hear that! Well, I used to have a regular who had an artificial leg and I didn't know at first of course, but I didn't care at all-he was such a nice guy & actually was great to spend time with (since of course i was at work and we all know how lots of customers in there are not anyone you'd want to spend time with beyond the $/dance etc.)and he of course gave me $.....the leg didn't bother me at all and i'd do a lap dance for a guy with any sort of handicap- handicapped guys need naked girls too! hehe

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    At a club I used to dance at there was a guy in a wheelchair that would occasionally come in. He never asked me to dance for him, but I never once heard anything negative from any of the girls about not wanting to dance for him. I say don't worry about it and go have some fun.
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    Well, we're not at work to be turned on, we're at work to make money. So no need to worry about whether the prosthetic turns a girl off.

    I have danced for men with prosthetics before, one who had two prosthetic legs, others with one leg or a hook or prosthetic hand, or no hands. It can be slightly awkward from a logistical standpoint - the prosthetic legs can be a little painful or difficult to work around, but it doesn't do anything to stop me from doing a good dance. As soon as I feel it I simply make a mental note not to move a certain way so I dont hurt myself on the hard part. I liken it to dancing for a guy with a huge belt buckle - I just have to be careful to avoid hurting myself or snagging my hair/clothes on it. Otherwise it's business as usual.

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    My whole goal was to make money, It wasn't to be turned on. I've danced for a few handicapped men, and I think my first worry was about 'huring' them in some way. The idea of that freaks me out.....But I've always been completely content with it.

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    I've danced for a customer in a wheel chair and one without an arm, it doesn't bother me in the slightest, just so long as I don't end up hurting him. Don't be self-conscious about it, just go to the club and enjoy yourself!
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    Godbless the responders to this thread. A handicapped customer should get equal
    treatment and should get all the dances he can pay for. The same applies to any
    minority race, religion, etc. Unfortunately, I've been in a few clubs with prejudiced
    dancers who would not dance for hispanics, afro-americans, or handicapped (wheel
    chair bound) customers. I don't think that is right at all. Recently a girl refused to
    dance for a legless customer who specifically asked for her. So I danced for him
    instead. In fact, I always make it a special point to ask the handicapped for dances.
    This includes mutes or customers with mental disabilities. I'm there to please
    and make money. I do not discriminate (except against insulting customers).
    I'm sorry to say that some dancers have hang ups and of course the managment
    can not force them to be civilized human beings. Unfortunately, this is just the
    way it is... what goes for the outside world goes for the club as well.

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    Unfortunately our club does not have the facilities to allow wheelchair bound customers to have LDs (the booths are upstairs and they are tiny, and there are no shows on the floor), so the best they can get is entertainment stageside which still is pretty shit as the stage is several feet high and sitting in a wheelchair, you have to crane your neck to the high heavens.

    Still, the gals spoke to him, sat on his lap, flirted with him and he was as happy as his friends who went to the booths. How good a handicapped customers visit is depends on the attitude of those who work in the establishment, so as long as they gave you a good reception, there really is no problem.
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    We don't care what customers look like, we'll even like them if they are nice and make us feel appreciated.
    I have given countless dances to amputees, wheelchair guys and the like. It doesn't bother me at all because I'd rather give a dance to a nice guy than one that acts like a jerk or is perverted towards me.
    So I wouldn't worry about dancers, they'll like you if you act like a nice person and enjoy their company.
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    I wouldn't care about that.

    But last week a guy came into my club and he was severely over-weight. I guess thats a kind of disability. And no girls offered him a dance. But I don't think that's at all the same thing. I think the reason is more that physically he was kinda,... overwhelming, and he had this terrible look on his face like he hated everyone. so no girls talked to him.

    But no, an amputated leg isn't gonna make a shit of difference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 242_fair
    I wouldn't care about that.

    But last week a guy came into my club and he was severely over-weight. I guess thats a kind of disability. And no girls offered him a dance. But I don't think that's at all the same thing. I think the reason is more that physically he was kinda,... overwhelming, and he had this terrible look on his face like he hated everyone. so no girls talked to him.

    But no, an amputated leg isn't gonna make a shit of difference.
    Yeah, I had a customer like that once. He had broken his arm, or something. He looked angry/pissed off at the world. I approached him, and danced for him. I have a goofy personality, so I'll at least get a smile out of it or a laugh. Even if they don't think my jokes are funny, which they are by the way.


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    Handicapped people can be intimidating to girls who have never really been around someone with a handicap. I am a nurse, and My fiance has lost the use of his right arm and shoulder due to an accident.
    If you still are not comfortable with yourself, I am sure it will not be an issue with you, but so not try to take advantage of the girls by making them feel sorry for you, that is lower then the ones who touch over and over being told not to.
    The best advice I can give you, Is if you have the attitude that you are just like every one else, (normal/without handicap) others will be more comfortable with you as well. Also, If you have things like phantom pains, and the dancing may cause it, dont hesitate to tell the girls. Jut let them know not to touch what ever part, and I am sure they will do there best. For example, because of my fiance's arm, it would be difficult to give him a dance. When dancing, we often put our hands on the guys shoulders and rest our weight. This would cause a lot of pain for my fiance, so if he wanted a dance, he would just have to tell them not to do that. By voulenteering this info it will also show the girl that you are comfotable with yourself, do not expect to recieve pity, and in turn, she will be more comfortable with you.

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    I totally agree with Lady. I often dance for people with handicaps of some sort.

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    Having a handicap doesnt make a difference at all. The only thing about a customer that bothers me is a bad attitude and disrespect. If you are nice and fun to be around then dancing for you will be enjoyable to the dancer missing leg or not.

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    Sweetie as far as im concerned money makes everyone equal in a strip club...just be a good sweet customer and it shouldnt matter...if it does to some girl dont give her your money cause there is another girl right behind her who will not care a whip and will prolly help you have a better time

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    Quote Originally Posted by PegLeg
    I recently had a leg amputated and am somewhat self conscious about how the girl doing my lap dance is handling the experience when she feels my artificial leg. Is there any physical handicap that is a turn-off for you that you would prefer not to do a lap dance?
    No..I don't have any problem with someone with a handicap..I don't really think much of it except that I want to get into the best position to give the best dance like if there is a wheelchair involved or such. A guy is a guy and it doesn't make you weird. The worst guys are grabby, assholes or if they stink. Remember strippers have pretty much seen and heard it all. Your leg would not be much of an issue. Most strippers are far from a "10"..we have stretchmarks, scars, and a lot of stuff we wish we didn't have..so don't be the least bit intimidated. If your a sweet guy..you will be adored by dancers.


    Plus..I love your name...the funny thing about it ...is that at a stripclub I worked at we had a nice guy regularly come in and was friends with the dj. He was an amputie...His nickname was "PegLeg" and yes he knew people called him this..It was kind of cool.


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