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    Occasionally my boyfriend's friends request my bf that he "loan" me to them for a while so that they can impress their friends.

    Have been on one such date last week, and it was fun.

    I feel that it is possible that on a later occasion things may sort of get out of control. My bf, Mark, ofcourse, doesnt mind anything and seems to be very open to everything.

    Is it worth it?

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    Oh wow...you are totally playing with fire here. There are so many things to consider. First...YOU don't say if it's okay with YOU if it gets out of control...and by "out of control" I presume you're talking about something consensual.

    If you two are open with that type of lifestyle and things are SAFE, then go for it. But I have to ask - does it not offend him in the slightest? This would be a typical guy's response to that sort of thing. "She's my girlfriend, dude....not some whore."

    What I would think would be the largest concern is someone actually getting out of control and forcing you into a rape scenario.

    The number of things that could go wrong are just tremendous. Unfortunately, that's when you'll truly know if it's worth it.
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    Oh yeah...while I can see how one would view it as a compliment....I think the request itself is disrespectful towards you.
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    ok let me see if i'm getting this right....your boyfriend's friend wants to impress their other friends by being seen with you? don't they know that you are already with your bf? or are these friends he wants to impress not your bf's friends at all, so there's no risk of getting caught in a lie?

    hmmmm...i can't say i've ever been in this situation, but my intuition tells me if this continues there won't be a happy ending....sorry

    being arm candy in itself may not be so bad, but this is your bf's friend. how many times is he gonna ask to borrow you? why not borrow some other hottie? maybe his friend wants to spend time with you. make sure they aren't trying to play you. if you think that your bf is open to having a trio, they may be trying to test you to see if you're down with it.

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    Seems like a dangerous idea. Some men get a kick out of making their women submissive, this might be a step in the direction of treating you like a posession/ object. "She'll do anything I tell her..She likes it!" You know.
    Your guy is a rarity- the one time I made a joke about doing that for a BF, he was offended.

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    Oy vey!

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    IMO, your private life is your private life and stripping is stripping. Keep the two seperate. What your bf is doing is making you into an escort. Escorts get paid a lot of money. I wonder if he is taking some on the side that you are unaware of. I would only do it as an escort in your situation. If they are not able to pay for you then why spend your time with them. You are out there to make money not give your time out for free. This is the seperation of work life and private life.

    Some people have a normal open relationship where freedom to do whatever with whom ever is fine. Swinging style. I was into that for a while with other swingers.

    Are your bf's friends "swingers" and do this alot with other swingers also. If so then you are probably safe for they know the rules and completely understand that NO is no.

    But it sounds as if your boyfriend is just lending you out at his will which is really very controlling on his end and also you could very easily end up in a situation that is completely out of control. You better get to know his friends very well not sexually but on a friendship level so that you can trust tem and know where they are coming from mentally.

    If they are your friends too then you should be able to have an open and honest conversation with them and actually believe them. Swingers believe other swingers because of it's nature and you probably will know people who have been with them before too. Depending on where you live it can be a tight niched circle. Mine was but even then two marriages were broken up over it which is so sad. So even in the so called safest of situations it can get out of control at many different levels.

    It's great that he is so supportive of you and your carreer desires but be careful with what you are doing now. If you approach it on an excort level it's in a different and you should be treated with more respect as opposed to just giving it out. If I were you I would be an escort and forget about your bf's friends.

    Never lose sight of the fact that this is a money bussiness if you lose sight of this aspect you will be eaten alive!!!!!! taken advantage of by everyone and end up compromising yourself because you will feel that giving out for free is the only way you get get along in life
    Your reputation will go down hill completely.
    and that is just not the case.
    MONEY MONEY MONEY always remember!!

    Just IMO

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    Can I borrow you this weekend?

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    My friend did something similar, though it had nothing to do with me being a stripper. Girl had dumped him but was like "but let's be friends! let's go out to lunch on Tuesday!" or whatever day it was, so he grabbed me and said "pretend you're madly interested in me." He felt crappy about it all anyway, and the whole thing was pretty dumb.

    I dunno, at work I pretend to be madly interested in a dozen different guys a night, don't really feel like extending that outside - part of the reason I don't want to start to seeing customer outside of the club, even if "only for lunch" or "only for coffee" ya know?
    But, hey, whatever you feel comfortable with.
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