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    Wwanderer, I completely agree with you on thatone, I have many friends that are body builders that have the same tpye of competition involving steriods.. They shouldn't have to ruin their bodies just because someone else wanted the easy way out and cheated. My friends excercise and eat right to get themselves as big as possible and they should never be told that steriods or other drugs are the way to go.
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    I danced at the one here last night! (Mia)...You must let me know when you are dancing though, I'll check it out! I'll be back at the scores in Miami after Jan. I am taking a mini vacation to New york for a little while.

    Hmmm, I went off topic again. Sorry about that!

    I don't know if it hurts my earnings. I haven't seen my earnings increase or decrease because I don't do extras. A lot of dancers I work with do bring home $4-5 nightly because of the extras though. It brings more popularity to the South Florida clubs because guys know where they can get 'some' from.
    4-5 k nightly?

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    is miami worse then tampa as far as extras? I have never seen a girl give a hj or bj ever.. Or, really anything else but grinding.

    Except one club, but i was a customer and left 2 seconds later.. yuck!

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    Miami is extreeeemmmmeeely High contact. I haven't been to many tampa clubs, so I can't exactly say one is worse than the other.

    Girls do extras right and left here. Management knows about it, etc.

    If you are no contact....You better have a damn good body or something to remain in Miami and make decent money. I personally don't let customers touch me, I am very against that. Look but don't touch is a valid rule for my regulars. I've averaged a grand or more a night. It just depends.


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    I've always done well with being a medium and primarily one-way contact dancer. Yes, I'll let a customer touch my boobs in a Champagne room (for $500+ an hour), but I get very obviously uncomfortable and other attempts at contact from a customer. I have a tendency to flinch if someone at PEC tries to rub my legs during a dance.

    It'll often cost me another dance or more from the guy, but in 5+ years of dancing, I've learned that most of these guys fall into 2 categories:

    1) They want to get as much for as little money as possible.

    2) They're willing to spend money only for sexual favors.

    Neither are people that I want to deal with in my customer base.

    FONDL, if you think that us lower-contact dancers are thrilled to have men that seek extras at our clubs because they might throw us a dollar or two on stage, you are sorely deluded.
    I've lost business to extras dancers before and I don't get too aggravated by it because I am a good enough businesswoman to make money most nights without resorting to that.

    I seriously do not understand the mentality of these girls and why they just don't go to work at a massage parlor or escort. These girls are fucking and sucking and bringing home just $500 a night? Have some goddamn standards!
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    it does hurt our money. i have actually had guys say, well so and so let me do this, or ask me when i offer a dance, what can they do to me? this was at a club that i worked at for only a few days. it was practically a brothel. at clubs where they don't allow that stuff i rarely hear those questions.
    even if its only a few people who do it a lot, then it becomes expected of everyone.
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    Last year a fav of mine lost a customer of hers who had been a regular for more than 2 years spending $100 on her every time he came in. She lost this guy because one night when she was out sick another dancer recognized him as a regular spender, got him into the Champagne room and gave him a blow job-for the same $100 that he had been spending for medium contact LD's from my fav. The next time my fav saw him he asked her if she did blow jobs too. Of course she refused and lost the regular. Not only that, he was pissed at her because he felt like she had been ripping him off for 2 years.

    How is the BJ girl helping the good girl to make more money here? I'm sorry FONDL but I'm just not seeing it. I think, in this case your logic is seriously flawed.
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    Unfortunately, due to the emotion attached to the issue and the perspective of most SW ladies here, we don't get to have any real discussion about girls that provide extras, out of fear of being ostracized and flamed--even though we all know there are girls here that provide extras.

    The only place where extras get discussed with anything approaching a modicum of evenhandedness is on the blue site, in which such debate of course gets tainted by the deliberately antagonistic tendencies of certain well-known posters there who shall remain nameless but still yet known.
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    CO I really have to disagree about any emotional issue concerning extras. I really really really don't give a rat's ass what a girl chooses to do for money. But I DO give a damn when it's done in such a way that causes me to lose money and/or makes my job harder. I got no problem with prostitution, so long as the hookers aren't directly competing for the same customers as strippers. IMO extras should be kept out of clubs (or at least contained in extras-friendly clubs) for BUSINESS reasons and nothing more. It's not emotional, it's financial.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampafldancer
    is miami worse then tampa as far as extras? I have never seen a girl give a hj or bj ever.. Or, really anything else but grinding.

    Except one club, but i was a customer and left 2 seconds later.. yuck!
    Never danced Tampa, but from what i hear from a few customers, Mons will allow tit fondling and such. Or has, no problem with it. Could have changed, but that's the word.

    Now South Fl, does NOT allow this freely, these extra activities are done in VIP, or near a bathroom. You can not play with a dancers tits by rules, and if you do so on the floor, you're out! But, again high mileage takes over, and lots of extras in VIP areas were others seem to turn the cheek. Now Scores Miami is trying to keep the club clean, i know. They are not too crazy about my ld's. And hell i only danced there a few times. I will take Lauderdale Scores, more contact is cool with that club it seems, which will bring in more $$$$. I like my thighs touched, ass cheeks squeezed (at times) while doing a ld, and some grinding if a customer wants. BUT the club has to be cool with this too.

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    FONDL: I not only find it difficult to believe that you actually find the non-extras girls' objections puzzling, but also have a hard time accepting your belief in the assertion that "this is the only industry where people feel obliged to complain about it." Personally, I've yet to find a single industry where those who are doing it the right way don't complain (and quite often, very vociferously) about those who are cutting corners and, not coincidentally, costing them customers/contracts/money. This, of course, is a large part of the impetus behind licensing, certifications, etc., in many professions and industries.

    As for this industry and the specific objections described, all I can tell you is hang out for awhile with some non-extras dancers who work day-in and day-out in a club that also has extras dancers... after you've heard them vent for the umpteenth time about how the guy that had $100 to spend was interested in buying dances from them right up until the time a girl he otherwise wasn't interested in let him know he could have a BJ from her instead of just dances from them for the same amount of money, I'm quite certain you'll come to understand their objections.
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    Guys, if you want extras and sexual favors, please have the balls to call up an escort or prostitute, or go to a massage parlor, or lingerie modelling place.
    Stop trying to feel like a "big man" by manipulating a stripper into doing extras or by breaking the LAW...cause the extras are AGAINST THE LAW ya know, and why should the jobs of us law abiding citizens be put at risk, because you don't have the guts to just be a "john" and call up a prostitute already?
    Why not call a prostitute? Scared of the stigma of being a "john"? Afraid that you won't be able to talk the prosititute down in price and you're cheap? Do you like the manipulation game you play with the naive, uneducated, or those with low self esteem? Or is it that you choose to fool yourself into believing that you're the only one who this stripper is being a "ho" for, and you think you'd get "soiled" goods by going to an escort? (meaning that you think you're too "good" to go to a hooker?)

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    What a dancer does outside of the club, is her business. However, when that dancer starts doing their business inside of the club, oh yes I have an issue with that. It's not just about the financial aspect of it, its also about the safety and reputation of the club. When dancers does extras into the club, it seems a whole the atmosphere changes too. Suddenly every request for an additional dance/champange room if followed by a "whats in it for me" or a "if I can touch..."
    I refuse to accomadate the extras customers, I just dont see the point. I feel bad for the customers who have to pay dancers in order to get a bj, hj, or whatever, but is your business when it is outside the club. When I walk in that door I several goals, make money, keep a great attitude and make sure that my customers enjoy their experience.
    I can accomplish that without cock swabbing some random guy for money.
    Besides, I think that the bj's and sex that I give are a priceless event and much more fun when I am doing because I want you, not because I want Franklin and friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brittany
    Guys, if you want extras and sexual favors, please have the balls to call up an escort or prostitute, or go to a massage parlor, or lingerie modelling place.
    Stop trying to feel like a "big man" by manipulating a stripper into doing extras or by breaking the LAW...cause the extras are AGAINST THE LAW ya know, and why should the jobs of us law abiding citizens be put at risk, because you don't have the guts to just be a "john" and call up a prostitute already?
    Why not call a prostitute? Scared of the stigma of being a "john"? Afraid that you won't be able to talk the prosititute down in price and you're cheap? Do you like the manipulation game you play with the naive, uneducated, or those with low self esteem? Or is it that you choose to fool yourself into believing that you're the only one who this stripper is being a "ho" for, and you think you'd get "soiled" goods by going to an escort? (meaning that you think you're too "good" to go to a hooker?)
    No kidding! I wonder sometimes if the guys are actually deluding themselves into thinking "I don't pay for sex! I'm in a strip club with a stripper!"

    Yeah whatever...Come back after the lithium kicks in, dude. There are SO MANY other places that offer those services. Why go to a SC and ask 24 dancers that will say no and maybe one that will say yes? If you want a challenge, go play some fucking chess.

    I have no issue with prostitution/escorting, but I think some men forget that many women entered dancing because they needed to make quick, legal money, and though they're not afraid to use their body to make that money, they do not want to cross the line and perform acts they feel will compromise them.

    In the last few years I've seen several dancers become extras girls for several reasons and it sucks. I think for a lot of guys it's a power trip, since they probably hate us for supposedly having this mesmerizing power over men.
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    I have long been of the opinion that, if extras are what you want, a strip club is not your best option. Escorts are a sure thing, the price usualy ends up being the same or lower when you figure in cover charges, drinks, tips etc. and you don't have a bouncer breathing down your neck while you are doing the deed.
    That being said I think it's a mistake to try and solely blame the phenomenon of the "extras girl" on customers. Are their guys out there who openly seek extras from dancers and play head games to try and get them, well yes, of course there are. However, speaking as an average slob who has recieved more than one happy ending, I must say that I have never solicited anything other than a dance from any dancer. Some dancers see the extras as a way to guarantee return business. Some see it as a shortcut to faster money, some as a means of lining up business outside the club. Inevitably, in the clubs I go to, it's the "pretty girls don't, ugly girls do" syndrome. A huge part of the problem, IMHO, is the fact that lowered hiring standards of many clubs have put too many sub-par women out on the floor who can only compete by offering a more hands on approach to lap dances. Extras don't just happen because men want them. They also happen because some women are willing to give them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us
    A huge part of the problem, IMHO, is the fact that lowered hiring standards of many clubs have put too many sub-par women out on the floor who can only compete by offering a more hands on approach to lap dances.
    I would say this is THE main source of the problem. Clubs hire too many girls to get the extra house fees. That makes it harder for everyone to make money, expecially those who lack the appearance / skills to be profitable in a club as a stripper. Then when those girls start upping their services to that of prostitutes, management finds it necessary to look away because they want the payouts from ALL the girls, even if it means letting them risk getting everyone in trouble for illegal activities.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brittany
    Guys, if you want extras and sexual favors, please have the balls to call up an escort or prostitute, or go to a massage parlor, or lingerie modelling place.
    Stop trying to feel like a "big man" by manipulating a stripper into doing extras or by breaking the LAW...cause the extras are AGAINST THE LAW ya know, and why should the jobs of us law abiding citizens be put at risk, because you don't have the guts to just be a "john" and call up a prostitute already?
    Well not to toss another molotov cocktail into this thread but it takes two to tango.

    I've never asked for or sought an extra in my life, but God knows I've received the moderated variety on more than a few occasions without the slightest provocation on my part. Many dancers that I've met take no qualms about initiating said activities. Everywhere I've been in the past two years, mileage in clubs has gone up considerably since my last visit there.

    As far as breaking the law, while I think it should be well noted so called "clean" dances in many locales (like places with distance requirements) are every bit as illegal as the sex acts are, case in point. Its those type of rules that often plant the seeds for an extras heavy environment, because there's simply nothing to be made by complying with the ordinances, which are often sporadically enforced at best. Even the "clean" dancers in said clubs have to cheat to make money. They just cheat to a lesser extent than the extras girls do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    I've never asked for or sought an extra in my life, but God knows I've received the moderated variety on more than a few occasions without the slightest provocation on my part. Many dancers that I've met take no qualms about initiating said activities.
    My experience as well, Doc. I'll even ask, "Why do you want to do that?" My basic rule is that is has to be safe and fun for both of us. And to add to Yoda's reasons, some dancers just want sexual stimulation from guys they like.

    Example: I'm with a dancer for the fourth time in five weeks. I like her; we clicked immediately, and she has a "nice girl" reputation in her club.

    I buy topless dances but she wants to go nude for the same price. She takes off her thong, necklace and shoes, smiles at me, and says "completely nude." She gets into it for two songs, then jumps up on the sofa, and lowers her cookie toward my mouth.

    Beautiful, bald, tan, neat cookie. But I stopped and said, "I don't do that."

    She looked rejected and said, "I don't do it with anybody else."

    So I explained that 30 percent of genital herpes cases in women come from the HSV I (oral) virus, and I didn't want her to ever wonder if I might be part of her health risk profile.

    It was new information to her, but she understood and gave me a free "thanks for caring about me" dance at the end.

    Question: Is this a nice girl or a slut? When and why do dancers change their behaviors? It seems like everyone hates (major) "extras girls," but no one wants to talk about the 'tweeners.

    FONDL, I think we need a Nice Girls and Partly Sluts thread.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    Well not to toss another molotov cocktail into this thread but it takes two to tango.

    I've never asked for or sought an extra in my life, but God knows I've received the moderated variety on more than a few occasions without the slightest provocation on my part. Many dancers that I've met take no qualms about initiating said activities. Everywhere I've been in the past two years, mileage in clubs has gone up considerably since my last visit there.

    As far as breaking the law, while I think it should be well noted so called "clean" dances in many locales (like places with distance requirements) are every bit as illegal as the sex acts are, . Its those type of rules that often plant the seeds for an extras heavy environment, because there's simply nothing to be made by complying with the ordinances, which are often sporadically enforced at best. Even the "clean" dancers in said clubs have to cheat to make money. They just cheat to a lesser extent than the extras girls do.
    Doc I agree with what you're saying, but I have to say, you never hear politicians and local bible thumpers complaining about girls dancing too close to customers or most of what constitutes a standard lapdance. What they scream about is sex, drugs, etc.

    I also agree that overly strict ordinances actually work to create more problems than they solve. But keep in mind, what they're trying to do is make it harder for sexual favors to be sold in strip clubs. I doubt the lawmakers really care much about a girl putting her ass in a guy's lap as long as the guy's weenie stays in his pants It's just that that makes it too easy for the unscrupulous types to simply unzip...

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    OK, I give up. I'm obviously misinformed. I wasn't aware that extras were so prevalent. Personally I've hardly ever encountered them. But I have frequently encountered dancers who were obviously high on something and I've even observed drugs changing hands inside clubs, which is why I raised the drug issue. I guess the reason I don't run into extras is because the places I hang out all have closely supervised LD areas. Which is fine with me - if I wanted extras I'd hire an escort, as I've said elsewhere. Plus the clean clubs have the kind of girl that I prefer. So I guess I'm still puzzled about one thing - if a dancer is upset about extras going on in her club, why not switch clubs? Are you all telling me that there are areas where all the clubs feature extras? Please, I'm not trying to be a smartass, I simply don't understand why dancers don't vote with their feet like I do. I don't go to clubs where I know there are extras, it's not my thing.
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    FONDL: I agree with you to a point but sometimes, depending on the region, a woman runs out of options. Dancers don't always have the option of drastic relocation for school or family reasons and often times, the behavior we are talking about spreads through all of the clubs in a given area. I recently spent a weekend in your hometown and it does seem like customers and dancers have a lot of options as to where they choose to dance or go for a good time. I can assure you that this is not the case all over the country.
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    ^^What yoda said. It gets harder and harder to find good places to work, where a non-extras dancer can make a good living in a decent environment. Sometimes it means travelling and/or moving across the country and not everyone can do that at the drop of a hat.

    Club management gets increasingly greedy and makes it increasingly difficult for the girls to make a living. Girls get increasingly desperate and customers see this, and many are perfectly willing to take advantage of that. Sniff around for customer posts where they talk about waiting until the end of the month when rent is due to take advantage of girls desperate to pay the rent. Talk to girls who've worked at clubs where, when business got slow, the club didn't bother trying to do anything to increase customer traffic, just raised dancer fees and hired more girls - ask them what happens at a club after that. Read here and talk to girls who've been dancing for several years (like 7+) and ask them whether money has gotten easier or harder to make. Everyone I know (myself included) says it's gotten harder, and it's not because we've gotten too old or let ourselves go, it's the industry.

    I remember years ago when a girl got fired on the spot, merely for touching her crotch with her fingers (outside the thong) during a multi-girl table dance in an effort to draw the customer's attention to herself over the other girls. You can bet nothing even remotely close to that would happen now. Not in any club. Now managers are more likely to say she has the right idea and encourage everyone else to follow suit - pitting the dancers against each other and leading to increased mileage for same money.

    This stuff is happening all the time all around, in some places worse than others, but it's definitely trending this way everywhere. It's gotten so there are almost no good places left to work. If you look for the young inexperienced dancers during your SC visits, you won't hear much about this kind of thing because they haven't been around enough to have seen much of it. Even girls who've danced for years but have limited club experience (ie, haven't travelled much) don't see as much as those who make the rounds. Hopefully most girls avoid complaining about business to customers, but surely you get my point...

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    Being from Detroit, we already have a reputation for being high mileage. Yes, we do lap dances. No,no,no, I do not do extras. I never blame a guy for asking tho. There are a large number of girls that for previously stated reasons will go the extra mile. I do however get really pissy if I told him no and he still tries something. My self-respect is worth far, far more than my bank account!

    My reasons for disliking extras girls are because the whole club could get shut down. Other clubs will suffer because of this too. A few years ago here there was one club known for "anyhting goes". That club eventually got raided and a bunch of new laws were passed and strictly enforced for about a year. Now, most dancers I know don't have enough in savings for a year-long draught. I know I didn't. By the time things stared to get back to normal I was in debt up to my eyeballs! This caused alot of girls to turn to other means to make their money. If you couldn't give a decent dance in a club then some turned to meeting customers outside of the bar for anything from dinner to sex.

    My other reason is that I am an entertainer. I am a consummate actress. That is my job and I take pride in it. I try my hardest a to create a fantasy for my customers. And it's just that, a FANTASY! I in no way ever want to be considered a hooker. While I feel hooking should be legal and regulated, that doesn't mean I want to be one. If you want to be a dancer, then be one. If you want to be a hooker, feel free, just not in a club!

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    I agree that business is slowing for strip clubs and I've said so on other threads several times. I think a lot of it has to do with the internet, which has made it much easier for customers to find private adult entertainment like erotic massage or private modeling or escorts, and I think these activities are drawing business away from strip clubs. The internet is changing a lot of consumer businesses; eg. I expect to see a lot of malls go belly up in a few years. So I guess clubs are fighting back by providing more than they used to, although as I said before I haven't seen it in the clubs I go to. Clearly it's not as easy for a stripper to make big money as it used to be. So what's a poor working girl to do? Some resort to extras. Frankly I'm glad that many of you won't do that. What other options are there?
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    Quote Originally Posted by FONDL
    Are you all telling me that there are areas where all the clubs feature extras?
    Yes.

    And a lot of guys like it that way, too.
    You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
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