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    Do crowds freak you out a little, I cant smile and pretend to want someone who I find revolting).


    How Do you plan to do this? If your new.

    And If your a long time dancer, how did you get past the revolting part of the job? The part where you have to saduce a man, you appsolutly do not, find attractive?
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    find money attractive

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    Money is hot. So hot. So sexy.

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    Yep, money....
    And it's just a job, you don't have to take the guy home with you. Plus, you can ALWAYS walk away, that is one luxury us dancers have. Not every single one will be disgustiong and the more they spend the better looking or personable the seem to get.
    Just think money, and if he won't spend it go on to the guy that will. They're only truly revolting when they waste your time and that also wastes your money.
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    Why don't you close your eyes, imagine/picture someone like Brad Pitt in your mind REALLY hard. Open up your eyes....it's Brad Pitt, it's Brad Pitt, it's Brad Pitt....just look at the guy in front of you like you'd look at Brad Pitt or some other guy you've totally got the hots for.
    When I first started dancing, an experienced dancer at the club taught me this. She called it the "fuck face" lol.
    She was really, really good at it, and before I knew it, so was I ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katharine
    Do crowds freak you out a little, I cant smile and pretend to want someone who I find revolting).
    This is why Kat is "really" hot. See becaue she can't help but be honest. If she doesn't feel it she can't fake it. Those of you who can for money, more power too you, you're incredible actors, but I'm guessing Kat is a hussler, but one that wears her emotions on her shoulders.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xdamage
    This is why Kat is "really" hot. See becaue she can't help but be honest. If she doesn't feel it she can't fake it. Those of you who can for money, more power too you, you're incredible actors, but I'm guessing Kat is a hussler, but one that wears her emotions on her shoulders.
    Sorry X, wrong Kat. I am a true and true hustler, but its taken almost 7 years to learn.

    Believe me, I can fake it a million times and million ways. I have no trouble looking into the eyes of the beast and letting them believe I want to ravage them.

    Good luck Katherine. I usually just try to unfocus my eyes when looking at them so they appear a bit blurry......seems to work, as it gives my face a glazed gaze look.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xdamage
    This is why Kat is "really" hot. See becaue she can't help but be honest. If she doesn't feel it she can't fake it. Those of you who can for money, more power too you, you're incredible actors, but I'm guessing Kat is a hussler, but one that wears her emotions on her shoulders.
    LOL Nope. Wearing your emotions on your shoulders is VERY bad for business. A hustler is one who can make ANYONE feel like she's into them.

    This reminds me of the girls who say "I can only dance for the good-looking guys" - LOL, well hun you won't make much money at this so may as well not bother. Most nights we don't get enough good-looking spenders in to make tipout.

    IMO, someone who finds the job revolting is probably not cut out for it. Most customers are aren't attractive and you have to be able to look past that in order to deal with them. On that note, I agree with the others that it's all about the money. I keep my focus on that. I want money. I want HIS money, therefore I want him.

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    Actually, I did mess up a couple of weeks ago. I approached a customer who was really terrible looking. I was still about to hit him up for a dance when I saw a customer who had tipped me big onstage. I promised the dude I would be back. I was secretly very happy when he left before I was done with another customer. THIS made me feel bad, as it would have been nice to make this poor guy feel good.

    I don't want to say that I feel like its charity work, but I think every respectful patron has the right to be treated to the full fantasy. I'm egalitatian like that

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    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    Bridgette

    So I guess you find each and every guy you dance for, incredibly attractive?

    Nope bridgett..... Im not "cut" out for alot of things, but I do like to learn.

    *edit to add* - > with all due respect .
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    No hun I find the MONEY attractive and I don't care what a guy looks like. I hardly even see that.

    Please don't misunderstand what I said - this job isn't for everybody and I know some people can't get past a guy being 'revolting' in order to provide him with good entertainment. You said you can't smile and pretend to want someone you find revolting....I was merely suggesting that if you can't get past that, stripping may be a waste of your time.

    My smartass comment in the beginning of my post was an answer to the new poster xdamage who apparently thinks that NOT being able to get past someone being 'revolting' is good hustle. You know it's not good hustle - otherwise you wouldn't be here asking for help.

    I went on to say that like others who posted here, I focus on the money and THAT is how I manage to smile and pretend with a guy I would otherwise find extremely unattractive. I know the custies dislike reading this, but if you look at every guy in the club as potential $$ it helps you be able to ignore their physical appearance. I reckon anyone can smile at and be attracted to $$

    Sometimes I can be too blunt or sarcastic for some, sorry I don't mean to offend.

    This job also requires you to have a thick skin. You have to be able to let alot of things go and keep rolling with a positive attitude in order to do well. Strippin ain't easy! Thankfully we can come here for advice and support

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampafldancer
    find money attractive

    HAHAHAHA Yep.....if you want to make money you better learn how to fake it!!

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    Ok, I feel like Im learning more, how to be an actress....lol )

    that is cool...... and maybe revolting is a poor choice of words....

    I apoligize.to any custies who may be reading this.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Katharine
    Ok, I feel like Im learning more, how to be an actress....lol )

    that is cool...... and maybe revolting is a poor choice of words....

    I apoligize.to any custies who may be reading this.

    What's to apologize for?

    If a guy's too stupid (or just doesn't care) to be clean and doesn't get it that his stench is revolting - well screw it, it's revolting. Maybe if more people told him he stinks or his breath is rotten he'd make an effort to clean it up - or maybe not.

    If a guy is really fat and doesn't already know that it is not a turn on, well then he is a dumb ass. Obviously he doesn't care about his fatty flesh. Too bad if it turns hawt women off.

    If a guy is genetically unlucky, or is getting older, or has been in accident/wounded... Oh well, we guys already know we aren't "hawt" stuff. That's why we are paying to be near beautiful women. It's not like we don't already know that we aren't turning them on. If you find us revolting over something we can do nothing about, oh well... but no need to apologize though. Why apologize? It's how you really feel so be honest.

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    Xdamage, she's asking for advice on how to handle a tough situation to maximize her profits. We don't do this for our health ya know Taking the attitude you suggest would not be profitable. Men don't pay for honesty

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    well I would just focus on how good *I* look seducing them.

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    the majority of the guys aren't revolting. maybe unnatractive or plain, someone you would never talk to otherwise. but i have met few who were so nasty-lookingthat i couldn't dance for them. i guess it depends on your threshold for nastiness, lol.
    i personally dont go up and try to "seduce" the guys. i go say hi, what's your name, i'm amber, blah blah blah. i just am friendly to them and talk and flirt for a bit. as for the dance part, you don't really HAVE to give a dance to anyone. you are free to duck and dodge. just go to a less revolting guy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Xdamage, she's asking for advice on how to handle a tough situation to maximize her profits. We don't do this for our health ya know Taking the attitude you suggest would not be profitable. Men don't pay for honesty
    love you bridgette--just my 2 cents though--actually for a loooooong time guys would always say, you're so refreshing.you don't hustle me. some really prefer less aggressive girls.that was my market i guess.i would say i was in the top 10 earners most nights. although i did make good money, it wasn't close to what lots of girls made. so i agree that you can do better without the honesty, but still ok with it.
    hard core hustling will get you more volume, but you can definately get by just being yourself (if that is more comfortable for you than "hustling") b/c a lot of customers recognize that for what it is.




    katherine, how long have you been a dancer?
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    Katherine isn't a dancer yet and I get the sense that Katherine is trying REAL hard to talk herself out of stripping?

    I Like to portray most customers as John Goodman (the actor). He's fat and bald with a very bad toupee' yet hes rich (Goodman is from St Louis and comes in the clubs here quite often when he is in town). He doesn't smell bad at all compared to the crank-head hoodies and thier ammonia smell (like some of the Nelly crew). I Know 2 girls (short legs) who have pulled muscles giving "fat guys" lapdances. I guess that is HARD but hey ... so is flippin boogers at McDonalds. Would you turn down a movie role if you had to do a love scene with John Goodman? Its "ACTING" and sometimes doing your own stunts. Be an actress.

    Never ceases to amaze me that girls will go to the beach in mini kinis and out to nightclubs in see-thru nothings and let the losers/geeks drool from across the room but won't do almiost the same thing for money in the strip club. This has changed lately though. So many girls come in on thier 18th birthday nowdays and say thier life long goal is to become a stripper. Thanks to MTV for the free advertising I guess.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ_WuLf

    Never ceases to amaze me that girls will go to the beach in mini kinis and out to nightclubs in see-thru nothings and let the losers/geeks drool from across the room but won't do almiost the same thing for money in the strip club. This has changed lately though. So many girls come in on thier 18th birthday nowdays and say thier life long goal is to become a stripper. Thanks to MTV for the free advertising I guess.
    No thanks from me. These are the girls who think its a glamorous job, and don't feel the need to learn how to sell, or how to act. It seems that the majority of the stripper pool these days consists of these young 'uns and girls still ashamed of being in the sex industry, yet strapped for the cash.

    It would be optimal for us, and for the good customers, if more dancers were at least somewhat educated, and came to do this with real sales goals, not to make a shitload of money while they got drunk and fingered by some punkass raincoater...

    I wish there were more girls like the Stripperweb ladies. We rock doods!

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    You know. In the beginning it was hard. But now that i think about it... the more money a guy has the sexier he gets to me while i am working.. hmmm...and i dont even have to think twice about it.. Unless he is extremely beastly and grotesque.

    It honestly doesnt matter anymore and on top of it i can appreciate a distinguished older man in my real life. Although my SO is a poor grad student.. lol

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    Some of us custy's aren't revolting, but we aren't GQ or Maxim grade either. However, I would think that a dancer finds it a little easier to dance for us not-so-hotties when we are tipping nicely, and treating them with the respect and gratitude they deserve. You want a Colin Farrell grabby-ass that won't tip, or an average Joe/Jane that smells and dresses well, and treats you like gold?
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    In a way if I were dancing for someone I would think a guy who's not particularly hot (unless he really stinks or something) might be better since I wouldn't be actually attracted to him. Since I've never done it maybe I don't know what I'm talking about, but I just know I have no trouble in general talking to a non-hot guy but sometimes get really nervous when I want to talk to a cute one. And I do know one thing. My dad has a friend with a Ferrari. He's not exactly ugly but he isn't really hot either. Standing next to the Ferrari he's hot.

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    i think the problem is that a lot of newbies or wannabe's do assume that you have to do whatever every single guy wants!! i have had so many people say, i could never let guys touch me like that. i don't let anyone touch me! if you don't want them to, they can't touch you.
    the newbies and wannabes do not realize the control that they have in the strip club.everything you do is up to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bunny
    In a way if I were dancing for someone I would think a guy who's not particularly hot (unless he really stinks or something) might be better since I wouldn't be actually attracted to him. Since I've never done it maybe I don't know what I'm talking about, but I just know I have no trouble in general talking to a non-hot guy but sometimes get really nervous when I want to talk to a cute one. And I do know one thing. My dad has a friend with a Ferrari. He's not exactly ugly but he isn't really hot either. Standing next to the Ferrari he's hot.
    lol bunny. i actually do get nervous at work around hot guys and most of the time ignore them. in general hotter guys spend less than butt-ugly ones anyway, lol. i will dance for them all unless they piss me off by grabbing or whatnot.

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