I never thought I would get jealous at a strip club. I mean, I AM a dancer and I KNOW the game but it happened anyway. Heres the story...
Ive been dating this guy for a month and were hanging out and decide to go to the local strip club and have some drinks. Were drinking and tipping on the rail when we each find a girl we like. We decide to each get a dance... goes great. He gets up and goes back to the tip rail and I go outside to smoke.
I come back in and hes in the middle of a dance.. ok Im thinking... so I sit next to him just to be totally ignored. He continues to drop a couple hundred dollars on this girl while totally ignoring me. Im getting irritated... the dancer notices me and finishes up the dance. I ask him why he was ignoring me (in an irritated way, rightfully so) and he asks why Im so mad.
WHY Im mad is that this guy had told me for a couple weeks that Im too agressive... like he didnt even want to touch me, youd think I had the plague. I summed it all up to him having some thing about wanting to know someone better before kissing (even cuddling was odd, like he didnt want to touch me)
Anyway - So now Im like wondering why he pays this girl to grind on him for 20 minutes but wont let me do it for free?!?!? I ask him why hes ignoring me, he says he isnt. Meanwhile did I mention that I ended up buying my OWN drink because he was busy ignoring me? So I walk outside needing to calm down a little...
I come back in 20 minutes later and watch him get 5 more dances (on top of how ever many he got while I was outside) He then proceeds to look in my direction while walking to the bar and BUYING THE GIRL A DRINK without saying one word to me! Im soooo pissed. Im actually jealous of the dancer that she got to touch him or something like that. I dont even know...
So I walk up to him and tell him to take me home NOW, arguing ensues, well, me being pissed and saying something and him yelling and yelling and yelling... havent spoken since. This was Fri nite.
Im not mad at the girl.. I know how they work but I was so jealous and now I feel like crap like what did she have that I dont? Ive pretty much gotten over it since we did only date a few weeks but good Lord what was his problem.
Do any of you guys understand this guys head? Was it something I did wrong? I have no freaking idea...
Audrey


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You are beautiful - you have nothing to feel self-conscious about over his little display of immaturity.



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