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    Good things tho. See, we only dated a month so it did piss me off that night but I was over it the next day. I just wanted a bit of feedback. Good ol mom, aunts and friends... everyone knows what happened and my aunts best friend gave me her sons phone number so I have a date with him Tuesday. I guess we met YEARS ago when I was 10 and he was 18... funny how a few years later age doesnt matter. Hes really excited to meet me and his moms been bragging about him to me since last summer when I told her my current beau and I werent doing very well..

    Its so hard to find a good man now a days... like WHERE do you meet guys? I now know to never date another guy I met at a coffee shop.. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh
    Its so hard to find a good man now a days... like WHERE do you meet guys? I now know to never date another guy I met at a coffee shop.. lol
    Damn right it's hard, lol. I ask the same thing, but you know what....

    It's true what ppl say, good things come when you least expect it.

    And yes, that guy was totally playing mind games with you....very immature of him. How old is he?


    I'm sorry you had a crappy date.

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    AudreyLeigh, glad to see you're not losing any sleep over that loser. Have fun on Tuesday!

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    Maybe he was just using you as a trophy to show off at the club. Maybe he knew the dancer from before and was just using you to score points with her, telling her what he was giving up for her?

    Anyway, it is good to see that you are ready to put it behind you and move on with your life. Just concentrate on having a good time on your date on Tuesday.

    Where do you find good guys? There are lots around and who knows, maybe you will rediscover him on Tuesday! Good luck

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    I don't like that crappy jealousy bullshit. I've had guys try and pull that crap on me.

    I broke up with one guy after a few weeks of dating. It wasn't going anywhere, and he already had shouted out the L word. Strange, eh? Anyways....After I broke up with him. He had one of his female friends text message my phone with,"Your loss. I am with your ex boyfriend now, and he's so good"......He apologized for having the bitch send me that and admitted it was just to get me back and make me jealous.

    It didn't bother me though.

    For one, Only a pathetic piece of shit would do something that stupid. I more so laughed at him and the attempt he made at making me angry.

    Anywho...Back on subject.

    He is just a penis. He might be a cute one, smart one, and even a nice one....

    But at the end of the day....He's just a penis.


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    I cant figure it...he's got some issue I guess.Why analize...fuck'im. Thats weird. I been a guy for a pretty good while now,and no clue for the motivation there.Maybe he's a'skeered of ya?
    like someone said,no pressure with a LD,but maybe he dosent know how to deal with a woman in the real world.Unless he's just plain rich,the fact that he would spend hundreds on LD's when he could be playin with a real girl kinda shows he's fucked up anyway. Whatever...youre better off. The shitty part for guys like me is we never get deals like he had,but we always get to hear about guys like that who flush em....life just aint fair sometimes. I noticed you asked where to meet guys...Wow..I'm currently sorta seperated,and I'm wonderin' where to meet women...Why should this stuff be so complicated? Anyway,smile....theres shitloads of guys that would be honored to be with you.Unfortunately,theres also shitloads of assholes that make it mighty tough for the rest of us...
    ."A long time ago,being crazy meant something...nowdays everybodys crazy"

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    Audrey what i am wondering now is if this guy told you that you are too agressive.....What the hell is he doing out with you???

    Hon, he has issues. And he may think you are very hot, but can't really step up to the plate with a woman like you. If he knows about you're past jobs, he is probably insecure. Actually his actions in the club pretty much show he is.

    Pamela

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena
    What she has that you don't? Casual anonymity. He's never going to see her again. He doesn't know her, and he knows she doesn't give a shit about him. He also doesn't have to do anything, doesn't have to participate in his own sexuality.

    Men can be wimps.

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    Lena, you are spot on.
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    Entirely off topic, but I think its a shame you had to go outside for a cigarette.

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    just my two cents...if he knows you dance or did(i dont know if you did) perhaps him buying all those lapdances in front of you was an assbackwards way of trying to assert power...he obviously is so insecure and intimidated by you that he wants ANY amount of imagined power...maybe his pathetic attempt at insinuating that he could buy "women like you"(yes ive heard this phrase uggghhh)its sad and oh so transparent

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    Really there is no reason to analyze this guy. The issue is he did not treat you with respect. Sometimes we guys can be idiots and do things without realizing that they hurt our gfriend but some actions are so obviously disrespectful or rude that it is clear that the guy is just being a complete jerk. Don't waste time analyzing his actions. The reasons don't matter, the actions are enough to move on.

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    Thorn is right. Everyone who says this guy is playing headgames, has no clue of what they are talking about. Unfortunately, this guy was being extremely inconsiderate and rude. You knew each other for 1 month and entered into a situation that could have went 1 of 2 ways: Enjoyable or Shitty .... it turned out shitty.

    Luv, Peace and Chickengrease!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pamela
    Audrey what i am wondering now is if this guy told you that you are too agressive.....What the hell is he doing out with you???

    Hon, he has issues. And he may think you are very hot, but can't really step up to the plate with a woman like you. If he knows about you're past jobs, he is probably insecure. Actually his actions in the club pretty much show he is.

    Pamela
    Yep. Thirded.

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    What a man-bitch.

    As they've said on "Sex and the City", he's not just that into you. But that's not necessarily a bad thing, based on the crap he pulled.
    "She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"

    Ernest Hemingway on writer, aviation pioneer and horse trainer Beryl Markham


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    Quote Originally Posted by infola
    Really there is no reason to analyze this guy. The issue is he did not treat you with respect. Sometimes we guys can be idiots and do things without realizing that they hurt our gfriend but some actions are so obviously disrespectful or rude that it is clear that the guy is just being a complete jerk. Don't waste time analyzing his actions. The reasons don't matter, the actions are enough to move on.
    But the fact that she's analyzing him indicates that his head games are working. Sounds like he's got her exactly where he wants her.

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    I agree with zenman. you have to get your mind off this guy pronto. karma's a bitch. which means the sooner you stop thinking of him the sooner he might see how stupid he looks and how inasmuch as he won't let you touch him physically, you won't let him touch you emotionally and mentally.

    if he has so little to do with his time that he can think up ways to mess with your head, then who really has power? you do--because then his brain is wrapped around you. but if you try to get inside his head, then he becomes important to you, which gives him power.

    there's really no way of telling if he was trying to screw you up, if he's just rude, or if he was just dumb, because we're not psychic. he might just think that since you're a stripper, you don't get emotionally attached to anyone and don't get bothered by things like that. which does bring up the question, since you *are* a stripper, aren't you more resilient than this? aren't you more wary of shady characters like him? if so, demote him back to customer and let his rudeness roll right off your back. shoot, I would just be mad if I wasted money on drinks, but you can get that back too, along with your dignity.

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