I need some help. I met this guy in August, and he comes to see me usually once a week. He has gotten to be a little out of control, by this I mean he thinks the whole experience is real. Now for the past couple months he is fixed on taking me shopping. This guy is very creepy and I told him right away I won't meet with anyone outside of the club, but he never dropped it. He talks to me in a brainwashing mannor, and it makes me want to just die. I get really creeped out by him, but i continue to talk to him for the money. He is always trying to nose into my business.
Now the guy has a bogus email I created for him. He send me daily emails about going shopping together and what he wants to buy for me, and then how he will pay all my bills and college. I told him that this would never happen and that I am in a happy relationship.
He also remembers everything I say, and repeats it back to me weeks later in the exact same way I said it.
Other than all this he sings to me, and when we go for dances he starts off slow dancing with me, and then sings me more songs. afterwards he will say to me, "Now who else would dance with you like that." and when I say "No one." He will say, "See and i can treat you even better out of here."
I am sick of his constant kissing on my head, cheeks, hands, etc. and he even tries to kiss me on the lips. Then says, "You should just relax and let me kiss you, I'm a really good kisser."
the final thing is last Friday when I was going home, he followed me out and then brought me back into the club. He told me to sit with him, so I thought he was going to pay me more. Instead it was more singing, and more trying to convince me to go shopping with him. Then when I told him I was tired and ready for bed, he followed me out again. I looked at the valet for help. So they made sure he was gone first, before they even got my car. Thank god! The next morning he sent me an email asking for a picture of me :X. I havn't wrote back, and no matter what he's not getting a picture.
I basically want to get rid of him for good. And I want to do it in an email, so I don't have to say it face to face. I know that doing it face to face will make it a long process and he'll come up with more crap (and a big loss of time for me). So does anyone have any suggestions on what I can say without sounding too mean? Maybe a story on how the whole strip club experience isn't real?



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Because he realized how much he loved you after he read the e mail,Thank the customer say,Thank you If it wasn't for you sending me that e mail He might have not proposed!Tell the creep that You wanted him(your boyfriend) To propose to you for the longest time!That you are so in love with him more then anything in the world and would never jepordize your relationship>>>Or just tell him that your boyfriend proposed to you for christmas!Act so happy about it!Have people help you(other co workers)By coming up and congradulating you.If he is a creep he won't back off,Then you tell him,Are you crazy,I love my fiance' and we are going to be so... happy!

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