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    I was watching Chris Rock the other night on TV. He was talking about couples and saying that the one of the ugliest things about being married is hanging out with other married couples-the long dinners, double dates, shared vacations, etc. compared to being single and never having a consistent sex partner, annoying things about 'dating,' etc. So........for the rest of your life, would you rather be married and bored or single and lonely?
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    Default Re: Married and Bored vs. Single and Lonely

    I forgot to add, because this is somewhat similar to a question I asked not so long ago (Rich and alone vs. poor and in love), take a different perspective for each. Example:

    One-you can marry the biggest psycho and not know it until 10 years later when you find out how many times they've cheated on you, taken money from you, lied to you, etc. Your 'soul mate' goes through an emotional crisis and dicks you over down the line in the marriage.

    You can be single and have the greatest sex you've ever had 'cause you're always doing it with different people and have different people admiring you/doing things for you all the time with no committment of a 'relationship.'

    Two: you can marry someone who may bore the living shit out of you sometimes, but it's all worth it when you look at the children you've raised, the ups and downs of your marriage, the honeymoons/vacation getaways together, and how you always stuck it out because you love each other.

    Being single would suck because you die alone. And I haven't hit my mid to late 30s yet to talk about sex (or does this happen in your 40s??) but every 'older woman' I've met talks about how HARD it is to date and meet a decent guy. A lot of the guys I dance for are 40+ and never been married. You have nothing to show as far as committing yourself (besides a child in some cases) to loving anybody no matter what.
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    Why do you have to be single and lonely?

    I'm single....im not really lonely.

    If I ever get married....i wont be settling....so if I dont find somethign right...i'll be single

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    I'd rather be single and lonely than married to the wrong person.
    Last edited by A_Guy; 12-21-2004 at 08:19 AM. Reason: I no spello gude

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    Single and Lonely. I'd never, ever stay in a marriage if I wasn't happy. Screw that. Life's too short. LOL

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    I think you should be happy with yourself instead of thinking that fulfillment depends on your relationship status.

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    Default Re: Married and Bored vs. Single and Lonely

    Quote Originally Posted by A_Guy
    I'd rather be single and lonely then married to the wrong person.
    Ditto.

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    Single.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

    William F. Buckley, Jr.

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    Married and Bored. Lust fades and even your perfect soulmate is gonna become boring eventually. I guess it depends on whether you determine your soulmate on LUST or Love. Seems most here are basing it on Lust. I agree with Susan ...be happy with yourself first.
    14 years working in Strip Clubs. "What a long strange trip it's been"

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    Married and Bored, eh? Hmmmm. If someone completely bores the air out of you, How long will that marriage last? I can only sit and stare at someone for over 50 minutes until young skippy down the street starts to look good.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward
    I think you should be happy with yourself instead of thinking that fulfillment depends on your relationship status.
    YEP!!!!

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    Not even a whole hour huh? Maybe a staring contest isnt the best cure for boredom. I Guess your attention span is shorter than mine or maybe you need fresher AIR than I do.

    Skippys sister has always looked damn good to me. But shes 24 and Im 39 (in 3 days anyway) so it may take more effort than I want to expend.

    While I appreciate my personal "time" I would much rather be bored then lonely. I mean if you're going to spend your years watching TV ya might as well have someone to argue with about what to watch?

    I don't expect my mate to entertain me. If Im bored ..its MY fault ..not my significant others fault. I should find something exciting to do. The 15 year difference between Rose and I is a good example of how your priorities change over the years.

    Remember the joke about the young bull and the old bull? I'd rather walk down there.
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    *Sigh*...My attention span is way too short, Wulf....

    Oh, look, a quarter.


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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    *Sigh*...My attention span is way too short, Wulf....

    Oh, look, a quarter.


    Edit: I just pictured you actually doing that.

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    *Sigh*...My attention span is way too short, Wulf....

    Oh, look, a quarter.
    You must know my ex then.

    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

    William F. Buckley, Jr.

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    I saw that!LOL!He gets me rollin on the floor!

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    When your married and bored you are single and lonely,really.

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    you always want a man when you don't have one and you always want to be single when you have a man, well at least in my case.
    the slutty one

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka


    Edit: I just pictured you actually doing that.
    LMFAO I totally did too. Too funny!

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    Ya Know,It's real hard for me to picture rose doing anything these days because I forget what she looks like,Dammit!Rose please put a picyure in your avatar for us for Christmas!

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    I think you should be happy with yourself instead of thinking that fulfillment depends on your relationship status.
    same here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tiamaria
    I saw that!LOL!He gets me rollin on the floor!
    Yeah, you heard him!! When he was talking about food/"the buffet" at the titty bar?!! He was like 'How u gonna eat at the strip club? Titties don't mix with tater tots!" I was dying. And on the whole couple thing, he was like, "Married people will go to dinner with each other for the whole night. Single people will go to dinner for an hour or less so they can go home afterwards and fuck! No coffee, dessert-just eat and fuck." Pretty much, I think that's how you gotta do it.
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