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    O.K thought i would share this with you all. This dancer comes into the dressing room complaining that she isn't making any money. Then proceeds to go on a rant about how she doesn't dance slutty and she shouldn't have to compete with girls that do dance "slutty". WTF I thought this was a strip club not a god damn ballet company. I tried to tell her about the old bait and switch, dance slutty on stage then give a good clean lap dance. Well apparently since she isn't a slut she wont do that. There is about 4 girls that have this mentality at my club. They act like they are too good to even talk to the costumers and then complain because all the other girls make more money. Well the day that there is a stripper that is too good to talk to the costumer is the day that the business will die. These girls are so clueless, And all of them have been dancing longer than me. The only time i see them talking to a customer is if he is young and cute. I personally wont talk to that many young guys because they all think they can fuck you and they are broke asses. The only exception is drug dealers, which I love as customers because they actually respect the fact that I am at work and trying to make a buck. Sorry for the rant i just dont understand these girls and thougt i would share.
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    Default Re: Some girls.... geesh

    Well, it's their loss.... more money for you!

    They actually sound like newbies, most newbies here have that attitude towards custies. They only sit with the young cute ones. Maybe since they've been dancing for awhile they are just jaded.

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    I know at least one older dancer that is like that, and I understand where she was coming from. When I started dancing we didn't do lapdances, we didn't "show pink," we didn't do a lot of the "slutty" things that I do now. We especially didn't hustle the customers. If a customer wanted to talk to us he would buy us a drink and the waitress would come get us, and then after talking and drinking we might offer him a table dance. Clubs today are a big change, sometimes almost a culture shock when I start thinking about it.

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    ^^What she said. If they're older girls who've danced a long time, they may just need to hang it up because the times change and if you can't adjust and work with the changes you're not gonna make money.

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    Well on the flip side of that remark, I do well at work and I never do things that I find morally disgusting. There are some girls at MY club who let guys suck their nipples,....(not allowed), finger them under their dress....(definately not allowed)..... meet customers outside the club for sex, you name it it happens. The buisness is changeing because girls...too many of them at that, have stepped over the realm of dancer into the realm of prostitution. I make money, and damn good money at that, but I'd be lieing if I said that I wouldn't be making more if their weren't hookers posing as dancers in my club. You shouldn't have to act like a "slut" to get $$$$. That's what escort services are for.
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    Um, we weren't talking about doing extras. Just being more aggressive in approaching customers rather than sitting around complaining, waiting for customers to approach you, only talking to young cute guys, etc. Of course you don't have to be slutty to make money. But in these times where girls are more aggressive than ever in approaching customers, us older girls who were used to a different game in past years have to adjust our sales techniques just a bit to keep up. Nothing to do with extras or sluttiness.

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    I never could understand that either. They act like there too good for this industry.
    the slutty one

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    I've seen that happen a lot. Times have changed, and maybe she should hang up her heels.


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    Default Re: Some girls.... geesh

    Just tune them out they will have you thinking the same.
    Go out there talk it up and make all that cash they arent making. Besides, as fas as bad moods go I think customers can sense that as well.
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    Default Re: Some girls.... geesh

    I started dancing in 1996. Like others have said, dancing has changed alot. In the area that I started in there wasn't any nude clubs. Now there are 4 of them there.

    Just try to ingnore these girls, as they want to bring you down in their depression. Go to work to make money, smile, and talk to the customers.

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    bambiblue i wa talking about dancing nothing more nothing less. The girl was taling about DANCING slutty, not extras. She is quite young , it isnt that she is used to how it used to be.
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    Quote Originally Posted by devilkitty
    bambiblue i wa talking about dancing nothing more nothing less. The girl was taling about DANCING slutty, not extras. She is quite young , it isnt that she is used to how it used to be.
    Oh sorry....I have a miserable cold and my eyes are watering.....The cold medicine must be getting to me.

    In that case the best thing to do is ignore the girls who are being negative. They are either jealous or trying to bring you down with them. Either way, you are there to make money and should distance yourself from girls like that.

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    I don't see nothing wrong with girls thinking like that because it's more money for me ! LOL I even met a girl once who told me : I don't dance for fat, old or ugly men ! Thank you more for me !

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    It is cool bambi I am sick too . I hope you feel better.
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    If you want to be a successful stripper, you must be in touch with your inner slut and know how to display bits of her from time to time.....

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    Me thinks you are right dearest Katrine
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    Default Re: Some girls.... geesh

    that girl was just mad cuz she didn't make any money that night. She need to learn a good hustle. Obviously the girls at that club were experienced dancers and she must be new on the scene to say something like that.

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    Maybe its just in some areas,but some places the girls who don't do much of a show on stage minus floor routine and pole work ,they end up making the most.I don't know why or understand that.I think alot of guys do like that extra girly feminem act.Some days I will do pole work and pole work,but other days I don't feel like it.It seems the days I don't bother to,I make the most.I notice that all the biggest bankers in the club dont do much eithor.

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    There is about 4 girls that have this mentality at my club. They act like they are too good to even talk to the costumers and then complain because all the other girls make more money. Well the day that there is a stripper that is too good to talk to the costumer is the day that the business will die. These girls are so clueless, And all of them have been dancing longer than me. The only time i see them talking to a customer is if he is young and cute.
    Some peoples personality just don't agree with this industry. I have seen my fair share of pretty young girls who just don't click into the groove of things. Which is fine. No job is for everyone, but the problem is they stay in the industry anyway and then act and sound like that dancer who was complaining in the dressingroom.

    It should go without saying that if a woman isn't going to be willing to chitchat and dance with men over 40 she needs to be a waitress or go work elsewhere.

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