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    Default Re: Still Friends?

    Quote Originally Posted by VADEN
    How do you feel about you S.O. being friends with an ex-girlfriend/ex-boyfriend?
    I think this is actually an asset, so they must be mature enough to see that a split was necessary, unless it's really all about one person still hanging on to the other.

    Do you think it's ok for them to talk on the phone every day?
    my last SO called her ex once in while, and it seemed pretty normal to me - since they are friends. Like a while back, I got a call from my ex-wife, who has now re-married and has two kids. It was kinda nice actually, any interest in getting back together - none, at least not by me.

    everyday? who knows, is it more than a friendship?

    Is it ok for your man/woman to go out to lunch or dinner with an ex claiming they are just good friends?
    only if the ex pays... ok, really - seems like a natural extention of the friendship

    Do you feel that when you break up, that all ties should be cut?


    Not really, but I don't usually ever call. I mean, other things are going on in my life. i get bored in seven seconds.

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    Default Re: Still Friends?

    My wife is still very good friends with a few of her exes. She will receive phone calls from them, go to lunch, go to dinner, even helped one guy fix up a bedroom for daughter in a new house.

    Has this bothered me? A little. Typically, I feel that I am being insecure and need to pull my head out of my ass. I have expressed this, and she is always willing (and has) put in some distance.

    I do feel like need to be confident enough in our relationship, however, to "allow" (that sounds so stupid to me) her to have friends who are males.

    Yeah...I know all the men in Ohio (and half the women) want to nail my wife...but she is an incredibly trustworthy person...so I feel a need to adjust.
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    Thanks everyone!!



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