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    if there is one thing i would want to pass along to all new dancers, its to look out for customers who claim to be important at your club. a lot of customers will claim to be friends with or related to managers, bouncers, and even owners, or say that they have some other sort of clout ("i'm a part owner," or "i'm so and so's accountant/lawyer/whatever"). while sometimes this may be true, if they are asking you to do something that is against the rules and try to soothe your misgivings with these statements, they are ALWAYS BULLSHITTING YOU.

    there is a particular regular at my club who does spend a great deal of money there every year (a bouncer recently told me that he spends about twenty grand a year at the club). he claims to own 51% of the club, which is patently not true, and that he decides if a girl can stay or if she'll get fired, which is also not true. i have only been dancing at my club a little less than 5 months, and i have already seen 2 girls get fired for buying into his b.s.-- one repeatedly allowed him to suck on her nipples on the floor after being told to stop, and the other was caught giving him a blow job in a v.i.p. room. both girls were told not to worry, that he would make sure that they kept their jobs, that he owned the place, that everyone listened to him, etc., when if they had been older girls (or as been as fortunate as i was to be told by the older girls to watch out!) they would never have allowed this to happen.

    so please be careful... we hear a lot of shit from customers, and its hard to judge who's lying and who's not, but do not bend your principals for anyone, even if they start flashing big cash and talk a good game.

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    yeah very few guys are who they say they are. The only time I will believe who they say they are is if the owner is with them or if my manager comes running in and tells me so and so is here or they are famous. The rest of them are just trying to get something for free.

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    good advice vsc

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    The guy who owns my club is Greek and has a very easy name to mispronounce....I love it when guys say they know him and get the name wrong...i just look at them and say i dont know that guy but i DO know the owner

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    also beware of the "flashers" the guys who put money all over the table, or pull out a wad of hundreds just to show off, i hate that!
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    Just another version of the guys who claim to be hollywood producers, talent scouts, etc.


    It's an old approach that still seems to hit the occasional mark.
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    Or they will try to pretend like they have a lot of money because of their fancy watch or fancy car. Usually the guys who claim to have the big $$$, and the fancy this and that, will not buy more than one dance; if any. They will just try to string you along for as long as possible. You will wind up losing out on the customers who really are there to buy dances and comprehend the fact that a gentlemens club is not a dating service.
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    Yep, as soon as a guy starts bragging about how important he is or how much money / property he has, or flashing alot of cash - it's time to go unless he's actually paying you at that moment. If he isn't paying, he's trying to string you along. Don't sit around with guys who flash cash or talk a big game, hoping they'll pay up if you spend enough time. They won't, and you'll just wind up pissed for wasting your time.

    In this situation, the "show me the money" attitude is useful....except make sure they're not just SHOWING it, but forking it over

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Yep, as soon as a guy starts bragging about how important he is or how much money / property he has, or flashing alot of cash - it's time to go unless he's actually paying you at that moment. If he isn't paying, he's trying to string you along. Don't sit around with guys who flash cash or talk a big game, hoping they'll pay up if you spend enough time. They won't, and you'll just wind up pissed for wasting your time.

    In this situation, the "show me the money" attitude is useful....except make sure they're not just SHOWING it, but forking it over
    Heh, that reminds me of a busy Saturday night at my old regular club in California...one night the bartender tells me some guy is flashing cash, claiming he'd won a jackpot in the lottery...later on she tells me he stiffed his cocktail waitress on a tip and wasn't tipping the girls either. He stayed less than an hour and spent maybe $20 on drinks for him and his friends.
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