Someone has developed a theory that we all speak "love" using a variety of specific language. That is, we need to "hear" that we are loved from our SO in certain ways.
1. Quality Time
2. Words of Affirmation
3. Touch
4. Acts of Service
5. Gifts
So, for example, you may specifically need physical touch in order to "feel loved". But what happens when your SO tends to "tell you" s/he loves you by providing gifts? Well, that may leave you feeling a bit empty.
The big problem here is that your SO may be trying desperately to tell you how much s/he loves you....not realizing that s/he needs to tell you in a different way.
http://selectsmart.com/FREE/select.p...=lovelanguages
I have no idea how accurate this little quiz is, but it did indeed rank things generally the way I perceive them in importance. I need time...I need to hear it....I need to be touched.... gifts are not important to me, although the time and effort to think of something really good will tell me a great deal...
Anyway...food for thought.



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So, Id say it was pretty much right.


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