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    Default Relationships and Love Talkin'

    Someone has developed a theory that we all speak "love" using a variety of specific language. That is, we need to "hear" that we are loved from our SO in certain ways.

    1. Quality Time
    2. Words of Affirmation
    3. Touch
    4. Acts of Service
    5. Gifts

    So, for example, you may specifically need physical touch in order to "feel loved". But what happens when your SO tends to "tell you" s/he loves you by providing gifts? Well, that may leave you feeling a bit empty.

    The big problem here is that your SO may be trying desperately to tell you how much s/he loves you....not realizing that s/he needs to tell you in a different way.

    http://selectsmart.com/FREE/select.p...=lovelanguages

    I have no idea how accurate this little quiz is, but it did indeed rank things generally the way I perceive them in importance. I need time...I need to hear it....I need to be touched.... gifts are not important to me, although the time and effort to think of something really good will tell me a great deal...

    Anyway...food for thought.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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    Default Re: Relationships and Love Talkin'

    Mine was right on Mojo...

    Gifts ranked last with me... no surprise there.. I'd much rather have a heartfelt talk or a nice gesture done for me than a gift . I value the nice act of love and the talk more than anything money could ever buy. I ranked like this:

    1. Quality Time
    2. Acts of Service
    3. Touch
    4. Words of Afirmation
    5. Gifts


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    Default Re: Relationships and Love Talkin'

    Mine's right on too.

    1. Touch
    2. Words of Affirmation
    3. Acts of Service
    4. Gifts
    5. Quality time



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    Default Re: Relationships and Love Talkin'

    I took it and it gave me this:
    1. Quality time
    2. Acts of service
    3. Words of Affirmation
    4. Touch
    5. Gifts

    To me I think sex is really important (dumped my last bf cuz he sucked in the sac and not in a good way). I like it to be all kinds, types, and ways. Also, I really like it when a guy remembers little dumb things...like my fave color is pink and maybe shows up with a pink flower. Im such a sap! So, Id say it was pretty much right.
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    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    Default Re: Relationships and Love Talkin'

    1. Quality Time
    2. Touch
    3. Words Of Affirmation
    4. Acts Of Service
    5. Gifts

    Yep, that's accurate for me.

    Nice post, Mojo

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    Default Re: Relationships and Love Talkin'

    The next step, of course, is to have your SO take the quiz...I'm passing mine on to my wife later today. I think I know what she "needs"...but it would be good to see what it reveals.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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    Default Re: Relationships and Love Talkin'

    Mine's right on:

    1. Quality Time
    2. Words of Affirmation
    3. Acts of Service
    4. Touch
    5. Gifts

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