I have had to deal with this psycho dancer for the last few months. When I first met her all she did was say how bad she wanted me, in a ridiculous way, it only showed how insecure she really was. Now that I have been working with her, it has only gotten worse.
She has been trying to call me out or embarass me in front of customers. She never did embarass me only piss me off.
When I am with customers she will say -that if I was not working she would be the prettiest girl there??!! HUH?
Or in a rude manner saying that I am pretty but then trying to rip me apart at the same time. She tells my closest friends that I am not so great talking negatively about my hair or whatever she can find at the time. She talks about everyone in the most horrible way.
In the moment I do not react, but mostly I find it inconsiderate, unprofessional, insane and RUDE!
She is always saying everything is about her, she will tell people enough about them "let's talk about me!"
I avoid people like this- like the plague. If they are low mood, low energy, constant complaining, self-centered...I can't be around them. I am understanding to the issues most people face throughout their life but this person is a serious pain in the ass.
She is so coked up all the time. Because I have ignored and avoided her, the problem has escalated. She is like a gnat that I can't swat away from my face. She is a pest. Now she is doing the boss, or whatever he is, of the club that I work at.
I did a search on the web 'how to deal with annoying people'. Everything I found said just to ignore them. But this is all I have been doing for months and now I feel the urge to finally put her in her place.
Not only is it sleazy, unprofessional, tacky, cheap, to be doing the manager/boss but she is married. I want to let her know that I cannot tolerate her childish bullshit, but at the same time..I am anti-conflict anti-drama.
I know a confrontation will only bring her to tears because she has no idea of how annoying she really is.
Maybe if she would lay of the coke she wouldn't be the close talker or loud annoying mutant freak that she is, selling herself short to the wanna be pimp running the club. She is doing him in the club during club hours.
I cannot even be around either of them. So cliche, skanky ho & scummy strip club manager. Tacky and sad. Wouldn't have a problem if she and he were not coming at me because I am not focusing any of my attention on them. They are so paranoid that anyone might be on to them!
If anyone out there has any advice as to how to handle this without a huge dramatic scene, I would really appreciate it. I just stay away, hide, from the main issue.![]()
Which is annoying people are annoying, and they won't go away!!!
How do I make them go away without making them more annoying?


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