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    I have had to deal with this psycho dancer for the last few months. When I first met her all she did was say how bad she wanted me, in a ridiculous way, it only showed how insecure she really was. Now that I have been working with her, it has only gotten worse.

    She has been trying to call me out or embarass me in front of customers. She never did embarass me only piss me off.
    When I am with customers she will say -that if I was not working she would be the prettiest girl there??!! HUH?

    Or in a rude manner saying that I am pretty but then trying to rip me apart at the same time. She tells my closest friends that I am not so great talking negatively about my hair or whatever she can find at the time. She talks about everyone in the most horrible way.
    In the moment I do not react, but mostly I find it inconsiderate, unprofessional, insane and RUDE!

    She is always saying everything is about her, she will tell people enough about them "let's talk about me!"
    I avoid people like this- like the plague. If they are low mood, low energy, constant complaining, self-centered...I can't be around them. I am understanding to the issues most people face throughout their life but this person is a serious pain in the ass.
    She is so coked up all the time. Because I have ignored and avoided her, the problem has escalated. She is like a gnat that I can't swat away from my face. She is a pest. Now she is doing the boss, or whatever he is, of the club that I work at.

    I did a search on the web 'how to deal with annoying people'. Everything I found said just to ignore them. But this is all I have been doing for months and now I feel the urge to finally put her in her place.
    Not only is it sleazy, unprofessional, tacky, cheap, to be doing the manager/boss but she is married. I want to let her know that I cannot tolerate her childish bullshit, but at the same time..I am anti-conflict anti-drama.
    I know a confrontation will only bring her to tears because she has no idea of how annoying she really is.

    Maybe if she would lay of the coke she wouldn't be the close talker or loud annoying mutant freak that she is, selling herself short to the wanna be pimp running the club. She is doing him in the club during club hours.
    I cannot even be around either of them. So cliche, skanky ho & scummy strip club manager. Tacky and sad. Wouldn't have a problem if she and he were not coming at me because I am not focusing any of my attention on them. They are so paranoid that anyone might be on to them!
    If anyone out there has any advice as to how to handle this without a huge dramatic scene, I would really appreciate it. I just stay away, hide, from the main issue.
    Which is annoying people are annoying, and they won't go away!!!
    How do I make them go away without making them more annoying?

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    Been there, had that done to me. She looked like Chucky the Killer Doll from the "Child's Play" movies, and everyone already hated her, so it was easy to find sympathy.
    Be annoying right back. Ask her to repeat herself, repeatedly. Play on coke-induced paranoia and hearing sensitivity....Tell her there's something in her teeth, or it looks like toilet paper is hanging out of her g-string, play annoying songs... I dunno. You could have fun with it, but honestly, she won't go anywhere 'till she wears out her welcome with the boss-guy she's banging. And SHE WILL........that man is already plotting for new snatch....mark my words...
    Good luck hon. At least you know to watch out. A lot of biyatches keep it under wraps, stab you in the back.

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    That is hilarious thank you for the ideas! So funny! The coke induced paranoia is rampant everynight. I find it amusing unless it is in my face, then I feel like choking someone.

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    Are there any othere clubs you might want to work at instead of this one?

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    Haaa, I like MadMaxine's idea.


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    try Fart Power in the drink .....

    or itching Powder in her thongs...* evil grins*

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    Tell her you thought just seen a SWAT member in black outside the club by her car. After all every good parinoid Coke Addict believes there is a SWAT dedicated to following them. You can even go to a surplus store and get a Black Nomex Baklava that SWAT Team members like wear and leave it around her car, even an old worn local PD patch would do. Better yet don't say anything and leave the stuff and watch the Paranoia build as other dancers feed her fantasy.

    Nothing like a little Passive Aggression to relieve work stress.

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    lol, this sounds like an evilpixydust question

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    In my opinion I would go and find a couple of other people that share like feelings on how you feel toward this person girl and sit down with her and explain how you all feel. If she takes it the wrong way then to hell with her. But make it clear that you arent the only one that finds her actions annoying. Its a team effort.

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    I find the best way to stop people from being so annoying or at least realise that they are being annoying is to ask them why they just did what they did - this lets them reflect on how the come across and realise how annoying they are.

    I live with a girl who is very low energy and low mood and it drives me insane. She will come in and just go 'Errrhhh' every few seconds in a sighing way. I turned round to her and said 'Why do you keep going Errrrh' and mimicked the way she did it. She used to do it ALL THE TIME but she hardly ever does and when she does she kind of catches herself doing it.

    Another of my housemates who is usually awesome will sometimes put people down a little (probably through insecurity). One time she said to me 'Oh great your going to practice your song AGAIN' I looked at her and said 'What did you say?' prompting her to repeat it. (I find making them repeat what they just said makes them feel vulnrable) She meekly says 'Your always practising it..' and I was like 'Do you have a problem with it?' and she says 'I was just saying thats all'.

    Its fun to question the actions of annoying people. Juts a simple 'Why did you just do/say that' can work wonders - especially if its in front of other people. Often they wont know why they did or said it so it gives them time to figure out their own issues! Generally I dont think ignoring works. They want attention and the more they are deprived of it the more they will do to get it. Therefore often the best thing to do is give them attention for their actions but of the negetive sort. Worked for me!

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    i had a young, kind guy come in and spend some money on me one night and the next night i thought i was working but couldnt. since he was there he got a couple of dances on this other girl and she apparently gave him her number (which is way against rules where i work)... he thought it was weird but came in the next night anyway and she asked him for a dance and he told her he was waiting for me. we went up to the half hour room, and when we came down his cigarettes were gone. he assumed some customer had stolen them but after i went backstage she came by informed him that she had taken the smokes and- totally seriously -told him to 'go to hell.' i dont know if she has animosity toward me but it was certainly inappropriate for her to be so rude to him. i think that girls with attitudes like this are found out eventually, because i definitely dont want to be involved with that kind of drama. i think it would totally scare any guy away. girls in bad moods are something i avoid at all costs.
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    That sucks. Spill drinks on her. But by "accident" if she sits down and starts the "you would be so pretty if..." shit while you're with a custy. I would tell the coke addicted cunt to simply fuck off.
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    wow that sounds pretty retarded. you could also do the sarcastic kiss ass play,, where you just say things in a way where she cant really recognize if you are sarcasitic or not and be so nice to her it makes you sick. or you can just tell her to fuck off.... either or,,,

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    normally, i would say something like, "i can't believe you just said that. how ignorant. please fuck off, bitch." but it's all how you deliver a line like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sumotek
    In my opinion I would go and find a couple of other people that share like feelings on how you feel toward this person girl and sit down with her and explain how you all feel. If she takes it the wrong way then to hell with her. But make it clear that you arent the only one that finds her actions annoying. Its a team effort.

    Ahhh, but that would only work with a rational person. This chick sounds anything but.

    I'd ignore her. It's not a perfect solution, but it's the only way to avoid being embroiled in her drama. Keep your eyes on the prize, bebe, don't worry about the other girls.
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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine
    At least you know to watch out. A lot of biyatches keep it under wraps, stab you in the back.
    Haha, this made me laugh, Maxine, but it is ohh so true!

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    It drives me nuts when girls work when there 3 months pregnant and they dont stop drinking and smoking and get all depressed bcuz they had a miscarriage. I think if you know your pregnant you should stop, if you didn't know you were pregnant that's understandable but if you don't get your period isn't that a clue to get a pregnancy test? The waitresses do their best to keep their eye on these girls and give them very persuading lectures but they never get it!

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