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    Remember how I said that you should never get with your ex's friends/relatives/etc.? Well, what if u got with your friend's ex?

    Have you ever messed with a friend's ex or an ex's friend?
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    with a FRIENDS ex????

    Well.... you're not much of a friend then, huh?

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    This is kinda funny.I wound up marrying my ex's friend 5 years ago,and now,I'm getting divorced.Life works in mysterious and funny ways,I tell ya.
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    I make it a rule never to date/mess with a friend's ex. It'll always ruin the friendship....Always. After the sex or whatever is done, You might not have your friend anymore.

    Now an Ex's friend? Sure. Boinking your ex boyfriend's best friend just to get over on him or piss him off is quite fun sometimes.....Not that I've done that or anything, err um.


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    Sure hun sure.....jk.

    I think that a friends ex is a big no no. Only b/c she/he might be offended by your actions and also be hurt. I think it would damage the friendship. Plus, if someone did that sh!t to me Id be pissed.
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    Friends Ex's are ALWAYS awlays off limits. "Bro's before Ho's" or some lame ass phrase like that. There are many many women in the world- never worth ruining a friendship for.

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    What if the friend's ex, wasn't really someone you chilled with anymore and who had definetly moved on from the ex? Is that still wrong?
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    It depends on the quality of friends one's has and the people involved.

    In my circle of guy friends, ex's (and even current girlfriends) are totally open season. Nobody will interfere up front during the "courting" stages of a relationship, but once things are locked in.. or over... it's open season.

    I've been pretty lucky to be in a circle of the same guy friends since 19-20, and for a while, 5 of us even lived under the same roof (total bachelor party pad- don't worry, we had a maid service LOL). Obviously, we defined pretty clear rules about shooting for a particular woman regular, but those rules were to make sure someone getting shot down in relationships wasn't alienating or removing cute girls from the homestead and the regular parties.

    So... we'd declare who we were interested in, and nobody interfered for a few weeks. But after they broke up, she was still welcome and many of us cross-dated ex's of each other during those years and still do. Heck, my current roommate started dating an ex-party pad woman from 8 years ago now that she's broken up with our other ex-roommates from that old house. He went so far as to call him and say, "I know you were interested in her back then. It didn't work out for us and she's single again- here's her number."

    All of us do maintain civil relationships with our ex's. I don't think any of us had a break-up of hatred or despair. I still have ex's from 10+ years ago call every now and then, email or occasionally stop by to say hello, talk about marriage/kids or how their lives are going. It's actually quite nice. I'm more than happy if any of my other guy friends want to try making it work with them. Just because we couldn't find happiness doesn't mean she wouldn't with someone else... and my guy friends are usually much better guys than the average loser males in this area. Win-win.
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    Heh, just keep passin em around. Sounds like a soap opera LOL

    I don't like even the thought of dating a friend's ex. For me it's not so much a matter of being a good friend but not wanting to create a triangle situation. Anyway I can find my own dates thank you, I don't need my friends' leftovers

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    Quote Originally Posted by susan
    with a FRIENDS ex????

    Well.... you're not much of a friend then, huh?
    This is EXACTLY how I feel. But to explain the situation-this girl is not my friend anymore. She had issues with me being 'a stripper', we don't talk, let alone see each other anymore and she has so already moved on with her life from this ex.

    I think both situations are wrong-I wouldn't go out with ex bf's friends or my friend's ex bf, but me and her don't even hang out anymore!! We haven't hung out in over a year. She had a baby, got married, moved on from this dude. I just see him occassionally when he's in town because he works out at the same gym I go to. So when he called me a few nights ago and we hooked up or whatever, I still feel WRONG because he's sloppy seconds, but then again-before we hooked up, I'd see him more at this gym than I'd see her. (He lives in Florida, I lived in NY and we'd see each other every few months or so in Seattle.) It was just recently this happened.

    I STILL just feel weird and kind of wrong about it, that's all.........
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    I don't see the problem with it. An ex of anything is just that. Now, i would say i was going to see the person, and if they did not like it....i think the friend has a problem. Maybe not being over the break-up? Or jealous? Why would they care. I would not if it was my ex a friend was seeing. I Had him first anyway....lol.

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    I GOT WITH MY FRIENDS X BECAUSE HE WAS 'HOT',AND IT JUST SORTA HAPPENED I ALWAYS HAD A THING FOR HIM WAY BEFORE SHE WAS A FRIEND OF MINE.ONE MINUTE WE WERE LAUGHING AND THE NEXT WE WERE MAKING OUT!sHIT HAPPENS,I DIDN'T PLAN IT,THERE WAS JUST A CHEMISTRY BETWEEN US,AND WE CONNECTED,THAT'S ALL....SORRY eILEEN!

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    A friend got with my ex and I didn't care - he was my EX not my NOW

    So why did she get so bent over me claiming HER roadkill?

    so much for it being a two way street

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    Friend's ex's are like underwear..........if your buddy took off his/ her panties, would you put them on after?

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