I didn't know whether to plug this one into the Hustle Hut or Customer Convo area, but here goes...
A few times we've had couples come into our club. It's not a very common occurrance, but I realise that it can potentially be an extremely good money maker.
I've frequented clubs as part of a couple to learn a few ideas on how dancers tailor their approach but have been extremely disappointed with all efforts (i.e. they've either avoided us altogether or come across as pretty darn cold, I find I'm the one that always has to put in the effort in the end and then I lose interest).
I know to be confident, open and relaxed, but I will admit that I personally find it to be a little tough to know how to break the ice when I'm seated next to a couple. What could I say or do to make them (esp. the girl) more relaxed and leave a lasting impression on both persons, how can I get them around to the idea for a dance and how do I close the deal? Is there a general attitude that any others normally adopt that works? I just don't feel that comfortable using the same approach as I do to only the men.
The thing is, I most definitely am not nervous about actually dancing for them, just a bit stuck on how to get to that stage. I just generally find that I'm reeling the guy in more than the girl.
Any ideas...??!



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Almost everything mentioned above has been done very successfully with me and my wife. I would add that with her, it is often a good starting move to (at least appear to) speak more "honestly" with her than with male customers. Be relatively open with her--establish a little bit of a female bond/trust in the midst of the male energy of a SC. Once she has gotten a little comfortable chatting after a few minutes, then turn up the heat/flirting a little bit.
] other times, erm, not so lucky - to say the least.
I soooooo wanted to yark. I think she must have had BV. I wondered how on earth the guy managed to have sex with her because I could barely stand to be near her fully clothed. 


). Most dancers pick up very quickly on what a female custy is comfortable with, and I have rarely been disappointed. I would also never ask a dancer to work outside of her comfort zone, either.

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