For some reason when hubby and I frequent SC's the dancers ignore us too. I am always making eye contact with the dancers and I smile at everyone (cause I am a nice person ) but the dancers seem to be nervous around us? I completely analyzed the situation and I cant come up with a reason why this happens, we are good tipers (me included), I am not stuck up at all, I am very open to the dancers coming over to hubby (I am secure) and we look normal. As a matter of fact I think the way we look may be the issue. When I go to higher end clubs like Crazy Horse, the women are all over me, which I dont mind cause its all in fun. But when we go to smaller clubs the dancers avoid us?