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    Ok, sorry if I am not supposed a new thread but I didn't think this fit in well with the sugardaddys vs. extras thread and I didn't know if it was okay to bring up an ancient thread so here it goes, please don't be judgemental.

    On this site I saw a sugardaddie.com thread so I decided to join and check it out. Well this one man messaged me and offered me 2-4k a week to see him 3-4 times a week, and I knew what the deal was. So I called him and we arranged to meet for today (Dec 29th) in NJ.

    On his profile he described his weight as "average," well when I met him, he was like 200lbs over what I would consider average. We went to his house and then he took my hands in his and said something and I just knew then and there that I couldn't ever do anything with him, not only was it against what I was brought up to be, but also I guess I am extremely shallow but I don't think I could you know.... So I drove home. But he was kind of mad at me, which I suppose I understand, but it is my choice.

    I've learned my lesson though, don't trust what you read on the net. Duh that was like a given. I just thought I'd share.

    Peace.

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    Sounds like you did the right thing for YOU.....I actually love the whole idea of the sugar daddie,,,, (well depending on the definition). I really do enjoy taking care of and spoiling women, but the way I LOVE to spend money I think I need to have more to start with.
    Thanks for sharing with us and good luck.
    (BTW,,, how about 2-4 hundred/wk,,,, LOL)

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    What's to judge? You tried it...didn't like it. He was mad? Tough shit...he should've joined a prostitution board if that's all he wants.
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    I think sugardaddie.com IS a prostitution board. Operates under a slightly more innocent guise to draw the naive ones in.
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    Quote Originally Posted by princessde05
    We went to his house ...
    Unless you're leaving out some significant precautions you took, I have to conclude that you are a very lucky woman to be alive. Stop to imagine the danger inherent in this type of meeting with a man who is essentially a total stranger.

    Promise me you'll never meet a vaguely known online contact anywhere but a very public, well-occupied place again. And it wouldn't hurt to take someone else along for the initial greetings so that person can identify the guy and he knows it. Take a cell phone picture of him and let him know you're transmitting it to some friends with a message so the guy realizes his mug is waiting to be given to police should it become necessary. You're fortunate you got one who was merely a bit peeved you didn't want to meet his desires.

    -Ev

    Let me amend my statement after looking at your profile: You are a very lucky high school student to be alive.

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    Well, I'm not going to knock you either for trying it out. You found out it wasn't for you, no harm in that.

    But like Ev said, you do need to be careful. There are so many weird people online, and any type of offline meeting can be potentially dangerous. Evan gave some very very good advice, everyone should keep it in mind. Always let as many people as you can know where you're going, and give them all the information you can about the person you're meeting (screen names, addresses, phone numbers, etc...), and the picture is a very good idea as well.

    Any type of "Match" sites creep me out. But anyone online can be a totally different person when you meet them, appearance and mentality-wise.

    Just be careful out there.

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    Thanks sweethearts, I was so incredibly naive. Never again!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Malibu
    I think sugardaddie.com IS a prostitution board. Operates under a slightly more innocent guise to draw the naive ones in.
    Lol. Yea naive enough i put a profile up with my PICTURE.....WTF? These guys don't let you alone. So yes live and learn. I really did it for shits and giggles...But had a guy send money because we talked. Still i do phone so, that site is not my style, they beg for more.... Again it's the site i am on, what did i think.

    I wish i could get my profile off....Maybe email the webmaster.

    Pamela

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    Oh Goddess. Where are your parents while this is happening?



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    There are so many weird people online, and any type of offline meeting can be potentially dangerous.
    No shit.

    I once went to this mini-stripper convention in Providence, and let me tell you, there were some characters there.

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    lol...

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    speaking of which... when is the next stripperfest.. Because im totally there!!

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    Not exactly the same experience, but similar. I once attended a singles' event, & got a free 'singles ad' for 2 wks. I called & got messages from a guy, who asked me for my number. I told him I'd at least like to wait until we met in person. This was a few yrs. ago, at that time cell phone numbers didn't show up on caller id, & I didn't block my call. Well, turns out the guy's a private dectective, he had my number all along, & started calling me, (& once at 1 am). So, I called & left him a message to leave me alone, thank God he did.


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    Wow Whirlerz,I hate it when people abuse their job titles.YUCK!!!
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    I'm so glad you made it out of there. Don't be too hard on yourself. It's a lesson learned in life..you got lucky and it wasn't your time.

    I too did something completely out of character when I was 17. The guy was 54. To cut the story short. I ended up inside the guys house..I waited for an escape and took it..He left the room the get "something"..so I ended up running as fast as I could down a dirt road...from an old farm house that looked like the one in the recent chainsaw massacre movie. I really kind of had a flash back to that night when I see "Jessica Beals" character hide in the ditch thinking it was that monster coming for her.

    I was afraid to wave any cars down..the one or two that did come down the road I was so afraid it was him..He had this tacky blue and white 70's van. I would dive into the ditch each time. I just thought if I can just make it home. I don't want anyone to know..I felt scared and stupid at the same time. It was the middle of the night , it was November. I was at least 8 miles from home. It was sleeting, I was soaking wet, I was freezing. I had a skirt and no shoes on. I left my little pumps there so I could run. There were no houses, light's or anything to help me out. I ran, and ran that night. I don't know how I let it get this far. But I do know...it only takes a second to make the wrong decision whether your 17 or 24 or 33 etc...To this day..I can still feel the fear I had that night. I was not raped, but I would have been or murdered. KNOWONE in the entire world knew where i was..just that guy and me. I finally made it home. I slept with my mom that night. She went to the police the next day because he showed up at my door the next morning. He was told by the police to get away from me. He didn't get in trouble cause he didn't actually "do" anything to me.

    I got out of that town shortly after that. I heard that he went to jail for molesting a 13 year old of his new girlfriend and that he raped my 10th grade biology teachers daughter.

    Some times one wrong decision can cost you. Our's must have been meant to teach us something. Lot's of women don't get a second chance. That fear is unlike any I have ever experienced since. I'm 33 now and that experience actually helps me now... when I deal with shady men. Trust yourself from now on. You made an excellent decision to get the hell out of there.


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    I am very glad you got out of that situation, Holiday.


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    speaking of which... when is the next stripperfest.. Because im totally there!!
    Maybe March; AinNY and I have to work out details with B when he gets settled in FL.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    No shit.

    I once went to this mini-stripper convention in Providence, and let me tell you, there were some characters there.

    LMFAO. Yes, I must agree.

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    Be careful,You are worth more then money I think you were very foolish to go to this guys house,even if he was handsome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampafldancer
    speaking of which... when is the next stripperfest.. Because im totally there!!
    Mid-February
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