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    Do you think that the attention you draw at your club is related to your boob size?
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    Default Re: Boobsize and confidence

    Well, I no longer dance. But, am small. However guys that are the "ass * leg men" seem to really like me.


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    No but I think being naked in high heels does.


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    I don't think it's really about boob size in particular. Men like variety, and as long as you're naked and act like you enjoy their ogling, they'll keep coming.

    There's a club I know of where the chicks are pretty hot, but most of them have the shittiest attitudes. Very snobby, don't make eye contact, act bored, etc.. The club used to be a crowd pleaser. Now it sucks. No one goes there. They all hit up the trashier club down the street. The club may smell like pussy and feet and it's really dingy, but the girls are fun to hang with, they like what they do, and they're approachable.

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    Rose and Hottie are completely right. Pretty girls with friendly attitudes are the ones that almost always bank regardless of how big their breasts are.

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    no it's called additude

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    i work in a small club, i think it matters more there. but silicone is 'out' in miami and cali so it depends on the clientel. however men are most impressed by confident women period.
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    There will always be men who love a big boobie girl and ones who love us au natural ones. To each his own.

    Personally, it's all in the attitude.

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    Attitude and personality trump breast size everytime.

    Every time.

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    No, I have small boobs but get lots of attention from my hair and being different from the other girls and dancing well. without meaning to sund big-headed (-:

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    Well, I have no idea what is popular these days. It's definitely different strokes for different folks. From what I've seen the small titted girls make as much as the big titted girls. It's really all about how you are with the crowd IMO.

    Mybay someone could make a poll in the customers section about this, ta see what's popular..... that is if it hasn't been done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer
    Attitude and personality trump breast size everytime.

    Every time.

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    My boobs are medium sized, non-BA, and I don't think it makes a difference for my earnings because I hustle my ass off. I could probably earn a bit more with large boobies, but its not yet time for me to have them done....

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    I don't think breast size is the end all either. Not to mention fake breasts are in fact becoming "out" in general and natural breasts are making a huge come back. Just look at the top Hollywood actresses these days; most do not have BA's.

    I have 325 cc's myself but I was training bra flat before so now I look in proportion but not too "fake".

    Even in the height of the BA phase I thought that the huge implants (over a D cup) looked RIDICULOUS and clown-like and far, far, far from attractive or beautiful. Some of the ugliest dancers I have ever seen were the ones with the extra large BA's. It sometimes seems like they are using huge BA's to try and distract from other things, like not so great face or a flabby body.

    That is just my opinion though.

    My best advice to other dancers about BA's is never, ever do it for the job. If you do it, do it for yourself and remember that they will be with you after you quit dancing, so make sure you get a size that will be complimentary to your body and lifestyle, or in other words becareful not to go to big.

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    OK I have small boobies but i am one of the top earners for a newre girl. I love my little titties and i get complimented on them at leat once a night maybe more. I think the way you carry yourself has a lot to do with the way paople precieve you. If you are confident in your body other people pick up on that and that is sexy.
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    I'm new here, and I may be out of fashion, but I like larger implanted strippers the best. I gravitate towards them. I like the look of a large natural, but they don't realize just how good they look, and don't like to talk about them. I'm a BIG boob man, what can I say? Score magazine, features, Chelsea Charms!

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    My ex was a size 10a, but I do like to look at a larger breast. But, as APS said, it's her other assets which make her stand out.

    I am a big fan of tight, small bodies, so normally that restricts non-plastic mountains on them
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    Quote Originally Posted by LauraLove
    I don't think breast size is the end all either. Not to mention fake breasts are in fact becoming "out" in general and natural breasts are making a huge come back. Just look at the top Hollywood actresses these days; most do not have BA's.

    I have 325 cc's myself but I was training bra flat before so now I look in proportion but not too "fake".

    Even in the height of the BA phase I thought that the huge implants (over a D cup) looked RIDICULOUS and clown-like and far, far, far from attractive or beautiful. Some of the ugliest dancers I have ever seen were the ones with the extra large BA's. It sometimes seems like they are using huge BA's to try and distract from other things, like not so great face or a flabby body.

    That is just my opinion though.

    My best advice to other dancers about BA's is never, ever do it for the job. If you do it, do it for yourself and remember that they will be with you after you quit dancing, so make sure you get a size that will be complimentary to your body and lifestyle, or in other words becareful not to go to big.
    Danm LauraLove is dead on ladies! I totally agree with you. When I was younger and new to the buisness I bought into this false sense of big implants being a crowd pleaser. Now I realise it is all about how you project yourself, are comfortable with yourself and feel good about who you are/ what you look like. People can tell if you are uncomfortable and that is what affects people's money. Sure there will always be guys with a particular fetish for huge agumented breasts but they are no diffrenent then guys with fetishes for blonds, black girls, girls with tan lines or any other fetish. But if you think about if guys like thease are far and few between most guys get dances from a wide range of diffrent looking ladies in a night. As long as you can mentally stimulate a man you can turn him on and fill up your wallet.

    Recently I don't know if this has been due to me becoming older or what but I have been feeling very confident about my curvy body, dark hair, natural boobs and just everything about me. I don't know something in me just clicked in my brain and I got sick of comparing myself to others and started appreciating my unique traits. Customer definatly sense this about me and are very attracted to my attitude. My money has gone up so much. I know not every guy is going to get dances from me in a night but I don't dwell on that and just try to seek out the people that feel a connection to me. I don't know if you can develop this kind of confidence overnight I guess it just comes from living and growing up and experiencing life.

    Girls at work, the ones with boobs jobs always ask me why I haven't gotton breast implants yet. They don't understand that I don't need them. I really don't care if they don't like my boobs because I love them. I have natural 36C's and I think they fit my body perfectly. They are a part of me and that is who I am. I understand they never reached this level of self acceptance but everyone in life lives their own path. People come to their own realisations on their own and sometimes you can't make people understand your choices and don't even stress about not being able to.

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    well, i for one sure hope so cause i just got mine done tho they still look natural cause i only went with 240mm, from an A to a strong B cup. i have a super attitude, friendly, hustle ass, eye contact, innocence, chatty, with exotic petite body, killer ass/hair, so i banked before, but all the girls i asked said a boob job mostly helps your confidence/self esteem, which radiates out to the clients, therefore maybe slitely increasing income. only prob is all the zillions ive lost these 3 weeks while recouperating! what the hell, mine will soon look awesome, and hubby paid for them as our 4th anniversary present! yippee. (but maybe now i wish i'd gone bigger! too late.) new post op pix posted as soon as swellin recedes.

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    I had my BA paid for and was ready to get it done.. for me.. but I had too many friends, and people tell me, "Why are you doing that? You have great boobs".. so I decided not to do it. I had a lot of pressure though to get mine done, I'm a 36C naturally, I've had a child, they have dropped a little, not much, just a little, I look awesome with my natural boobies. I'm glad that I didn't get them done. As I said, I had a lot of pressure from a certain person at work because most of his girls were getting theirs done. I've seen lots of botched jobs too, and after I had some time to think about things, I realized that I liked myself just the way that I was. So I chose not to do it.

    Now, I have an ass, or rather, I HAD an ass, (I lost a bunch of it, but I still have a nice firm one!) and the ass men loved me. They didn't notice my boobs, they noticed my ass. The ones who like boobs like boobs, the ones who like ass, like ass, the ones who like hair, like hair, etc etc... I think it just depends on the person. Variety is the spice of life.. everyone in this business has an atribute that is different from someone else.

    I am glad that I chose not to get mine done.


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    I have natural DD breasts. I actually envy smaller perky chested women. If you have smaller firmer breasts or a BA at least those bitches stay put when your upside down on the pole, I am woman enough to admit that big (natural boobs) are not really attractive when they are laying on your chin looking like 2 gravity challenged waterballons so I actually do much better with private parties. Attitude is definitly the key - I have seen men drool over very average/homely looking women because they exude confidence and a sensual karma...
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    I dont care anymore..big boobs little boobs my really big boobs..who cares anymore

    its all about the confidence i had confidence before my BAs and confidence after that didnt change

    What I try to push is a good friendly, joking attitude thats what men and women customers for that matter love..I am told that I am pretty quite often, not trying to brag but its the nice attitude that makes my money......

    Its a friendly demeanor that makes $..this is the straight up truth-

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    Well,I must say that dancers who I've known that have gotten theirs done ooze more confidence, but that doesn't always mean that they make tons more than they did, sometimes they forget that they are more than their breasts and they need to socialize.
    I haven't had mine done and probably won't. I've seen so many gone wrong that I don't want to take a chance like that. I've only seen a few jobs that look great and those were done by dancers that have had a sagging in the breasts due to age or children, so basically they were just filling up the spaces.
    I have a slim waste and I don't want to be one the dancers where there is a large space between the breasts and you can seem them from the back. Or to look like I have cue balls on my chest., meaning I don't tihnk my chest can handle any more.
    I think it is all about confidence and a little luck. Some guys will like you for your hair color (yep, some only like brunettes, grr) some will like the body, some the attitude or just all around everything. Try to please them as much as you can and if they do so in kind (with $) then you have suceeded.
    Not all guys have a certain body type in mind, so you can always try to convince a customer that you are worth their night.
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    on stage you do have to look attractive to get attention, guys can't see brains across the room. but personalitydoes have a key factor.

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    Even in the height of the BA phase I thought that the huge implants (over a D cup) looked RIDICULOUS and clown-like and far, far, far from attractive or beautiful. Some of the ugliest dancers I have ever seen were the ones with the extra large BA's. It sometimes seems like they are using huge BA's to try and distract from other things, like not so great face or a flabby body.

    That is just my opinion though.
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