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    Wow...so it wasn't exactley my first night but just this wednesday I did my first amature night.....in the wrong shoes. My 7in heels were really tight so I wasn't so worried about no ankle strap, but I should have been. After the first song, my shoe slid halfway across the stage and I tried to slip the other off since there was no way I was getting the first one back, and It almost hit the mirror. And on top of that I was shaking so bad that one guy couldn't barely get his dollar in my G-string. Needless to say, I didnt win.....but I did get a job!!! I have no idea how but I start Jan 7th!!! I did ok in the cage after amature night and I think Ill be fine with lapdances, but I will have to get rid of some of this anxiety.... So a few ?'s
    1) should i ditch the shoes? how do you keep them on...they are really adoreable...
    2) Is it always nerve wrecking on the stage or is it better on a regular night when everyone isn't COMPLETELY focused on the stage
    3)I have no idea where to get clothes besides ebay. The stuff on there is nothing like what the girls wear...
    Thanks girls! (and guys)

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    Default Re: Flying Shoes - My first night

    Have you considered hebal remedies for your nervouseness (no not THAT kind ) I use Kava Kava extract in pill form also great in liquid form but better mixed with water.

    As for the shoes you might want to buy a different set of shoes for the meantime. All someone needs a missing eye after their visit to the SC. You can kind some cheap ones at www.Snaz75.com I love their stuff. Or you can dance very slow to keep them on better till you get used to them. Whatever happens dont brake any legs!! Good Luck.
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    Default Re: Flying Shoes - My first night

    OH yea check out stripperzone.com for clothes..some cute stuff there. But, the best places are locally if you have a chance try to chat with some of the dancers where they get their stuff. Sometimes depending on where you work a pair of booty shorts and a sexy dancer top will do fine for newbies till you have a chance to buy some more outfits.
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    Default Re: Flying Shoes - My first night

    Hey there! I just had my first day the other day, so I can relate to your jitters.
    Here are a few things to consider when just starting out...
    SHOES: All my stripper friends told be to get ones with straps. Practice walking around in them at home so that you will be used to walking in them in the club. I think a shoe with a strap might be better for you. This way losing a shoe onstage will be one less thing you'll have to worry about while dancing onstage.
    DANCING ONSTAGE: I was nervous the first time too-we ALL were- but when your clothes are off, focus on how free you feel without them on. Forget all the people in the room. Dance for yourself. Feel and make love to the music. And remember, these men HAVE SEEN IT ALL BEFORE. Practice at home in your shoes. Guys LOVE a confident woman...if they see that you are confident then they will find that extremely sexy and that will come through in your performance. The more you do it, the easier it will get, and the more fun you'll have. Don't drink before the performance, as you are learning and need to focus on what you are doing and you don't want to develop any bad habits. Remember, it is all about having fun, and if any lameass guy says anything negative about you , just remember that it is a reflection on HIM, not on you. You'll see that as you dance on your second and third day, you'll be much more comfortable and when you tell people you are new, your customers will have a hard time believing it because you dance and have the (positive) attitude of a seasoned pro.
    CLOTHES: Ask the dancers at your club where they buy their clothes. Or you may want to do some online research for sex shops/stripper clothes in your city. You should be able to find some resources.
    Good luck and have fun! I'll bet you'll do great.

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    Default Re: Flying Shoes - My first night

    If you like the clear shoes with out straps try the ones with the double strap
    http://www.snaz75.com/pl-sky-302.html
    these are my ATF's and they stay on. I had the same problem with a single strap shoe, in the middle of a contest, my shoe went flying across the bar.

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    Shoes with straps are definitely easier, you have to have sturdy ankles to pull off the strapless ones, or either know exactly what the hell you are doing. As for clothes, try They have a huge variety of things, although the shipping does take a little while longer. Check em out.

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    Shoes with ankle straps are best - they don't fly off. Don't worry about wearing stuff like all the other girls wear. Wear stuff that looks good on YOU, and that YOU like. I don't dress like the other girls and it helps me because I stand out more. Not looking like every other McStripper is good.

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    McStripper! lol bridgette

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    Default Re: Flying Shoes - My first night

    Saw something interesting on television. They were using some double-sided tape on the heel of shoes to prevent them from slipping off. It is the same kind they use to keep those revealing dressing from showing more than they should.

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    Get shoes with some ankle straps on them untill you are used to dancing. Also try to go in ASAP to the club ask the girls working if they have any outfits they want to sell. Another good option untill you make more moeny is Wal-mart. Yes, I said Wal-mart, they have "booty shots and tank tops to match" in the underwear department. While you are there go to the hosery dep. they also have the thigh-highs that will look good with the rest of the outfit.

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    Default Re: Flying Shoes - My first night

    Definately get shoes with straps. This is a must for me as well...Even flat slides fall off my feet so I wouldn't dare anything higher. hehe. And wear new shoes around the house to break them in. I like to clean house in mine just to get a feel for a new pair. And as crazy as it might sound, Gabriel Brothers usually has some really cute stuff if you like to look through tons of clothes (don't know if you have these in your area.)

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    Default Re: Flying Shoes - My first night

    Here's a thread with some online resources......

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=43835
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