Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 25 of 29

Thread: How do you know its time.....

  1. #1
    Member sumotek's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2004
    Location
    Chi-Town
    Posts
    47
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default How do you know its time.....

    After reading several other topics, I noticed that dancers were talking about letting go of regular customers. This is only for regular's that act like a gentleman and they tip well. What determines for a dancer to let go of a regular? Sorry if this is a stupid question but I just wanted to see what kinda responses I would get.

  2. #2
    God/dess Lena's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2002
    Location
    On a sweet muddy river.
    Posts
    6,399
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 78 Times in 43 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    When they start developing psycho stalkerish tendencies.



  3. #3
    God/dess RoseDelight's Avatar
    Joined
    Dec 2003
    Location
    LA
    Posts
    2,982
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    When the checks start bouncing, Ha.

    Mostly what Lena said.

    I've had to let go of a few because they became stalkerish or wanted to move the 'fantasy' over into real life.


    --Georg Christoph Litchenberg



  4. #4
    God/dess
    Joined
    Dec 2004
    Location
    London, UK
    Posts
    2,218
    Thanks
    5
    Thanked 209 Times in 142 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Quote Originally Posted by sumotek
    After reading several other topics, I noticed that dancers were talking about letting go of regular customers. This is only for regular's that act like a gentleman and they tip well. What determines for a dancer to let go of a regular? Sorry if this is a stupid question but I just wanted to see what kinda responses I would get.
    Letting a customer go if they've got 'stalkerish' tendencies is perfectly understandable, but by definition, if they are getting obsessed, pointing them in the direction of 'away' might not prove so easy.

    Dancers are in the business of supplying a fantasy; unfortunately the male of the species can sometimes have trouble differentiating fantasy from reality - and a dancer who has a freely tipping regular is not necessarily going to point out the difference.

    If someone's "acted like a gentleman and tipped well" for a long time with one particular dancer, part of the problem might be the customer considers the relationship is becoming 'personal' and not just 'commercial'. He can't see that his tips have brought him entertainment, rather than friendship.

    The 'PL' syndrome?

    Phil W

  5. #5
    God/dess Jenny's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2002
    Posts
    9,746
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 50 Times in 31 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Regular customers, as a rule, suck. I've had a couple that I have liked, but honestly, they are too high maitenence if you don't enjoy them. (I'm sure many of you could barrage me with stories about how unpalatable regulars paid you thousands a week, but I've never had one like that personally. I'd still like to hear the stories though. They might give me hope.) But, small aside that probably every girl can relate to: it is sort of accepted here as the general wisdom that girls implicitly lead on customers, making them think that "the fantasy is the reality" etc. What about the guys that you outright reject, that still insist (and I mean INSIST) that you will eventually go out with them, and sleep with them and love them? Demo conversation:
    Girl (in this case, it's me, but I'm sure you can pretty much substitute anyone): How are you doing tonight?
    C: So when are you going out with me?
    G: Yeah. We discussed this. Don't date customers. Ever.
    C: Well not right now. But after you get to know me, you'll trust me, and then you'll want to date me, and later on get married and have 50 000 babies, right?
    G: I... I just don't see that happening. Sorry.
    C: You just think that because you don't know me yet.
    G: No, really. I don't date customers (this can be a lie, by the way. It doesn't matter)
    C: You have a boyfriend
    G: No.
    C: Yes you do. You must have a boyfriend. I bet he's a drug addict asshole that you support. I would never make my girlfriend let men like me touch her for money. Your boyfriend is a bad guy.
    G: Really. No boyfriend. I just don't want you.
    And so forth. They are not exactly psycho, although I can't see myself getting into their car, or leaving them alone with my pets (my little chihuahua would not last long against any of these guys, her skills thai boxing notwithstanding). But they have serious issues with reality. They lack it. Point is, it is NOT inevitably, or even in my experience mostly the girls that sit around saying (directly or indirectly) "No, I will love you if you just buy one more drink/dance/champagne/etc." The customers frequently come pre-equipped with their delusions that you cannot puncture no matter how brutal and direct you are. At that point, it is wise to just walk away.

    Unless you're having a really bad night. Then you might decide to put up with it.
    I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth

  6. #6
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Yeah, regulars suck. Too demanding, diminishing returns, etc.

    As long as they are paying well and behaving respectfully and gentlemanly though, no need to drop them. Unless of course you just get tired of them


    I say it's time to drop them when:

    1. They start trying to pay less for same amount of time - buying fewer dances in the same hour they normally spend, etc.

    2. They start expecting more time for same money - spacing dances out more, making you wait longer before buying, expecting you to hang out for 1.5 hours for same money as they previously paid for 1 hour, etc.

    3. They start acting weird, making you uncomfortable.

    4. They start trying to demand more "service" than normal or you're allowed/comfy giving for same (or less) money.

    5. They start trying to demand out of club time.

    6. They start getting on your nerves.

    7. They start acting stalkerish, or otherwise crossing normal customer/dancer boundaries.



    Eventually they ALL do at least one of the above listed things. Then it's time to dump them because it will only get worse once it starts.

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

  7. #7
    Featured Member evan_essence's Avatar
    Joined
    Oct 2004
    Location
    Midwest USA
    Posts
    1,613
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 18 Times in 11 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Quote Originally Posted by sumotek
    This is only for regular's that act like a gentleman and they tip well. What determines for a dancer to let go of a regular?
    When they become less beneficial to me than I am to them. For instance, they start thinking that I should place spending time with them at the top of my list over seeking out more lucrative opportunities on a busy shift. The reason you got the extra attention on a slow shift was because you were the most lucrative opportunity at the time. Want similar treatment? Be my regular when it's slow. And, go on, develop some alternatives. I won't be offended if a regular isn't so regular as to be monogamist.

    -Ev

  8. #8
    Featured Member sadbuttrue's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2003
    Location
    Mass
    Posts
    1,695
    Thanks
    184
    Thanked 49 Times in 35 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    My regular dancer calls me to come in once every two weeks to come in. And although there are a lot of antics to break up the monotony, I really don't push the envelope.

    I have not asked for her real name, phone number or anything. I have bumped into her at Walmart with her kids, but that's about it as far as outside contact. I try to keep my distance as much as I can due to past experience. If it ever did go outside, it would be her call.

    Once every two weeks and it's a good amount of money, but not ever increasing. She'll ask me for tickets to concerts now and again (she asks for four). She says she'll pay me back, I always refuse. She makes a pitch for other things now and again, which I have to refuse. Again due to prior experience.

    A regular doesn't have to be the way you say.

    >>>Sad<<<

  9. #9
    God/dess doc-catfish's Avatar
    Joined
    Nov 2002
    Location
    123 Tornado Alley Way, Hooterville USA
    Posts
    6,322
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 36 Times in 30 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Girls, I wonder if some of you perhaps define "regular" a bit too narrowly. If a guy is spending somewhat lavishly on you over a short period of time, I think that him expecting an increase in maintenence is only academic. Aside from getting involved in your personal life, that type customer really no place to go with you but down.

    Don't you all have a handful of guys you would term as "semi-regulars" or "entry level regulars"? Customers that might see you once every couple of weeks or perhaps only once every three months, and drop a moderate sum on each visit? (As in big enough to remember his face next trip, but small enough for him not to get deluded that you love him or owe him some sort of special treatment.) For those guys, spending the lion's share of their money on you, isn't so much about them getting emotionally attached as it is about quality assurance, which I'm saddened to say is difficult to find in your business these days.

    Understandably every situation is different, but it just seems to me that for girls who need to rely on repeat customers, developing a dozen or so of those kind of guys, perhaps even so far as to try to schedule your time with each of them would be the best way to go, as opposed to having one or two whales.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

  10. #10
    God/dess gypsy_girlchild's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2004
    Location
    Va mostly
    Posts
    2,750
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 52 Times in 41 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    If I am not comfortable with a guy I will not want to spend time with him. I think of a regular as a person comes to his time and money with me and no one else... And there are three reasons why I will stop talking to him
    1. he gets creepy and rude and makes me uncomfortable when I am with him
    2. he wastes my time by saying he'll get dances, but the money doesn't add up to the time spent
    3. he moves on to other dancers, I don't mind customers spending money on other dancers, we're all there for the same thing, but don't ever tell me that you'll get dances from me and then let me wait only to say that you were conned out of your money by the other dancer.
    Other than that I adore anyone who wants to spend their money on me, if they decide not to, that's fine, but then I will decide not to spend my time on them.
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



  11. #11
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Exactly Jay.

    No I don't have ONE single regular and I like it that way. I had a few in AZ (different type of club) but it was an extremely low-maintenance situation. Until one started acting psycho stalkerish and I had to dump him Every single one came looking for me, I did NOT encourage it or call them in, and I did NOT give them anymore than I gave anyone else who spent the same amount in one whack. Why would I?

    I don't do ANYthing to encourage a regular relationship. I give a good dance and entertainment while I'm with a guy and then it's off to the next. If some guy comes back and seeks me out, I'll play as long as he's paying and not cutting into my hustle time. But they always begin to expect more service for same money, or same service for less money - which is bullshit and a sure sign they're going on my ignore list.

    I think too many customers make the mistake of overestimating their value. Yeah, you've got the money, but so does another guy right across the way. The only time a customer has the upper hand (unless a less than savvy dancer gives it to him ) is when dancers outnumber customers. Therefore, I don't work in dead clubs where dancers outnumber customers. Why would I???

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

  12. #12
    Banned All Good Things's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2004
    Posts
    2,451
    Thanks
    33
    Thanked 601 Times in 233 Posts
    My Mood
    Daring

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Eventually they ALL do at least one of the above listed things. Then it's time to dump them because it will only get worse once it starts.
    It's good to have a list of things that we ALL do.

    Now I have a list I can check to make sure I have at least one rude, boorish or stalkerish form of behavior to exhibit so I'll know what happens when a dancer dumps me on my ass.

    No, wait. That doesn't actually happen. I'm not a hopeless overbearing, needy jerk, and dancers don't actually dump me on my ass. In fact, they call me on my cell phone. A lot. We see each other outside the club. A lot. Is it possible that every single regular on the planet is not exactly identical? (Yes.)

    Is it possible that I will convince Bridgette to change her mind about regulars? (No). How about if I spent a ton of money on her? (No). No, really, a ton, like $10,000? (No). $20,000? (No). $50,000? (No.) Hmmm. A beach house in the Caribbean? (No). Her own private plane? (No). Her own private plane, a beach house in the Caribbean, a cook, masseur, housekeeping services, a poolboy, free HBO, sailboat and a pretty decent standup comedian? (No). How about a really good standup comedian, like Bill Maher? (No). You know, Maher is a friend of mine. (BFD). I would offer you Conan, but I'd have to go through my agent, and it would only impress Rhia (yawn).

    Is it possible that the reason I really like Bridgette is that she doesn't take any crap from me or anybody else? (ding! ding! ding! ding!)

    OK.

    We now return you to regularly scheduled programming.

  13. #13
    Featured Member sadbuttrue's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2003
    Location
    Mass
    Posts
    1,695
    Thanks
    184
    Thanked 49 Times in 35 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Yes, customers do overestimate their value sometimes. It's usually when they have not been exposed to all this for very long. I made those in-club mistakes early on. It's like being a kid in a candy store with a ton of money. "Oh you mean I can have all the Reese's Peanut Butter Cups AND the all the chocolate-covered caramels I want?????". Trouble is, most of them are chocolate but filled with orange cream and nuts.

    The ATF relationship was one where she pursued me outside and relied on me as one of her push boys. And, without my asking, after two years outside told me that a relationship was possible. It wasn't. So I dropped her ass ending a long 4 1/2 year relationship.

    Now, two years later. I am still a regular and there have been two dancers since. The last one was consistent as the sun coming up. No out-of-club stuff except we had each other's phone numbers and would talk once every couple of weeks. Then, all of a sudden, the thing that was so scheduled fell over. We'd call each other on the usual day when she was supposed to meet, and there was no question about when. It was at the beginning of the shift, so there should not have been any reason for this, but I'd find myself waiting for as much as two hours while she was with another customer for a thing which was time-scheduled. It took about three of those before I dropped her.

    This one seems to be working out better. Date-scheduled but not time-scheduled and she will call as little as an hour before to confirm and I have no phone number by choice. No out-of-club stuff. And as I said, I know very little about her. Actually the subject came up last week, prompted by the ATF's return to dance at our club (but also the club we once danced in together as well). Drama, drama, drama. But that's off-topic.

    >>>Sad<<<

  14. #14
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    LOL! Sorry guys, but we'll get bored with even the best of ya after a while.

    Yes I know some girls like the reg game and will use various OTC contact to maintain the relationships. I've just found that it's detrimental to my bottom line, so I don't bother I also know not all regs are the same, but in my experience, even the best will cross some line eventually.

    I might also add, TOO, that in your area, since the girls can't sell anything but their time and company to make money - no lapdances - they are somewhat forced to take things OTC to some degree in order to keep the regs coming back. Would you continue spending money on your faves if they didn't EVER call you? Or have dinner/lunch with you? Remember one of my criteria for dumping a reg is when he starts expecting OTC time....

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

  15. #15
    Featured Member sadbuttrue's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2003
    Location
    Mass
    Posts
    1,695
    Thanks
    184
    Thanked 49 Times in 35 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Well, in my case, both the ATF and the current fave are lap dancers.

    The ATF needed lap dance to function. The whole GFE thing, at least when we started was not necessary. I just was enlisted as a friend when a serious need arose and she/we kept that going for 2 1/2 years. This one crossed the line and so I dumped her.

    The current fave is a reluctant lap dancer and would rather not do it. But man, she can LD the heck out of you. As far as the phone call thing goes, I dunno. Because they always ask for it these days if I am a reg and they use it.

    Most girls I have been regular with cross the line talking about OTC. With some I just ignore them. Early on, before the ATF - NO. Since then I came to understand SS better when I heard it.

    >>>Sad<<<

  16. #16
    Featured Member sadbuttrue's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2003
    Location
    Mass
    Posts
    1,695
    Thanks
    184
    Thanked 49 Times in 35 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    OTOH, maybe I'm looking at this wrong, Bridgette. Maybe you are just too fascinating to avoid stalking...lol

    >>>Sad<<<

  17. #17
    Veteran Member SeppeSai's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2004
    Location
    Los Angeles
    Posts
    522
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Would you continue spending money on your faves if they didn't EVER call you? Or have dinner/lunch with you? Remember one of my criteria for dumping a reg is when he starts expecting OTC time....
    B, I did continue to spend money on a former favorite who didn't call me back or had intimated several times that she'd like to see me OTC. At the time, I gave her all the options by telling her to call me if she wanted to connect. She never did. No big loss. She later cut our relationship off by bushwhacking me about an OTC encounter that she had allegedly set up for us, but canceled in a jealous fit over $40 in dances I got from one of her on/off rivals.

    To that point, she'd had all my money and all my interest, but that killed it for us. So I moved on and found another one of her on/off rivals, who eventually became my ATF.

    With my ATF, it's all about what goes on inside the club and nothing else. When I walk out that door, I know that's it until the next time I visit. She's given me no illusions whatsoever on any kind of OTC contact, and I myself harbor no expectations, hopes, or ideas about anything connected with OTC business. I go to see her, spend on and tip her well, and that's that.
    --



  18. #18
    Banned All Good Things's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2004
    Posts
    2,451
    Thanks
    33
    Thanked 601 Times in 233 Posts
    My Mood
    Daring

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    I might also add, TOO, that in your area, since the girls can't sell anything but their time and company to make money - no lapdances - they are somewhat forced to take things OTC to some degree in order to keep the regs coming back. Would you continue spending money on your faves if they didn't EVER call you? Or have dinner/lunch with you? Remember one of my criteria for dumping a reg is when he starts expecting OTC time....
    Well, keeping with the theme, "all regulars are not the same," it's worth remembering that we are not all looking for the same experience, either. If I wanted lap dances, I would certainly go to a different club. Baltimore isn't that far away, right?

    I've mentioned this before, but as much as I like PEC (fabulous club) or Spearmint Rhino in Vegas or the Brass Rail in Toronto or GGC in Baltimore or....wherever, I end up missing my home club terribly.

    And I would expect you to dump a regular if he expected OTC time. What if it's the dancer who pursues it? My own criterion is to leave the dancer entirely in control of OTC. You can imagine the insane roller-coaster ride that results, but the one thing it doesn't do is lead me to expect anything.

    Anyway, to answer your questions, I already spend considerably on in-club faves whether they call me or not (although most do). It's important to emphasize this because what makes the club work is the dynamic of the party atmosphere at the tables. It's not the twirling on the mini-stages.

    Would I continue to spend on the OTC faves if they didn't call me or have lunch/dinner with me? Well, of course. I'm not spending on them because they have lunch/dinner with me.

    Final thought. There is such an exhilarating variety of talented dancers in this industry. My plea is that you consider the possibility that all regulars were not mass-produced with "PL" stamped on their forehead in some collapsing industrial park in South Jersey.

  19. #19
    Member
    Joined
    Nov 2003
    Posts
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    I'd really like to beat this theme to death, so here goes. Customers in any service industry are going to come in many different varieties. Since I work in the legal field, I can speak to the fact, that attorneys have all sorts of different types of clients, we have:

    1) the demanding want all your time but don't wanna pay clients,

    2) we have the brag about all your money - I own you clients

    3) the nitpicky -drama king or queen clients,

    on the other hand we also have the

    1) pay on time, let the attorney do his job client

    2) pay on time, helpful client who makes my job easier; and

    3) the consistent paying, great, cool person client who is your friend and good client

    These are but a small sampling of the numerous different type of clients I find in my field. I obviously enjoy working for the nice, helpful clients, and generally see no reason to end a "regular" business relationships. However the other type of client, once they attempt t to take advantage of you, it can be advisable to drop them when it becomes less profitable to keep them.

    I can only surmise that a dancer deals with a similar client spectrum than any other industry (perhaps magnified to a degree) but you have the good and the bad. There's no reason to drop the good regular clients, and not all good regular clients eventually try to take advantage of the dancer.

  20. #20
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Yeah, I know very well some guys make better regs than others. I also know how much you dislike this statement: Being such an intimately personal business, even the very best regs can bore or annoy a dancer, no matter how much she may "like" them. Even the best can unconsciously cross some line that eventually makes them less than desirable customers.

    We've said umpteen times around here, that the SW guys can hardly be compared to most SC customers. BUT you're all still human. Maybe you guys NEVER do anything to piss off, bore or annoy a dancer. Maybe you NEVER cross any lines or do anything to cause the ruin of a perfectly good customer/dancer relationship. But I doubt it. You're all still human. After seeing thousands upon thousands of customers and dealing with all manner of really great guys, I can tell you, every single one does something stupid eventually. Just like even the best of dancers eventually bore or annoy you, or otherwise do something to cause you to "like" them less.

    But it's nothing to lose sleep over. How many reg relationships are maintained forever, or until the dancer retires or customer quits going to SCs entirely? I've never heard of any. They all run their course one way or another.

    I also realize, as stated before, that many girls like to play the regular game, and part of that involves calling and/or spending OTC time. It's how the game is played. However, IMHO they're lazy and selling themselves short in most cases. Rare is the reg who pays enough to ensure his fave truly makes more by foregoing the hustle in order to hang out with him.

    The question here was why do dancers drop regulars. We're giving the answers. Like it or not.

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

  21. #21
    Featured Member sadbuttrue's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2003
    Location
    Mass
    Posts
    1,695
    Thanks
    184
    Thanked 49 Times in 35 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Just like even the best of dancers eventually bore or annoy you, or otherwise do something to cause you to "like" them less.
    I guess I can die happy now!

    >>>Sad<<<

  22. #22
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....


    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

  23. #23
    Senior Member LapOfLuxury's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2002
    Location
    Los Angeles
    Posts
    181
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    How many reg relationships are maintained forever, or until the dancer retires or customer quits going to SCs entirely? I've never heard of any. They all run their course one way or another.
    With EVERY major fave I've ever had, the dancer/customer relationship didn't end until the dancer either retired or moved to another city. Several of these have been multi-year. I've never had a falling out with a fave. There was one who eventually refused to give me any more dances. "We're too good of friends. I've known you too long. It gets awkward." But she remained friendly and affectionate.

    I tend to be a 6-to-18 times a year type regular for fave dancers, rather than an intense weekly or twice-weekly type of regular. That may have something to do with it.

    I'm not saying a fave has never disappointed me in some small way, but I've never decided to stop doing business with a major fave.

  24. #24
    Banned All Good Things's Avatar
    Joined
    Sep 2004
    Posts
    2,451
    Thanks
    33
    Thanked 601 Times in 233 Posts
    My Mood
    Daring

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    I also know how much you dislike this statement: Being such an intimately personal business, even the very best regs can bore or annoy a dancer, no matter how much she may "like" them.
    Actually, I really like this observation. Let me think about it. Just offhand, my guess is that for some dancers (not you) the intimacy/responsibility downside may be outweighed by the convenience and reliability upside.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette
    Rare is the reg who pays enough to ensure his fave truly makes more by foregoing the hustle in order to hang out with him.
    Rare. I like rare. I embrace rare. That may be the very nicest thing you have ever said to me.

  25. #25
    God/dess Bridgette's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Gettin the fuck outta Dodge!
    Posts
    14,241
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: How do you know its time.....

    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner
    the intimacy/responsibility downside may be outweighed by the convenience and reliability upside.
    For the lazier dancers


    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner
    Rare. I like rare. I embrace rare. That may be the very nicest thing you have ever said to me.
    Cool, then we agree, our SW guys (you included) don't reflect the attitudes and tendencies of most customers. Which means we dancers, in order to maximize profitability, usually have to take an attitude and sales approach that may not suit you guys There's always an exception here and there

    Quote Originally Posted by pheno View Post
    When you lead a nontraditional life don't try to measure it with traditional milestones.

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Escorts - full time /part time
    By minniesoporno in forum Other Work
    Replies: 4
    Last Post: 05-21-2011, 01:35 PM
  2. Long time reader, first time poster. ;)
    By Juno in forum Coming Out
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 10-14-2009, 10:21 AM
  3. long-time reader, first-time poster
    By zoe rose in forum Coming Out
    Replies: 3
    Last Post: 07-23-2008, 01:22 AM
  4. Long time clubber, first time poster
    By Lunarobverse in forum Coming Out
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 10-25-2007, 07:43 AM
  5. Favorite time of day for making the sexy time?
    By Chicagoeditor in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 29
    Last Post: 03-07-2007, 06:18 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •