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    I'm new to all this stripper stuff but I heard from someone that it is a bad idea if you have kids and you work as an exotic dancer. They said that you are taking a chance of having your children taken from you. I need to know if anyone knows about this or has even heard about it. That is pretty much the only thing that is stopping me from dancing other than losing some extra pounds.

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    That's is a little scary, actually very scary. I don't think this is true. Do you know of this happening to someone? I know some other dancers who have kids and they are working to make ends meet for thier children, and they have never feared this before!

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    No one can take your kids from you for being an exotic dancer. It is a legitimate, legal job. Who ever said that is retarded. If someone tried it would be considered discrimination or harassment. I dare someone to try and take my children. My house is a safe, healthy, clean environment. Trust me if it was possible, my drug addicted jobless loser of an ex would have custody of the kids instead of me. I am sorry but the fact that someone said that to you pisses me off. I hate when people say things that they know nothing about. Maybe if you lived in a little town in the bible belt, but even then a few calls to the media would probably stop that. I live an Cali so maybe things are different in other places. But don’t be afraid to support your family. As long as your a good responsible mom there is nothing anyone can do.


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    While you van't have you kids taken from you bacause of your job, i have heard of a few girls who end up in custody battles with exes over kids and at that point your job could be held against you. It shouldn't make a difference what you do aslong as you raise your kids right. In this area some judges are very predjudice against this line of work.

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    This person that I heard it from doesn't like strip clubs or anything along those lines period. It's not an ex. So I don't think I'm going to deal with custody battles. My fiancee fully supports me in all of it, but this friend doesn't want me to do it and won't give me a reason except "just because". Thanks for all your help.



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    Well, some friends do get worried.... I don't know if this friend is trying to be mean or not, but I know a few of my friends that just ask me to be careful, this job isn't for everyone and some things can go bad with it ie, drugs, alcohol, and whatnot... I'd say to the friend that you can be strong enough person not to get involved in all of that... Like I said, it could just be a worried friend...
    If you guy fiancee is cool with it I think you should be set to go..
    Please don't lick me, it tickles..



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    If you do find yourself in a custody battle i agree, the judge might look down on you due to your profession.
    Before i started dancing i mentioned to a friend that i was thinking about stripping. He told me he didn't think that'd be a good idea for me due to the fact that he thought i might get caught up in the "stripper lifestyle". Well, i know me well enough to know i can make it through anything. But he did know more about strippers than i did at the time. Soon as i entered the world of stripping, i soon realized what he meant. On the down side of it i'd watch how some girls had made it their whole life and became caught up in the mess with drugs, regretable sex, being arrested, car accidents, constantly in & out of surgery trying to be perfect, moving place to place with no progress made, or just simply lost. You have to be mentally and emotionally strong to be able to do this. That's why sometimes when it gets to be too much for me, i take a few days off to regroup with myself. But, my advice is just follow your instincts and do what you think is best for you. Only you would know if dancing is for you or not. Good Luck!
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    If you are in trouble,you will be investigated and yeah,judged by your lifestyle,I myself have been through this because of my paren=ts dis -approval by my lifestylw @ the tyme,but,I won,So don't worry sooo... much about it!...,As I did!!!!OMG!What a nightmare!!All I can think of as advice to you,from what I have gonr through is,If you are being investigated,It id for ,by Law,3 mo. in ny anyways,and if they can't find a damn thing (Don't dance in the mean time) Wrong w/ you,they drop mthe case and can't do a damn thing! So F them!You are supporting youre kid,but,as we know.don't need the drama,so,hide it till the investigation is over,because,they have nom Idea!LOL!!!

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    Id say fuck that friend. You are doing it to support your FAMILY. If they dont want you to do it, tell them to give you a few grand a week. You do what you have to do for your family, bottom line..but, like posted up there, dont get caught up in the "stripper lifestyle". Go to work, make your $, and come home.

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    I don't think I'll get caught up in the "stripper lifestyle." All I do is smoke ciggs and sometimes have a drink or two. I don't like feeling all messed up. Thank You again for all the advice and support. Kristin

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