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    Back again with my predictable dating bullshit. This shit sux, I'm getting so bored and I feel like I'm meeting the same retards in different bodies with the same small talk-hope-it's-a-happy-ending bullshit since I broke up with ex boyfriend. Sorry, I'm feeling a little bitter this evening..........

    Anyways, maybe it's just 'cause I KNOW that I don't want a boyfriend or a relationship or a booty call. But they say if you know what you want and don't want-you'll be better at finding, selecting, choosing the person you're meant for.

    So what are the major QUALITIES you look for in a person (aside from sexually and that he/she is a good kisser or holds it down in the sack) what are things you look for when meeting a person?
    "You love my lady lumps."



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    LOL!Everytime I read your posts I look at the picture in your avatar and hear arnolds voice....

    I looke for a certain appearance,personality is the more important to me though and If theres a connection!

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    whatchoo talkin 'bout? just kidding tia........i know connection is important, but i meant like traits in a person-honesty, loyalty, confidence, class, etc.

    For me-humor. I need someone to laugh with.......who makes me laugh and who the good times roll with. ya know........

    For some reason, I'm just meeting people who take life too seriously or aren't tall enough or have really bad breath.

    .....or I just don't connect with.......
    "You love my lady lumps."



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    What do you have against short people, Pimpy? Huhhhh? What? Ha, jk

    I look for intelligence, humor, kindness, spontaneous, charismatic, passionate, emotionally stable, grounded, and knows the difference between Sauternes and La Joie.


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    I really look for someone who is down to earth, smart, hard worker, and just a joy to be around. Looks help...but someone who you enjoy your time with, makes it that much better.
    I've heard that a good signiture sets you apart from everyone.
    Well......is this good enough???

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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseDelight
    What do you have against short people, Pimpy? Huhhhh? What? Ha, jk
    I gots luv for the shorties, sometimes I wish I was short, literally, I'm 5'8-sometimes I can't wear high heels when I go on a date.

    But I just couldn't date a short man. (A man under 5'8 or 5'9.) 'Cause you know what they say about short men, don't u..........



    .........it's the opposite of what they say about men with big feet............
    "You love my lady lumps."



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    LOL!The first time I heard the term shorty!I was in boces for cosmotology and This dude came up to me and said what's goin on shorty,I turned to my dear friend Alana,Who was smiling, ,and said,What's that mean?I 'm not short?And she said that it's another term used to call a girl hot,I said,Well heh them,That's great!...LOL! Pimpy,to amswer your question ,WQhat I think I'd say that I look for in a man is,someone who's considerate,honest,treats me good,Be a good influence to me,rarely uses curse words,(like me)and when he does,it turns me on,Who is an optamist,Somewhat layed back,Funny,Interesting,Thoughtful(very important!)and ummm...,let me see,what else,Hip and very cool!And (very important)mind and spiritually stimulating,(Intelligent)How bout' Yourself?Good fashion sense is a big plus!

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    Before I met my current guy, I was looking for someone with a good heart, someone that understands who I am, and someone that can love me for me. There are plenty more and I Could go on and on but I would fall asleep.

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    Emotional compatability and comfortableness. They should know what your talking about when your talking about things that are exciting to you intellectually or emotionally. They should be comfy to just lay around doing nothing with and fun to stay up all night talking with.



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    Balls of steel and a lion's heart.

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    a brain

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    Women always say they want a guy with a sense of humor. If that were really true, there would be no standup comedy- cause every comic I know is a comic because they couldn't get laid.

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    I look for confidence, sense of humor, compatibility, and a good listener. Also importantly, I look for someone that can tolerate my weirdness, dry humor, and my the fact that i am oversensitive

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    Quote Originally Posted by standupguy
    Women always say they want a guy with a sense of humor. If that were really true, there would be no standup comedy- cause every comic I know is a comic because they couldn't get laid.
    There's a big difference between 'sense of humor' and 'obnoxious show off'. Women DO like a guy who can make them laugh (I prefer a rather dry, but goofy sense of humor myself), but the kind of guy who shows off and wants to be the center of attention( as seems to be the case with a lot of guys in the entertainment business) can get old very quickly. Maybe because we want to be the center?

    Fuschia

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    Men that will do exactly as I tell them and fork over every last cent they have. J/K, well not about the money part. I like someone who is funny, kind of sensitive but not too much and likes to have fun. I've also noticed the past few years that haveing similar goals is important in a long term relationship otherwise it will never work out.
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    [QUOTE=pimpy718] I gots luv for the shorties, sometimes I wish I was short, literally, I'm 5'8-sometimes I can't wear high heels when I go on a date.

    I had that issues at one time. I'm 6' with no shoes, and used to refuse to even consider dating anyone shorter then me or to close to my height because of the shoes issue. Funny thing is my hubby is 5'9, but great personality, great conversation, we click well. Once you find someone that clicks well with you in every other aspect height really isn't an issue (at least not for me anymore)

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