Anyone else have this happen from time to time? If so , how do you handle it? I find it offensive and its hard not to get all bent when it happens. Anybody got some coy ways to say no but not come across as judging , even if you are inside ?
Anyone else have this happen from time to time? If so , how do you handle it? I find it offensive and its hard not to get all bent when it happens. Anybody got some coy ways to say no but not come across as judging , even if you are inside ?




yes and it irritates the daylights out of me. I had 3 friends die in the last 2 years because of drugs, not to mention it's not my thing anyway. I usually just politely decline even though I want to tear their faces off. The best thing to do is avoid people like this, they have no self-respect.
I tell them that I don't do them and I don't know anyone that would have them.
i had a guy offer me 400 bucks just to look for drugs in the club!
I told him i had no idea who had them and if there was any. He insisted i take the money..
i WONDER if i had, could i have possibly been arrested? was he trying to set me up?
I always tell them that drugs are not wanted, needed, nor welcome in our club. Please take it elsewhere. Tampa, you prolly could have been arrested. That has undercover cop written all over it.
life is only what you make of it
I haven't been asked for them, however I've had guys attempt to pay me for dances or tip me with them - I said I couldn't take them to the bank and give to the teller to put into my account
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Sounds like a club in Miami. I had a customer ask me to find anyone inside who has coke. He offered money, or a cut of the drugs i found.Originally Posted by tampafldancer
This question is popular in south Fl. At least with me.![]()
I always said get lost, don't do them, and drugs are not allowed in the club while walking away saying i am going to get management.
Pamela
hmm, I think I'll be taking a firmer line in the future, I've been asked a few times, but usually I saw "oh, I don't, I'll ask around" walk away and never come back. Same thing with "can you find a girl to go home with me?"
I don't think my management would've ever thrown anyone out - level of scumminess didn't matter as long as you were buying drinks.Another dancer recently got tipped in pot, and accepted.
That was my last night of work, though.
"I still have my name
I still have my face
I have not run away from home
Doesn't seem so long
If I now embrace
Every single thing I've never known"


No, but I've had a lot of punters offer me drugs.Originally Posted by MJ/Mandi


Well, the easy way out to cover yourself if someone asks you for drugs or tries to sell you drugs is to ask if they're a cop - if they are, they have to say yes, otherwise they can't prosecute you on the basis that they're undercover - because that would be entrapment, right?Originally Posted by tampafldancer
i've had that asked & gave a similar reply as most of the girls here. my issue: whne i'm in vip & the customer uses drugs IN FRONT of me. and when i ask him to go somewhere else, they get VERY nasty. this is cause other girls use drugs and have no problem with this crap. i can't stand it! any tips on how to handle guys that do them in front of you? i usually say, 'could you please take that elswhere, it's not allowed here' then he gets all mad, says something such as 'you're spoiling my fun' or 'so&so let's me do it'. argh!
"RIP THE SYSTEM"
no the club was in tampa...
He also came back a month later and got dances from me... (300 worth) and was trying to be a bit grabby, so i figured he wasn't a cop.
Sorry, but that's a myth.Originally Posted by Ashara
Very true ^ a cop does not have to say he's a cop. I have asked this question many times to men i first met at the hospital asking questions about a patient (trauma) because we can't give out personal info. HIPPA rules now.
I often ask if they are a cop, they say nothing. Only to find out later they are, after touching base with Admin. They simply wont tell me, what if i hurt the person in the hospital, or know something about it?
Different situation i know but it's all the same. And most of these guys are in plain clothes.
Pamela


Sorry, I suppose they don't have to say yes...but they can't say no and arrest you if you then end up procuring drugs for them (hypothetically) - right? I suppose they could arrest you anyway, but you'd be able to use that as a legal defence from my understanding. I thought entrapment was the act of a law enforcement officer inducing someone to commit a crime that they wouldn't do so otherwise?Originally Posted by Madcap
If someone doesn't say anything then that should be enough doubt that if you still went ahead and did it you'd be riding your luck.
Again, this is all hypothetical, of course. I'd never procure drugs for anyone, police or otherwise.![]()
Perhaps the laws in Australia are different. However, here in the U.S.A. cops are definitely allowed to lie and do pratically anything they want when they are undercover.Originally Posted by Ashara
Whenever a customer asks me about drugs, I always assume he is an undercover cop and tell him that the club doesn't allow them, I would report any illegal drug use I saw, blah, blah, blah. Lots of vice cops try to bust dancers on drug charges. There's two reasons for this. Fist, a drug bust is a lot more serious than violating some 3 ft. rule or no touching rule. Second, lots of do-gooder politicians make a lot claims about how strip clubs are dens of illegal activity such as drug dealing and prostitution. Then they pressure the police to make the arrests to back up their claims. IMO, when asked about drugs, it's not time to be coy, all an undercover cop has to do is claim that you agreed to provide him with some drugs, then he'll arrest you. Who do you think 12 soccer moms on the jury are gonna believe, a fine upstanding policeman trying to rid their community of such evil, or a stripper?
Dancing is wonderful training for girls, it's the first way you learn to guess what a man is going to do before he does it. ~Christopher Morley, Kitty Foyle


Really? That sucks.![]()
Yes I do think you could be arrested. sounds like it was a undercover vice stingOriginally Posted by tampafldancer
Even asssuming the LE is operating legally, they can go much further. They can lie about evidence they have against you, for example, while you are in custody to obtain a statement, i.e., get you to confess. Scary country we live in now.Originally Posted by Destiny
Embrace this part of the process, dont fear it. The roaches fear this part. And you know who they are.Who do you think 12 soccer moms on the jury are gonna believe, a fine upstanding policeman trying to rid their community of such evil, or a stripper?





I remember once on a busy Friday or Saturday night this guy I was trying to get a dance with asked me if I knew anyone he could buy a sac from. I simply said "I dont know..I dont do drugs" I would just say I was gonna come back and never do. I just thought if he was asking me for drugs what makes me thinks he wants a dance? He actually left never getting a dance from anyone along with his friends. On another note, Ive seen guys come in as customers that were really friends of a certain girl and she would buy drugs from him. I like my workplace to stay clean. I dont need to be all messed up at work to work. Not, saying Im better than anyone I just think now its not safe to be impared at work.
you live like an ivy vine
you can only survive by clinging onto trees
that's your flaw
put down some roots so you can stand on your own
-Kenpachi
I hate it when guys ask for another girl.. Idiots! whether they want drugs from another girl , to go home with her, or because she's a "friend" - why don't they ask the bouncer for fucks sakes? LOL can you imagine "excuse me, bouncer sir, I am looking to get laid/high. Who do you suggest?" LOL hahahaha
I don't suggest selling any form of drugs in your club 'cause eventually you'll get caught or you'll get snitched on....what goes around comes around.
"You love my lady lumps."


Originally Posted by stant
Gee, that REALLY sucks. Must mean the lawyers do great business, looks like the process is set up so you need a lawyer the minute you get into custody to make sure your rights don't get trampled on, assuming you're innocent.
Of course, the wise thing to do would be to not get in that position where you could be taken into custody in the first place.![]()
Last edited by Ashara; 01-08-2005 at 04:12 AM.
"I'm sorry officer, but I need to speak with my lawyer first."Originally Posted by Ashara
Rinse and repeat.
You can be taken into custody anywhere, anytime. You have no power to resist LE during any enforcement they may fabricate. Afterwards is when they get spanked. Remaining silent is the only means of resistance available to you. Use it.Of course, the wise thing to do would be to not get in that position where you could be taken into custody in the first place.![]()
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