Dear Pamela, some people say that spirits do not contact loved ones on earth for a while after passing because they are dealing with their own issues....(like when people on earth go through a traumatic event, or a big fight, they do not discuss the event or fight for a long time. Something like that.) It also has been said that it takes a lot of energy for a spirit to attempt contact, and so they have to keep on trying. (The whole point of EVP is that the spirits are "piggybacking" electrical energy to communicate.)
My best friend's family is very into "ghostbusting" and they tell me all kinds of wacky stories. They have had several loved ones pass over, and get all kinds of EVP/ assorted paranormal phenomena occuring near them, usually having to do with their loved ones. Some say sensitivity to spirits is genetic- it seems to be the case in her family.
I imagine if the loved one is someone very close to you, the messages will be dream messages- a less-startling way to communicate. My mom and aunt claim to dream of their mother, who died when they were teenagers.


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