you know, if your more than 100 miles from home it's not cheating...
you know, if your more than 100 miles from home it's not cheating...





I say if you're paying for it you're not cheating . . .





Will keep this in mind the next time I travel while "hitched",perse.![]()
One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.
一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.
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What???I'm a bit baffled here....I thought cheating was cheating no matter what. But then again what do I know.
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sorry, cheating is cheating. it's WRONG! it's not fair to anyone. if you want to keep a relationship & also be sexual with others try: a polyamorous relationship (having a few gfs), an open relationship (1 gf & a few sex partners), swinging (swapping mates with a couple). these sort of situations are all about communication. the couple is honest to each other and themselves with who they see and where the relationship stands. or hell, just be single!
"RIP THE SYSTEM"
Is that 100 miles as the crow flies, or actual road mileage?
Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.
William F. Buckley, Jr.
I think it's one of the more stupid rules-up there with the 'different area code' one, and the 'if you're drunk and can't remember' one. If you're going to cheat, either have that sort of relationship (as seen in toxicgirl's post) or don't bother to get into a relationship. Or at very, very least don't try to justify it! :-p
Fuschia




Ditto on that.Originally Posted by Sapphire





Is a threesome cheating then? (You, your SO, and another person.) What if your SO ok's it (a one night stand or a sex buddy, with protection) and says "as long as there is enough sex left out of you for me and your home in bed everynight". Is it cheating?
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."





As the crow flies OR somewhere in the next state where no one in your state goes.Originally Posted by Casual Observer
I was walking on a dune path to a MA beach with a "girl next door" type of dancer. I said, "This is my favorite beach cuz no one from Rhode Island comes here." The guy in front of us says, "I'm from Rhode Island, but you're right."![]()




The general moral principle behind the 100-mile rule was best expressed in an old '60s song:
"If you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with."
<-- I guess I'd better add that...
-Ww
"At this moment what more need we seek?
As the Truth eternally reveals itself,
This very place is the Lotus Land of Purity,
This very body is the Body of the Buddha."
- Zazen Wasan
I think we decided in chat:
If it's less than 4 inches, it's not cheating.
>>>Sad<<<





OMG,that is f*cking hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!Originally Posted by sadbuttrue
One of woman's cardinal rule: Body parts can be fake,everything else has to be real.
一个女人的枢机规则:肢体可以伪造,一切必须真实.
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What if every Thursday afternoon, when you drive to Pasadena, you just happen to have a weak moment, when you run into your ex. outside her house?
think of it this way guys...if your girl was doing what you are doing or thinking of doing would you be pissed at her for it?....if you wouldnt want them doing it then you dont get to either....or if you could tell her about it (the WHOLE truth) and you know she would smile and say its cool then your golden....
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Oh, you guys are forgetting my favorites [lifted from marilyn manson biography, because I thought they were funny]!
If the girl has the same name as your girlfriend, or at least the same initials as your girlfriend, then it's not cheating - you just miss your girlfriend. If she doesn't have even remotely similar initials, just spray some of your girlfriend's perfume on her.
If you are in a time zone that is ahead of the time zone you girlfriend is in, use the following equation to determine whether or not you've cheated: Let X be the time difference between the two countries and let Y be the number of hours since you slept with another woman. If you talk to your girlfriend and Y<X, then you haven't cheated. Because it hasn't happened yet. If Y>X, you cheated.
If it's someone's birthday, it doesn't count. (especially if it's your own)
Before anyone starts sending private concerned emails to my bf, these aren't actually rules I live by.
"I still have my name
I still have my face
I have not run away from home
Doesn't seem so long
If I now embrace
Every single thing I've never known"
If we can find two people on this site, or anywhere else for that matter, who agree on a definition of "cheating," I'll be amazed. Like "prostitution," it's one of those terms that can't be defined and therefore has no meaning. Sorry, Dr. Phil, but like many concepts morality isn't black and white, it's shades of grey on a continuum. And everybody draws the line between "right" and "wrong" at a different place.
Friends Of Naked Dancing Ladies (FONDL)




Another possibility:
If you don't get caught or even make your SO suspicious, it's not cheating.
-Ww
"At this moment what more need we seek?
As the Truth eternally reveals itself,
This very place is the Lotus Land of Purity,
This very body is the Body of the Buddha."
- Zazen Wasan
If it is someone from StripperWeb it is not cheating.




If it is someone you met anywhere online, it is not cheating?Originally Posted by montythegeek
-Ww
"At this moment what more need we seek?
As the Truth eternally reveals itself,
This very place is the Lotus Land of Purity,
This very body is the Body of the Buddha."
- Zazen Wasan





I think that's something every couple needs to discuss and agree on at the begining of a relationship. For me and my girlfriend -
If your paying or being paid, it's not cheating (because many people would consider a lap dance cheating).
If it's a play party or similar context it's not cheating.
If it involves dating or emotional commitments it's definitely cheating.
Lena
I was told by a pilot it's the 250 rule. Guess that's why so many of them cheat.
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