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    How do you feel about ex-boyfriends coming into the club to watch you? How about giving an ex a lap dance? How much difference does it make if your still friends with him?

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    If my ex would see me he would probably kick me out of the club ! But to awnser your question I would feel weird giving a lapdance to a friend but it's just me .

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    I wouldnt feel weird doing that, because I had a set frame of mind in the club. It is strictly business, nothing else.

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    I'd be fine with it, as long as he isn't bringing any drama up in there.


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    Just wondering, crystal, what do you mean he would kick YOU out of the club?

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    I never stay friends with my ex boyfriends.....I have a business mind-set when I am working, and don't want it "disrupted" by anyone or anything. If it is a recent ex, he has to leave.........if it's been awhile, I'll mutter a quick hello and block him out of my little work world........
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    I had an ex come in (he didn't know I was working there)...and I just ignored him and went about my business. My club is a full bar...and an ex liqoured up can only turn into drama. Better to stay away.

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    My ex would never go into a stripclub unless it was no cover and $5 dances. If he did, however, like others I have work-mindset, I'm at work, you're a customer, but probably not a customer I'd be terribly interested in selling to. Hopefully, there are other customers. If a friend asked me for a lapdance I'd do it, might feel moderately odd but once again, is business. A friend of my then bf's went to my audition on amatuer night, was just like "oh well!"
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    I would do it only on the basis that it is money. But, he might run the chance of talking your head off....and you dont want that. Your there to make money. He as money and now his money is gone and so are you.
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    I have an ex that does come in, yeah it's slightly weird giving him LD. We're still friends and all, but to quote everyone else, it's stricly business. Most all my other $$$ customers comes before him in the club and he knows that(nothing personal though).
    life is only what you make of it

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    i'm not friends with ANY of my exs. all but one were not nice to me (and even the 'nice' one, well we dont get along). i am not in contact with any of them. if they happen to show up at my club, i would have them thrown out, pronto! if the club didnt throw them out, i would do it myself- and with much violence!
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    oh yeah & i should mention i'd also pick their wallet too.
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    heh i JUST got an email form an ex saying " i heard you worked on thursdya night in nz, why didnt you tell me" WTF? stalker.

    i HATE exes and if one came in, id do my best to get them kicked out of the club, theyd put me off, and a bad stage show = lost money for me, i cant block that kinda thing out.

    usually exs are exs for a reason, and they tend to be a lil phsyco....

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    i had one x in the club once in providence. I asked the manager to leave because of it, but she decided to just kick him out...

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    Boyfriends and ex's bring alot of drama into work. It's never a good idea for them to come in, friends or not still. they get way to jealous seeing you "work". My ex used to come in once in a while. he was usually drunk and coming from another bar. I would be polite and chat for a minute, and then tell him to go home. I get to distracted and feel bad about working when i know he's watching. We have a general policy in our club that says no boyfriends or husbands are allowed to come in.

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    I let my husband come to the club when we didnt have a baby, and the managers were ok with it, they liked him. Maybe it is because he is a cop, who knows, but my hubby never started any drama or anything, and he wasnt hanging all over me all night. His friends would come out and hed talk to them, or hed either talk to mgt. The owner even bought him a lapdance from me one night, heh!

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