i'm sorry if this has been posted here before, but im having a bit of a dilemma here...
i'm 19 years old and recently moved back in with my mom and her husband to pursue a full-time college schedule. things with my roommate were just getting way too crazy, and i felt like i needed a change. i was working 2 jobs, one in a factory (which paid shit) and one part time at a club...i only did that for a couple of shifts because moving made the drive a lot longer, and i didn't know if it would work out with school, etc.
well, ive been looking around EVERYWHERE for little odd jobs near my new home and can't find anything, yesterday i did get hired by a telemarketing company, not really my thing at all, and im dreading going in.
long story short, i want to go back to dancing but am worried about my mother finding out. on one hand, i don't really care, because i am over 18 and have to foot all the bills for college, car payment/car insurance for myself (mom isn't chipping in at all) and it would be a lot easier with a dancing job.
when she found out my best friend worked at a club she freaked, and that was just my friend, not her own daughter...
i could lie, tell her i got a job at a warhouse or something (to explain the late hours)
do you think i care too much about what she thinks? should i just do it? lie? maybe tell the truth if she asks? im lost on this one....


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] She thought that was neat, so, oh well. Now as long as she doesn't stumble upon the costumes I have to drip-dry, I'm good for the next few weeks until I'm gone again.
. I also live with the mom. Its hard when you want to do everything and it feels like theres someone else telling you its "wrong" and having to lie to them on top of it. Mom accidentally found out and guess what?? She totally flipped out on me. I want money and I dont want to rely on her for and "allowance". Im an adult just like you are as well.
this is frustrating.
Of course...I didn't start dancing until I was 28...and LONG gone out of her house. But, you know your mom best...and, if you only work weekends, or what not...she may never ask where you are getting your money from. Be wise...be spend-thrift...pay off those bills and never let anyone know how much you are really making.




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