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    Smiley Straight female looking for a ld w/my so watching

    I am a straight woman that thanks to this forum was finally able to go to the strip club with my s/o. My s/o used to go to the clubs all of the time while we had a long distance relationship and he would lie to me about going because he knew that I didn't like it. I moved to Atlanta in November and by finding this website I realized that I was wrong with what I thought a club & dancers were like. Last week we went for his birthday to the Pony in atl and I had a great time. The girls were great and friendly. I was suprised that I was so comfortable with myself there, I do not have a dancers body, I thought I would be more uncomfortable by that. I want this to be a regular thing for us to do. The only problem I had, and no offense to any of the ladies who may fit this profile, is that only the small chested women wanted to dance for me. When I saw a beautiful woman dancing on stage with the body type I would have liked a dance from I tipped her well and one of them groped me and the other kissed me but neither came up to ask me for a dance. I have large boobs myself and think it would be a huge turn on for myself and my SO to get a dance from the girls with similar attributes. I did get one dance and he watched the whole time turned on, it would have bothered me if he hadn't. I enjoyed the dancing and was told that the ladies like to dance for "open minded females" by one of the dancers there. For the future is there anything else I can do to get the other ladies to dance for us? I know there is a club ettiquite and maybe some of the girls are intimidated by us being a couple there since he was a regular there for so long (6+ years) without me around. Is it ok to go up and ask for one or what should I do. Any suggestions?

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    Any of the times that I go with my hubby, I tell him which dancer I like and he goes and asks her to come dance the next song she has open. That way...it's like HE wants to see her dancing with you. I think most of the dancers don't mind it, sometimes they are busy. And if you don't ask...sometimes they don't know if you like to have dances or not. Ask for what you want! Your situation is very similar to mine. When we dated, hubby lived in AZ and I was still in Ohio. I used to get so pissed when he went to clubs. Then I moved to Az and we started going together. I love how turned on he gets when he sees girls dancing for me We have been married for 4 yrs and have 2 kids

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    Default Re: Straight female looking for a ld w/my so watching

    I will try that next time. I think that would be better since they all know him. Also thanks for letting me in on that info. I was really worried when I first moved down here about how the sc would factor into our relationship. I really am glad I went with him and we now have an understanding that he won't go without me. He actually said why would he want to go without me considering how hot it is that his girlfriend goes and has fun. I agree. Thanks again

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    Default Re: Straight female looking for a ld w/my so watching

    There are a number of recent threads on the board dealing with how to attract dancers as a couple. Check out the "What's in Your Wallet" thread in the Huster Hut board, for example.

    As a guy who usually attends SCs with my wife, I find the best methods include: 1] ask the waitress to approach the dancer you are interested in, and tell her that you are interested in a dance; 2] tell the dancer directly that you would love to see her when she gets off the stage, as you are tipping her. If neither of these works, then the dancer may have a problem dancing for women or couples. However, in my experience, there are always excellent and attractive dancers who love to dance for women and couples, of all body types.

    Good luck and have fun
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