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    i have a confession... i've danced in strip clubs but have always found a way around taking my top off.. i have never danced topless. sometimes the guys get mad, but usually they end up giving more cash and buying lots of private dances cuz they think they'll be the special ones that get to see. i feel like its cheating sometimes to the other girls that go all the way. i'm super teeny tiny on top and i'm really self concious about my size, but i've been able to devise ways to fool the eye. yes, i feel really guilty about it and please don't get mad or think i'm like a poser or something. i love to dance and i love my job, but i always thought nobody would look twice and i wouldn't make any money if they knew my real size. i'm up with the top earners now and the management was even talking about putting me in the advertising my first week at that club. but now i think i painted myself into a corner, and i can't hide forever. i'm seriously considering moving to a new club and being for real, but i'm scared... do the itty bitties get any attention or make anywhere close to what the more endowed girls do?(i'm not talking d's, i consider b's huge, just to give a mental image..) will the guys make rude comments to me or make fun of me? will i be considered one of the pretty girls anymore? will they even hire me if i go in flat chested?
    it's really hard for me to bring this up, so please don't be mad at me or mean or anything... i'm not trying to cheat anyone, i've been "fooling the eye" since i was seventeen...(23 now) it's just part of who i am now. no one knows. i just wanted to be proportionately correct. please don't kick me off the website now... i'm not a phony! just looking for some advice...
    they call me tater salad.

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    It all depends on the HUSTLE. I worked with a girl in alaska who had itty bitties, but she made the most money out of anyone, because she knew what she was doing, and was very confident in herself. BE CONFIDENT. Every man out there has a different taste. Not everyone likes big boobies. Just concentrate on dancing really well, and work on your hustle. You definitely do not need big boobs to make a BUNCH of money, as I found out.

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    On my last club visit, the hottest dancer there had really tiny titties. She was just very slender and that was the consequence of her body type. It doesn't matter, I don't think I've ever tipped differently or picked lap dances based on breast size. I even really like 'em small sometimes, depends on their "look." Some guys will be there for certain cup size, just like others will be there for a certain hair color or height or body type. These aren't things to stress over, attitude and confidence are much more important.
    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    will they still hire me at a different club? i probably won't be the most stunning thing without my feminine attributes... i've always been able to just walk in and they say "when can you start?" i'm afraid they won't even give me an audition..! or maybe they'll say something about flatness.
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    thanks for the advice, guys, by the way!
    they call me tater salad.

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    Its all about the nipples! I'm a fan of smaller!

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    Actually you'd probably do well with the guys who are into "barely legal" type girls. I bet you make great money when you put on that schoolgirl or cheerleader outfit of yours. As for lap dances, sometimes it's all about how well she grinds if she chooses to.

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    this varies greatly from market to market and club to club.

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    A friend of mine told me she used to wear the biggest padded bras before she had her boob job so she looked like she had a fair wad of boob when dressed even though she was totally flat. She said she couldn't care less what the customers thourght when she stripped on stage. Her attitude was that they had already handed the money over so too bad! But almost no-one seemed to care anyway. Apparently she made more money then than she does now with boobs - and her boobs look great!
    I have some boob, but not much and I do well mostly unless I work in a club where most of the other girls have great husstling skills. Sounds like you'd be fine to me (-:

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    thanks guys! Aussie, you're friend sounds just like me! that's amazing that she had the confidence to do that on stage, and it worked! that gives me hope...
    they call me tater salad.

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    Whilst not flat chested myself, I'm part of the itty bitty titty committee and quite proud to be a member as well. In the end, only a small minority of your potential customers (punters/patrons) will enter a strip club with a specific boob size, hair colour or whatever other physical attribute on their mind to have a dance with or tip on stage.

    In the end, boob size is only really important to the one who makes it important: you. You will be amazed at how much guys generally look over boob size in favour of a dancer who is just better looking overall who also exudes sexiness, confidence and the right attitude.

    I've known plenty of "barely there" (up top) dancers and guess what...... they made $$$. Since all the clubs I've ever worked in are full nude with touching.... you'd think their lack of anything up top would have an effect on thier dollars.... nope.. wrong!

    If you had the best hustle/sales skills ... even if you were a buck toothed old bag... you would still make money.... as it is about sales skills in the end. Appearance only makes up a small part of the whole "deal".

    In the end, if your lack of breast does really affect your out-look on yourself and therefore (in the end, affect your income).... get a BA (boob job). Otherwise... be proud you are part of the itty bitty titty committee! I know I am


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    you guys rock! maybe it's jsut my personal preference, i'm practically a twig myself (115lbs., 6ft. tall) but i always thought the super skinny models weren't very attractive, favoring a more voluptuous image as the picture of femininity... the girl in the pics is hot though and i can't believe she's a playmate! she's a tad bit bigger than me, but we have the same body type... i feel prettier now... i think i should really hone my hustle, though, if that 's what it all comes down to... this is kind of a wierd question, but , i'm definitely no hustler and no saleswoman, but i've been trying hard reading the books prescribed in this forum and talking to my bf, who used to sell cars, how do you really get the "hustle" down? what attitude do you take to each cust. that says " you will give me money!" do you ever feel bad about it? do you ever ASK for anything? i'm a frequenter of hustle hut and i even print stuff out sometimes and put together an "instruction manual" but i just don't htink i have the attitude.... ( sorry about all the questions.. thank you guys so much for all the help!!!)
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    you guys make me all confident! thank you!! i'm half tempted to go to the new club here now and try my luck!
    they call me tater salad.

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    how do you really get the "hustle" down? what attitude do you take to each cust. that says " you will give me money!" do you ever feel bad about it? do you ever ASK for anything?
    How you get your sales hustle "down" is thru repeatition. Make it a habit. As for the attitude you take with you - one of prosperity, abundance and positivity. It isn't "you will give me money"... it is "you have given me money already". You take with you the attitude that you have already made bank and then some to each patron (potential customer).

    Never ever ever ever feel bad about it!! OMG.. I can't believe you asked that... you are there to sell a service... why should you feel bad about selling? Everyone sells something. Everyone.

    Ask for anything... um.. yeah.. I ask for everything. If you don't ask, you will never know. Then again, if you say the right things.. it is never really asking in the first place.

    A B C - Always Be Closing.

    Put into practice all the things you are reading in Hustle Hut. That is the ONLY way.

    The other way is to actually do the Dancer Wealth seminar: live or phone.



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    Yep, when it gets right down to it - men like breasts. As a general rule, we're not hugely discerning. For every guy that prefers large breasts, there will be one that prefers small - and 20 who don't give a damn.

    As everybody else has said, it all depends on your personality, confidence and sales skills. That said, however, if ~you~ are self-concious about them, then that will hurt you because you'll be distracted.

    I'd say give it a try, but make sure you've convinced yourself that you're fine with the way you look before doing so. Otherwise you might 'give it a go', make less and decide it was your size - rather than your lack of confidence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by standupguy
    Its all about the nipples! I'm a fan of smaller!
    As a favorite dancer once said to me, "I love guys who aren't afraid to tell me what they really like."

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    One of the biggest money makers at my club is pretty flat chested...

    It's not about what you have (or think you don't have)...it's about how confident you are. And, there are some guys out there who will fall over themselves just the way you are!!

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    Nothing against at all to the girls whom had and love their augmentation...to each his own. But from natural to another (small B)...I've had so many guys ...say I'm so you stayed natural. I had this big spender..and only a few girls including myself got to dance for him because he only liked natural boobs. So there is money to be made....But really what gets the guys everytime for me ...they always say ...you have a great smile..because I'm always smiling..and I think that can be disarming to a man. They love it! Go for it girl.

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    The guy that Amber talks about who came in spending lots of money on her and loved the small breasts,,, well thats just like me. In fact I was wondering if it WAS me LOL. The point being that everyone does like something different.I refuse to get dances with a girl with fake ones. I dont see the point if I am not turned on by looking at the girl who will be dancing with me. NE way just some more evidence in case u needed it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blnde
    i have never danced topless. sometimes the guys get mad, but usually they end up giving more cash and buying lots of private dances cuz they think they'll be the special ones that get to see.
    Sweetie, you're asking US how to hustle? You should write a manual. That's an accomplishment I'd be devilishly proud of.

    Even with your top off, you're still going to be stopping short of showing or doing something that they want you to show or do, so the same general principles of creating a fantasy through flirtation and movement apply.

    -Ev

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    Just be yourself and have fun. Confidence sells at least as many dances as breast size-if not more. There will always be some idiots who will make a rude comment here and there but they make those same comments to big-chested women as well. Just ignore the jerks and concentrate on the guys who can't take their eyes off of you. I'm sure there will be many.
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    I always get hung up on breast size as I work at a club full of large breasted women (bartenders, waitresses, and mixers alike) and I'm only an A cup. I seem to work in an area where the guys love large boobs. But when I'm totally frustrated I make myself remember the first club I worked at. The top seller was a small A cup, and very petite. I always joke with my SO aboug augmentation, but I know I will never go through with it. And anyway, if guys don't like the way I look because I don't have at least a C cup, they don't have to look at me.

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    I am an a cup and when i first started dancing it was an issue for me. But after watching the smaller cup girls on stage. I just knew i could do it. I've asked customers of their opinion if i should get a boob job just to see what they say. All of them told me i was fine the way i was and it would be unnecessary. I think as long as you have nice nipples/ or just an appealing look to them you should be fine. Stop being so paranoid. The customers can spot a nervous and unconfident girl. So, work on your inner self and eventually you should overcome this. Good Luck

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    i'm practically a twig myself (115lbs., 6ft. tall)

    My God, if you were at my club, I'd have you in VIP all night. You have exactly my favorite body type...and I don't think that I'm unusual. I suspect you've been cheating yourself out of a fair amount of money by being unnecessarily shy/ashamed/self-conscious.

    From what I've seen, the dancers who make the most money are those who focus on the most sensitive part of a man's body...his ego.

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    I am a happy member of the itty bitty club I find alot of men out there still prefer natural women and many like petite women too. There is no single standard for beauty !

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