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    Hi everyone! I am so happy that there is a website online like this. I have some questions because I really want to be a dancer. Where I live I think there are only a few clubs, and I think only 1 or 2 of them allow 18 year olds to work, but I want to call and see tomorrow. Two main questions:

    1. I am 5'9" and 135 pounds, working on my body, so I'm not worried about that. But what I am worried about, I only have a size 34B bust. Is that okay? The main reason I want to become a dancer is because I need a second job that I can work at night where I can actually make some money - for Breast Augmentation! Soo... Do guys completely hate small chested girls? Do places even hire us? and secondly...

    2. My boyfriend is 100% against me dancing... But I want to, and I need more money. We aren't very serious so I wouldn't have a huge problem just telling him I was going to sleep or to the gym or something and then go work... But I am afraid of like going and dancing and then his friends are there or something and see me and tell him. I don't know what to do, you probably don't have an answer either, but I thought it was worth a shot.

    Thank you so much for any help, sorry this was so long! <3

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    Default Re: Brand New, Some help please?

    hi honey welcome to stripper web! Ok for #1) Your boobs are fine. I only have 34a's and I do fine. When I first started dancing I was worried about it too, but as you go along you will realize that guys like boobs of all sizes. Little, big, medium, everything. I wouldnt see any place not hiring you for that reason alone, cuz if you are good looking most places dont care about the size of your boobs.

    #2) Since I'm not in a relationship at the moment I can't really be of much help, but if the guy really loves you he will understand that 'what you do isn't who you are'. Some people have negative stereotypes of strippers, that they are whores and whatnot, but the majority of strippers I know are actually smart girls just trying to make money like everyone else. If he can't see that, dump him and find someone who gets it.

    Ciao bella! and good luck !!

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    Default Re: Brand New, Some help please?

    1. 34B is perfect. The customers in my area love real ones or fake ones that look real. (I've only seen ONE set of fake breasts that looked real. The dancer had big boobs, which deflated into flappy skin after kids. Surgery perked up what was there.)

    2. Boyfriends come and go. If you were talking about a spouse, a fiance, a long-term, or a live-in, I would advice you not to jeapordize the relationship. Since you are not serious, he has no say as to what you do with your life.

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    I have 34B's too and they do fine....boobs are boobs...those mounds of flesh on your chest with nipples are fine...guys will love em. Work your confidence!!

    Boyfriends will still be there even after you dance. Im curious why does he not want you to dance?

    Oh yea and PLEASE keep your personal life separate from dancing!! You wil definitely thank yourself many times over. I made the mistake of telling my friends I danced (which they thought was cool) but now I realize Im at work I dont need my friends bugging me or giving me hassles about anything. I dont want anyone to see me. You will make more anyways when you keeps your lips tight. Basically your "exotic dancer" by night and youre you by day. Just dont change in any phone booths.
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    From a customer point of view, your breasts are fine. My personal preference is perky naturals or enhanced breasts that look real. Deciding to strip is not an easy decision to make, but if your mind is made up that it's what you want to do, then do it. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Brand New, Some help please?

    they call me tater salad.

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    read my exta long blurb! (and try not to pass out from the lengthyness...)
    they call me tater salad.

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    Default Re: Brand New, Some help please?

    Quote Originally Posted by sweet_kisses1321
    Hi everyone! ... I have some questions because I really want to be a dancer....

    1. I am 5'9" and 135 pounds, working on my body, so I'm not worried about that. But what I am worried about, I only have a size 34B bust. Is that okay? ... Do guys completely hate small chested girls? Do places even hire us? and secondly...

    2. My boyfriend is 100% against me dancing...But I am afraid of like going and dancing and then his friends are there or something and see me and tell him. I don't know what to do, you probably don't have an answer either, but I thought it was worth a shot.

    Thank you so much for any help, sorry this was so long! <3
    1. When most guys go into a strip club, there is an element of fulfilling a fantasy. The dancer they pick will be one that fits, (to some degree), that fantasy. Tastes vary from person to person, so one guy will go in looking for big boobs, and another for small perky ones. At least some of the customers in a SC will be looking for boobs like yours and not big ones.

    In any case, IMHO, personality counts for more than body shape. Most guys that go into a strip club just "know" that if they can get chatting to a stripper they can get her phone number and a date. The trick is to create the illusion that just one more dance, one more tip and you'll give them a number/date. (Of course it will always take one more dance/one more tip ). [img]images/smilies/wink.gif[/img]

    If you have the sort of friendly, outgoing personality that can sell this illusion to people wanting dances then you'll do well financially.

    2. The dancers on this board will tell you more, but you'll find there is a totally unwarrented stigma attached to dancing. Most dancers deal with this by keeping a total separation between personal and working lives. Working in a club where your boyfriend's mates can see you, is soon going to result is the news spreading among your personal circle.

    As well as the effect on your boyfriend, you need to consider the effect on your other friends, (guys you are friendly with will react very differently to your female friends when they find out). You also need to consider the effect on your family/relatives.

    Phil W.

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