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    Hi girls. I think I'm about ready to start dancing, but I have several questions.
    Do I need a routine to audition, or just go up there and "make love to the music"? How do you give a great lapdance? Should I get some type of instructional video or will it just come to me? I know I'll learn more once I see the other girls, but I wouldn't want to make a fool of myself on my first night. Should I buy a couple different outfits to start with? Are there any basics I need to know before I get up there? Sorry about all the questions, but now that I have the self confidence to get up there...I am freaking out about the actual dancing part. Thanks for any advise

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    wow these are the exact same questions I was going to ask once I was ready to strip. I really want to know what is expected at the audition, for music costumes...even if there are any good websites for tutorials, like Carmen Electra's DVD's...or are they not worth the money cause we can learn by visiting clubs?? Great Questions sodapopgirl!

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    In every corner of the world there are different types of dancing,the forum will answer both of your questions but a little more information would make it easier-there's no point telling you how to become a great exotic dancer if there is only topless bars around you. Let the forum know just a little more information-Thanks and Welcome to the stripperweb

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    Default Re: questions on how to get started???

    Quote Originally Posted by sodapopgirl
    questions on how to get started???
    Well, usually if I'm wearing a top and skirt, then I take the top off first....

    LOL....

    Seriously, there are some GREAT instructional videos out there, but a LOT depends on the sort of club where you're auditioning. Do they have an "amateur" night every week where they audition new talent? Go to a couple of those and see the routines that win girls a job. Clubs can be VERY different. The upscale clubs, frankly, expect a certain level of experience among even the newbies, so sometimes it's helpful to start at a lower-end club and get some moves down pat. On the other hand, even SOME up-scale clubs go for that "innocent school girl" gimmick that I used to play to the HILT. (LOL.... I was about as innocent as Heidi Fleiss).

    No, it won't all "just come to you", but watching the other girls will give you great ideas. Again, stripping is not a "one size fits all" biz (wow... that is just LOADED with puns!!!!). However, in my humble experience, there are a couple of very important rules:

    1. EYE CONTACT with the customers (or, in the case of the try-outs, the judges). Frankly, I've found that it's NOT necessary to make constant eye contact, but to look at the customer frequently with that "do you like what I'm doing?" look in your eyes.

    2. Smile...smile, smile.

    3. NOT TOO FAST!

    4. Did I mention to smile? You've GOT to look like you're enjoying yourself.

    5. As for audition (and for that matter, dancing) clothes, I personally preferred loose-fitting stuff. Why? Two reasons -- easier to take off, and no strap marks. Nothing un-sexier than a girl having to struggle with a garter belt that looks GREAT when it's ON but is a pain in the ass to take off.

    6. Oh... and smile!

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    Default Re: questions on how to get started???

    visit the clubs!!! learn by doing. the guys won't object!
    Dakota's video refernce guide:
    stripclubvideo.com
    "stripper usa championship" dvd
    leannataylor.com
    and of course "exoticdancelessons.com" fawnia rocks!!
    playboy video has a lot of strip club titles but i haven't seen them yet so i don't know how informative they are...
    like susan said: SMILE!!!
    variety in outfits is always a good thing, don't forget the clear shoes!
    oh yeah, and one big huge mistake i made on my first day: make sure you wear CLEAR deoderant! lol and body spray! and breathmints!! .....and tampons...!i could go on for hours... my backpack is always bulging when i go in... it's funny to watch me try to put it in the locker.. oh yeah, if your club has lockers.. a padlock!
    they call me tater salad.

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    and follow the music. guys complain a lot about dancers just doing random moves and not following the music.
    they call me tater salad.

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    7. BREATHE!

    I forgot to do that the first time I danced, nearly passed out.
    life is only what you make of it

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    Just relax... tell customers its your first night. They'll love it. I told them I was new every night for like the first 2 months I worked until i got the hang of it.

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