Im sure this has been covered here already. But, I'm still going to go on regardless.
I started dancing full time in Septemer. I worked it like a regular job, approximately 4-5/ 6-8 hr. shifts a week. After an exdended Christmas vacation I find myself having the hardest time appoaching customers. Inside , I am saying to myself "this guy must know that on a given day, anywhere outside of this club, chances are we would not be talking." Dont get me wrong, its not that I think I am better than anyone. I just feel that I have nothing in common, as mentioned in a previous thread, with most.
I often find myself sitting by myself, ,and waiting to get apprached. And trust me when I tell you...I could not make a living doing this!!!
Any solutions in getting over this...without coming across as phony?![]()



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oh my gosh, I know exactly what you're talking about.
do they really even want me to approach them? I mean am I even their type?
Okay, that's a smartass example, but it really IS that simple. If you're human, you have SOMEthing in common with any other person on the planet.
Reason #1 why I was awful at sales was that I couldn't seperate myself enough, but that's the theory...


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