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    I was just curious, for the dancers who have regulars: Do you care/get angry when another dancer "steals" your regulars? What do you consider "stealing a regular", just getting a dance from them, or having them stop coming to you? Do you confront the other dancer? Was just curious.



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    There is no such thing as stealing a regular. One can campaign to add a fellow to her own stable, but in the end it is the customer's decision. If he, of his own free will, examines two business propositions and finds one more appealing then you lost fair and square.

    I do believe that there are a couple of situations where this is underhanded, however. If you have a friend who is also a dancer and works with you, hands off her regulars. That's just low. And lay off the bad advertisement angle. If the only way you can corral someone else's regular is to start talking trash about his ATF ("Oh, you didn't know she was married with three kids? I thought you did. They're gorgeous, just adorable. One of them isn't her husband's though. We think it's the day manager's baby. She fucks him for coke.") then youy are one sad, sorry mofo who obviously can't earn her own regs.

    But otherwise, all's fair and whatnot.
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    Women are always trying to act like they own everything, including plp they don't even know. It's annoying as all hell, not to mention quite pathetic. I mean, I know we are all territorial, but many women especially strippers take this too far in my opinion...
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    It sucks when it's sudden. If the regular is nice he will make it a slow transaction to the other girl. Weed you out. It isn't nice though if the other girl is your friend and she knows how much money the guy gives you. I've had my club friends try that. Hit them up while you've got your day off. That's not playing fair.

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    I personally never approach a girl's regular. That is her business, her $, and if I were her I wouldnt want someone messing with that. Now if he approached me on the otherhand and wanted a dance or whatever, of course i wouldnt turn it down, thats $. And if she had anything to say about it I would tell her he approached me, not the other way around. I had a friend at the club I worked at in Alaska, and occasionally when I was having bad nights or when she felt like it, she would have her regulars get dances and things off of me. She was also the house mom too, but she was great.

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    I don't appreciate it what so ever! I mean if dancers see a guy who comes in on a regular basis for you and they see that he gives you alot of $ then there is that few who will try and steal him away. whether it be that they will dance dittier than you, or that they will even go as far as turning tricks to them that just really makes my blood boil. and trust me girls have tried to steal mine and some have succeded, but come on give some respect.
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    If a dancer tries to "nose" in on a regular...well, that's her problem. My regulars were my regulars because they like me. If my regular decides to get dances from other dancers, then they are free to do so.

    I'm not protective like that. It's too much drama. I don't look at it as losing money. Losing one regular will open up the door for another. Of course, at my club, I don't need a regular to make a ton of cash...so maybe that is why I don't care too much.

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    Uggh, I hate that drama bullshit. Ya'll can have ALL of my regulars but if I don't know who belongs to whom, I am going to approach everyone in the club in the order of their seating.

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    As far as I'm concerned, if a gal isn't sitting with me, its open season.

    Even the most commited of regulars needs a second stringer he can go to for some warm up dances, or to fill in for the fave when she isn't available. A good dancer might as well apply for the position.

    And if he accepts and his catty ATF has a problem with that, well then...
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    The regulars belong to the club, not to the dancers individually. We are there to accommodate our customers, not the other way around. There are, however, ways that girls "steal" customers from other girls. The main way that I have seen, as well as had happen to me, is when another girl divulges personal information or blatantly lies about another girl's personal information in an attempt to poison the customer's mind against the girls he is seeing. Alot of the time, the "victim" of this "theft" doesn't even see it coming. In my cases, the girl (it was the same girl both times) was a "friend." I never confronted the issue, though, because if these customers were willing to drop me as their regular girl because of something someone else said (and I know it was her, because they repeated it to other ladies, who then told me) without approaching me first, then I don't want to spend anytime with them. And who wants to waste another breath on someone who is so desperate for money that they will pull such a scam?

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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    Even the most commited of regulars needs a second stringer he can go to for some warm up dances, or to fill in for the fave when she isn't available. A good dancer might as well apply for the position.

    And if he accepts and his catty ATF has a problem with that, well then...

    That's how I feel. I got dances from a girl that I always hang around with at my club last time I went 'cause my ATF had taken the night off. I don't think my ATF is one of those catty girls, although she did kind of make a face and scold me last time I told her I got a dance from a different girl earlier that night. That's kind of not really fair to the custy to be all possessive because that's like having an all day pass at Busch Gardens (pardon the pun) and only being allowed to ride the merry-go-round.
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    I always thought that the customers got to decide whose regulars they were, and not the dancers. If the customer in question is all that fond of a girl he would a) wait for her, and b) not believe/not care about the drama in question. That said, the only reason I would NOT go up to a customer is if I thought/knew that I couldn't make money off of him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    I always thought that the customers got to decide whose regulars they were, and not the dancers.
    Tut, tut, Jenny. You should know by know that customers exist for the dancers' convenience!

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    Messed up, especially as frequently I'm a newbie. I don't know who your regular/bf is on sight, and unless he says "I come here to see xgirl" or something, how is it my fault that he buys some dances from me? Yeah, there are stupid ways that dancers try to "steal" a guy, but more frequently, I believe, the regular's dancer is just being possessive.
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    a friend inside and out of the club got super mad at me for doing a champagne court with her regular on a night she was supposed to work and called out and didnt answer his calls on the phone he paid for. we get in a huge fight, she gets fired for other reasons we stop talking, and he still comes in to my club, and one day after saying he wants to do a court and I sit next to him and his nasty cigar for half an hour he turns and says oh anna I cant take you upstairs (where the vip is) jennifer said you're married.

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    it depends on what type of regular.. theres one that are regulars to a certian hand full of girls or just two or maybe one... i would find it bizzar if i had a regular for X amount of months then all of a sudden they jump on another band wagon

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    regulars can only last for so long.... too much of a good thing

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    sometimes if there's not to many people in the club, i will join a girl and her reg, but this is only to talk (if i ask for a dance, it's always for both of us!) and i ALWAYS ask both of them if i may join. i do this to look busy. if another girl wants to join me & a custy & talk cause the club is dead, fine- just ask first. i never ask for a dance if i join a table unless there's more than 1 customer per girl at it and another dancer was there first (if she's not asking for dances, i chime in and try and get us both to dance for the custy or let her go first and then me).

    if i'm on stage and a girl joins a guy i was talking to, fair game. it's the customer's decision from then on. if my reg comes in & i'm not there, well, what can i expect? if he gets dances from other girls, oh well. they know when i'm in...but if a girl's reg comes in and she's not there, where does she get the right to get pissed if i dance for him? i dont say anything mean to 'steal' the guy. i do let him know that she's not in. i'm not possessive with my regs. some girls are, but eventually, they lose the customer because of this.

    i do not like when i'm sitting with someone and a girl comes up and interrupts the conversation to hustle him away from me. this is rude. this makes me angry. someone got hit with a chair one time for doing this.
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    Yes, I get a little upset when another dancer "steals" a customer. I get over it pretty quick if it's just a case of a customer who wants someone new but if the dancer is breaking rules

    or on the flip side

    if she's taking advantage of a customer (I get a litlle protective of some of these guys) then well yeah I got to admit it... I develop a bit of a grudge.

    I try not to let it show but to be perfectly honest, it still bugs me.

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    Speaking from a regular point of view. The regular should have loyalty to whomever he is being a regular too. I have been in that position when I was being a regular with someone and another entertainer came over and was blatenly trying to get me into her stable. I made it clear I came in to see whomever and that if she wanted to talk with me that was fine but the person I came in to see had first say on me and my money.

    Now if I liked the second person, I would talk to the first person I came in to see and asked her if she minded if I went to the other one's stage or if I got a dance from her. If she said yes, then I wouldn't, if she said she didn't mind then if I wanted to, I would. But I would always make sure I did not spend more on the second person over the first. I called it seniority. Of course if there is a falling out betweent the regular and entertainer then he is fair game. Hope this helps.

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    I had a friend at work try to do this to me recently. I got pretty pissed off because the ONLY reason this guy comes in is to see ME. For the rest of the guys I do dances with, it's open game and vice versa. I learned not to trust my "friends" at work, it only causes problems.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    I always thought that the customers got to decide whose regulars they were, and not the dancers.
    Customers choose dancers.

    Dancers choose regulars.

    What makes you a regular is not how often you come to the club. It's how the dancers treat you. If they reach out to you, embrace you, take care of you, life is good. They make the choice. They make you a regular.

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    Quote Originally Posted by toxicgirl
    sometimes if there's not to many people in the club, i will join a girl and her reg, but this is only to talk (if i ask for a dance, it's always for both of us!) and i ALWAYS ask both of them if i may join.
    See, THAT I think is a little inappropriate - unless you are specifically invited over, there should never be more girls than guys at a table. I would be a little ticked off if someone interrupted a one-on-one. I mean, not throw things in the dressing room ticked off, but thinking "My god, how inappropriate" ticked off.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny
    See, THAT I think is a little inappropriate - unless you are specifically invited over, there should never be more girls than guys at a table.
    Different clubs, different practices.

    Three dancers and I had this fabulous discussion last week on female orgasms. One dancer was raving about how her body has a mind of its own. When she said, "my pussy damn sure knows when it's being fucked good," the guy sitting at the next table nearly spewed beer through his nose. Too bad he missed the whole discussion on the differences in how a cock feels inside with or without a condom.

    God bless tables with more girls than guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner
    Different clubs, different practices.

    Three dancers and I had this fabulous discussion last week on female orgasms. One dancer was raving about how her body has a mind of its own. When she said, "my pussy damn sure knows when it's being fucked good," the guy sitting at the next table nearly spewed beer through his nose. Too bad he missed the whole discussion on the differences in how a cock feels inside with or without a condom.

    God bless tables with more girls than guys.
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