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    My step-daughter's boyfriend lied to her tonight...told her he was hanging with a couple friends...and it turned out he went to a party that she wasn't invited to with a "friend" of hers that has been vying for his attention. What does a guy do in this situation...but say "is this what you really want?" and then go buy her some Moose Tracks ice cream and a movie?????????

    I don't like this part.
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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    Tough position Mojo. It's hard that she has to find out so early how frickin cruel people can be. But in another light, it's good that she finds out now instead later on. Also good that she is starting to find out what type of friends she has.

    Tell her to keep her chin up. Many fish in the sea and there are a lot that won't hurt her like so called 'friends' do.
    I've heard that a good signiture sets you apart from everyone.
    Well......is this good enough???

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    Give her Tons of hugs, and support. Let her know that you'll be there for her, and she can always trust in you.

    Sadly, You can't do much else.

    Live and Learn.

    You're a great father though, I am sure you'll handle it well.


    --Georg Christoph Litchenberg



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    Just explain that a man's gotta do whata man's gotta do and she should be fine or at least know what to expect. And, yeah, that ice cream thing's good. If that doesn't work, I'll buy her some ice cream, too. Then she'll know that guys at a certain age become, well, harmless.
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss George
    Incidentally, what's Moose Tracks and where can I get some?
    Moose Tracks ice cream is vanilla ice cream with chocolate fudge swirled in, chunks of chocolate, and mini reese's cups.

    She'll be all right....she's tough like her mom. This is just her first "heart breaking" experience....and her first lesson in setting standards and sticking to them. I did have to chuckle when her mom called the older brother on the phone and said "Hey....your sister's boyfriend broke her heart.....go break his legs."
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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    Just remind her that good men can do bad things. But, that doesn't change the fact that sometimes those good men need to be kicked to the curb for their bad things. She's worth more than that. She deserves a guy who will be respectful enough to be honest with her...and she also deserves a friend who won't "ease" in on a boyfriend.

    Make sure you support her in standing her ground and learning how to only accept people into her life that are willing to be honest and forthwith. It's going to be hard right now...she's really going to need that support.

    And, the ice cream...I say forego it. No need to encourage eating when there is a problem. Instead, take her to the store and get some bath oils and encourage her to relax in a bath...or take her someplace that she'll enjoy and that you and the rest of your family can support her and talk with her and listen to her.

    Good luck!

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    How old is she btw? Awww my first heartbreak I wish my dad was there?
    Youre an awesome dad and wanting to make her feel better is even better.

    I would just tell her to take some time off to relax and take a bath like VG said. That way maybe se can collect and think about what she might want to do. I hope its the right thing and she drops him like the hot shit he thinks he is? Just dont lecture her and tell her youll be there always to listen and help when she wants.
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    Yea, if it were me, I would take her shopping, anything that would make her feel better. Shopping is always good

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    In figuring out the post traumatic need for chocolate you're already light years ahead as far as understanding goes
    And you hunger for the time,
    Time to heal, desire time.
    And your earth moves beneath
    your own dream landscape...

    U2, "A Sort of Homecoming"

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    Quote Originally Posted by MojoJojo
    What does a guy do in this situation....
    A father can only be an example of what she should be looking for in a partner.

    Then he can be there to buy the ice cream and give the hugs when it falls apart.

    Cant beat his ass or pay a crackhead 20 bucks to shank him,but those are always my first gut reactions.

    Best of luck

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    On a totally unrelated note.....thong in the laundry....not the wife's. Whoops....you wouldn't believe how strong the gravity is right over the trash can!!!!
    "The problem with the world is that everyone is a few drinks behind."
    -Humphrey Bogart

    "Sir, if you were my husband, I would poison your drink."
    -Lady Astor to Winston Churchill
    "Madam, if you were my wife, I would drink it."
    -His reply

    "If God had intended us to drink beer, He would have given us stomachs."
    -David Daye

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