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    So I'm hanging out at my fave SC Friday night, and these 3 very pretty girls come stand next to me. So, I asked them when they were going to get on stage so I could tip them, and they told me they weren't allowed to dance on stage, they could only give lapdances and private shows. WTF?? I asked them why the hell not (these girls were very pretty, and only one of them was slightly larger, maybe 135lbs). The larger girl answered first saying "the owner told me I can't get up there cause I'm too fat." My next question to her was "did you kick him in the face??" There was no reason this girl should'nt be allowed to dance on stage.
    I asked my ATF during my lapdances about that and she said "yeah, the owner's a dick. When I was pregnant he told me I was getting too fat." Now, granted, a few of these girls that dance on stage don't have the greatest bodies, but none of them are fat.
    Are these guys for real?? Do they really treat dancers, who even though they have the title of "stripper" are still ladies, like this regularly?? If this has happened to you, how do you handle it?
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    I have never ran into men like this, and if I ever did, I would tell them to screw off.

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    Hey,an asshole owner I work for one of those! Not quite that bad though I have worked at my club for quite a while an I don't think he has said 2 nice things to me.He does however make jokes about me being fat and not good looking.All the other girls say not to take him serious but it's really hard when you rely on the way you look to make your money.By the way I'm not fat I only weigh 119 lbs.I think some men just have to put down some people because they feel bad about themselves.If these owners were smart they would realize when they makes us feel bad about ourselves we make less money which in turn they make less money.

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    The rule of thumb is that strip club owners are usually a**holes!!! Of course, you don't tell them that- they're 500 pound gorillas too. : P

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSUsb19
    The larger girl answered first saying "the owner told me I can't get up there cause I'm too fat." My next question to her was "did you kick him in the face??" There was no reason this girl should'nt be allowed to dance on stage.
    Wow, a way to get out of stage without buying your way off. Pass me the potato chips.

    Quote Originally Posted by DSUsb19
    Are these guys for real?? Do they really treat dancers, who even though they have the title of "stripper" are still ladies, like this regularly?? If this has happened to you, how do you handle it?
    Fantasize nightly about their crucifixion. On stage. With music. And no tipping.

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    I really feel for dancers who are treated like that. I am very fortunate to have a great group of managers/owners/bouncers. Don't let those A-holes make you feel less than.

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    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence
    Wow, a way to get out of stage without buying your way off. Pass me the potato chips.
    Lol! That's exactly what I thought!!

    I've never had anyone tell me or any other girl, that we couldn't go on stage. Much of the opposite, however.



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    135lbs is fat? I'm a cow at 150!

    It amazes me that girls would continue to work for someoe that would treat them like that, me I'd tell him to f*$k off and I'd be outta there!

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    I've worked at clubs where it way a privilege not to have to go on stage (they were sleeping with the owner.) But, I can see how it would affect money if stage tips were high or that was really the only way guys would notice you...
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    I saw a show about Vegas showgirls.
    They have to maintain a certain weight.If they are 5lbs over,they can lose thier spot.

    I guess they have strict guidlines because they do a professional show and we stick any girl who applies on stage.

    An owner who doesnt want overweight entertainers on stage,or pregnant entertainers on stage isnt being a dick,he is trying to put out the same image as playboy or cosmo.

    For this entertainer to share with a customer her disiplinary punishments is kinda sketchy and unprofessional.Sounds like she was playing you for a pity party and it worked.

    If she didnt like it,or thought the owner was wrong,she could have walked.Unless of course,she was to fat to get a job at the club down the street.

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    Why would you hire a girl who you wouldn't want to put on stage? If she's good enough to be on the floor, she's good enough to be onstage.

    Unless he just wants more warm bodies paying house fees, with no regard to his club's image.

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    if theyre considered too fat or ugly to work there, then they shouldnt have been hired. i once had a manager come up to me and ask why i had 2 fat girls onstage at the same time. and i said "well....why are there 2 fat girls working here?". honestly the only time i have ever been specifically told by management to keep a girl offstage was if the girl had some minor medical thing like a bruised knee or ankle etc and wouldnt have been able to do anything but stand there onstage. so they were allowed to work the floor anyway. i HAVE seen an owner or manager tell a girl she's very pretty, but she needs to work out a little bit before she would be hired. and generally this is said with as much tact as possible. no one wants to hear "you're fat", but i think i'd rather hear it quietly from one guy than really loudly and rudely from several guys at the tiprail.

    also, like a couple of ladies said...man, if you could get out of rotation for being fat, i can think of a few girls i know who'd be chowing down on twinkies every night. this manager does sound like an asshole, BUT. my one question is: did this girl used to be thinner and recently got bigger? my only reason for asking is maybe she's been there for awhile and theyre letting her work the floor until she loses the weight again? i dont know.
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    These girls are new. The girl that was told she was "too fat" looked like a deer in the headlights. She had the "new" glow about her. This club is one of the farthest things away from Playboy/Penthouse. The owner really is a piece of garbage who treats the girls like shit. I've heard a lot about this guy. He doesn't respect the girls, even the ones who have been there a long time. They stay because the club is huge and they make good money...so long as they steer clear of him. It just seemed really wrong of him to say that. But, I guess it happens all the time.


    And yes BigGreen, I am always a sucker for a beautiful girl. I can't help myself. They could read me the phonebook and I'd be a happy camper.
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    Personally, i love a few curves. Not a fan of the stick figure look. Too much is too much, but there's definately such a thing as too little.

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