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    I need your help ladies. I have recently started at a very classy and popular club in my area. No floor work, minimal contact during private dances, no front straddling, no excessive grinding, and no standing on couches etc. I have mostly worked at clubs that allow contact during lapdances so working at this new club is a new experience for me. During my first dance at the club I kept thinking how am I going to keep a guy in here.. Most of the girls were doing one or two dances for each customer. I"m used to doing like 2-5 for one guy. I mean I don't go crazy at my other club but now I have no idea how to give a dance or let me rephrase that a good table dance.

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    You said "light contact"--so you can touch the guy? Try brushing your hair against him or whispering something in his ear so he can feel your breath while your tits are in his face.

    I'm interested to hear some other ideas--I'm at a similar club.

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    Hmm..
    Tantalizing movements make the customer "think more is coming
    Sexy Talk.. keep him interested
    Take your time undressing

    I find that when table dancing the "smoother you are.. *slowly* heat things up, the longer it last.


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    I've worked at both kinds of clubs and things that get a guy to spend money in a low contact club are:
    - of course, look him in his eyes
    - Put your face really close (like one inch from his)--while you run your fingernails down his neck (this teases them, because they get excited, like you are actually about to give him a kiss)
    - Try touching his ear lightly with your fingers, or even lightly blowing in his ear
    - Run your fingernails down his chest
    - Caress yourself (stomach, chest, even arms) while looking into his eyes
    - Try some type of dirty talk, if that is what he is into (most men are)

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    [QUOTE=Ebony]minimal contact during private dances, no front straddling, no excessive grinding, and no standing on couches etc. I have mostly worked at clubs that allow contact during lapdances so working at this new club is a new experience for me.

    I just started at a club where we give complete air dances and I'm in the same boat. Most of the men at this club either don't even want dances because they know they're all air, or if they get them, it's only between 1 and 3. On top of it all, there is one dancer who DOES grind and touch and the managers look the other way. I've been told by the other girls not to rock the boat on this, however. At any rate, not only is it harder to make money from dances but I just feel REALLY stupid giving a no contact (we can't even touch the man's shoulders with our hands) dance. I have to admit, though, I feel alot better about working in a cleaner club.

    The best advice I can give you is move slow, make eye contact and keep smiling.

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    I too work in a no contact club. I am still able to get 2-4 dances from a man with good eye contact, softly blowing in his ear, dirty talk, joking around, etc. Once a man got 12 dances from me because we played a little game...I asked him this question, " If you could touch me right now, where would it be?" He sat there and told me how and where he would touch me, and wherever he wanted his hands, I would put mine there instead, and he really enjoyed watching me touch myself. Of course you still have to keep it clean (i.e. no fingerbanging yourself ) but it was fun for him and it adhered to the club's rules. And I got a damn good workout! LOL!

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    Ooooh Sunshine!!! That is definatly a money makin line!! I'm gonna have to try that one.

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    My main problem is that I feel stupid giving airdances. And in my own head I don't see why a guy should get them. I think I have been brainwashed so to speak. When I went to Penthouse last year to check the place out the girls were dancing very slowly infront of the guys. Getting close to them without touching them. Well you guys gave me some good ideas. Talking dirty seems to work because one of my friends overheard one of the other dancers during a dance and that is what she was doing. And about other girls grinding I saw some doing that so I started doing in also I immediatly got reprimanded by the house mom. Oh well I'll keep you guys posted. I start working tomorrow.

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    Ebony, put it out of your head that they shouldn’t get "air dances".. They know what they are looking for, companionship and a hot tease ! you rock them with that tease girl!

    Hope all went great..$$$$$


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ebony
    My main problem is that I feel stupid giving airdances. And in my own head I don't see why a guy should get them..
    I still wonder that myself sometimes when I give table dances. That's why you have to create an incentive for the customer so you'll feel more confident about selling it. 1. If you do stage, don't always strip completely, that way they will get to see more of you when they pay for the table dance. I don't know how some girls are able to make any money off of table dances if they're walking around naked half the time.

    2. Find a cool move, something you can't do on stage or through lap dancing, like holding the table and sticking your leg up over the custy's head.

    Finally with regular's you know that they know the rules of the club. So something must be bringing them to this particular place and it ain't the beer. Tell yourself they're married and feel that contact dances are crossing the line.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine73
    If you could touch me right now, where would it be?" He sat there and told me how and where he would touch me, and wherever he wanted his hands, I would put mine there instead, and he really enjoyed watching me touch myself. !
    That is the BEST idea. Plus, then I wouldn't have to feel so stupid during the dance. It just seems like I don't know what to do with myself....so hey, letting the customer tell me what to do instead sounds like welcome change.

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    Well I work tonight so I will put all this good advise to use. Thanks everyone.
    Last edited by Ebony; 02-01-2005 at 01:56 PM.

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    I love the idea of the game "if you could touch me". I have been working in a no contact club for a long time now. We don't even strip when we do our "air dances", so sometimes I do think the same way. Why would this guy want a dance. Then by talking to guys, I found out some guys don't want you to strip or grind them. They are more into the seduction. When I dance I imagine I am slowly seducing my man before we have sex. Lots of eye contact, especially when you have your butt towards him. They love it when you bend over and then turn around to make sure they are looking at your ass. I always get a startled look from them. Blowing in ears, and rolling my hair over their necks. Just go slow 'cause you don't want to run out of moves. I usually get 1-3 dances from custys. Or some of my regulars will get 2 and then come back for more throughout the night. I gave 10 to one guy last night.

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    You've got to make the guy feel a real "connection" to you...through eye contact, body language, moving almost close enough to touch him. The suggestions above are great. The only reason that many guys will buy an "air dance" is because it gives them one-on-one time with a stripper that they like. The more that you can make him feel special during that time, the more likely he is to come back. Imagine that the rest of the world doesn't exist...and focus on him only. It's amazing what that kind of ego stroking and teasing--if done well--can do for guys.

    That being said, I do prefer contact dances.
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    learn how to talk him out of his money instead of having to dance for it! most men who have cash to blow and are classy will honestly appreciate a charming beautiful girl just listening to their jabber over a wannadance hustler who leaves them feeling like an atm. also, the more you can connect with him on an intellectual level, the more special he will feel to be even having and sort of contact with you. good luck to you

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