You're right, I have no idea what I'm talking about since I've only danced for five years...Originally Posted by Jpac73
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Thanks for bolstering my point even further. Read some of the comments before mine for further enlightenment, Grasshopper.
You're right, I have no idea what I'm talking about since I've only danced for five years...Originally Posted by Jpac73
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Thanks for bolstering my point even further. Read some of the comments before mine for further enlightenment, Grasshopper.
"She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"
Ernest Hemingway on writer, aviation pioneer and horse trainer Beryl Markham
Hee. To me it sounds like she has good business sense - I mean I have used the kitten and $20 on a string image before, and this guy is clearly one of those. "Want it? Can't have it! Well, what will you do for it? Jump kitty, jump!" - except he's doing it with a one. Come on, man. Anyway - yeah, when a guy tips me, I say thank you at the time in a very casual way - making demands with the tip (e.g. a hug or a kiss) negates the entire idea of a tip and makes into a fee for service. You are essentially paying a girl to hug you. She just might not have thought that your tip was enough for that - or, conversely, she just might not have liked you. Because, me, I pretty much hug my customers for free, but I still don't go around hugging random strangers for a buck.
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Well, where I'm from, giving hugs is illegal, but a lot of girls do it anyway. Also, contact during dances is illegal, but a lot of girls do it anyway. It's more acceptable at the bikini clubs, but at topless clubs, it's a big no-no! IMO, an air dance in a bikini club isn't worth $20, but an airdance in a topless club is.
There really was no excuse for her not to thank you, though. Did she say thanks on stage? If she did, maybe she thought that was acceptable. The comment about the cows sounds like a really bad joke to me, bad business sense, all the same.
awww! i sorrry! i give u huggles!!! i say thank u & give huggles. that's rude what she said. now kissing on the cheek, that's ok too. but i'm not into kissing on the lips (a slight, quick peck is ok if ur a regular and spending lots of $$$) or sharing drinks or makeup. hope that doesnt bother ya. but i do admit i have ocd.
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I don't think she should have felt compelled to come up and give a hug for a few lousy dollars. My first thought was.... maybe he should have showered before going out. No body owes you anything, you got to see her dance, she got a few bucks...what's the big deal? Maybe she was having a bad night.





While a thankyou was in order and would have been nice-- a hug or kiss is not a job requirment- contact of any sort is a personal choice for each person.
I never minded giving out hugs or pecks on the cheek but I was sorry I did so a few times as I either got knocked over my B.O or too strong cologne or even worse got felt up-- which was very upsetting as I chose no contact work for a reason.
If I was the one to say that it would probably be because the guy smells or looks like a perv or one of those "I don't want a dance but I'd like to take you for dinner" losers.
quote = Jpac73 If you don't want any type of contact with a customer you need to find another source of income.
Maybe you are the one who should find another type of entertainment.
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