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    My boyfriend and I use to enjoy going to strip clubs, it's been about 2 years since we last went. I always enjoyed watching the girls dance expect when it came to Lap dances. I never know what to do when she is dancing for me I get timid I guess.

    How can I be more comfortable with a dance, and also make the girl who is doing it enjoy it more

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    Default Re: Giving a dance to a female

    Baby, welcome to my boat. I am, err, was the exact same way. I had an anxiety attack during my first lappy. It was hard to get comfortable. The only thing you can do really is keep getting dances. I still get nervous when I get dances from new girls. I still get butterflies when my atf dances for me. You just have to sit back and relax. Sometimes it helps to keep the mood light and relaxed. Just breathe deep and work on enjoying it. If you want her to feel more relaxed, be polite, flattering, respectful, and tip well. Good luck. Usually dancers can tell when you're nervous, and will try to help you out.
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    just enjoy it! i love dancing for women who look like they are enjoying it, but when they act frightend it kind of makes me feel like their not enjoying it and i ask myself, what am i doing wrong? just relax and have fun, and so will the dancer!!!
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    Default Re: Giving a dance to a female

    BC if you are sexually stimulated by women then LD enjoyment should come naturally. If your straight hetero and are just doing it to please and/or turn on your bf then you most likely will never really become totally comfortable with the whole scene. Sounds like some soul searching is in order.

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    If LDs are something you enjoy, then just sit back, relax and let the stripper do her thing... If you do not enjoy them...well then why spend the money on them? FBR has good advice...

    As for how to interact with dancers, my wife just chats with them like she would any other girl...she just has friendly chats about whatever...until she gets too turned on, then she just gets quiet and enjoys that the dancer is doing...
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    I love it when I get a dance from a girl! Just zone out, admire her body, smile... Unless the girl tries to start ginding on you (but I've never had that happen) she's jsut trying to be sensual and arouse you with the amazing beauty of the female body! Woooooo!!!
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    Default Re: Giving a dance to a female

    Quote Originally Posted by BabyChance
    How can I be more comfortable with a dance, and also make the girl who is doing it enjoy it more
    If you don't like having woman dance for you I don't see how or why you will ever be more comfortale with it.

    As far as making the dancer enjoy it more; Buy two!
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