how do you know if you're bi? i know a lot of straight girls who have had sex with chicks but they say they are straight. i think girls are hot and i like to look at the female form and watch girls dance and look at playboys and such, and i've always wondered what it would be like to kiss a girl..and it's a turn on..so i thought maybe i was bi....i have given lapdances to girls before but it has never felt sexual but it does feel comfortable, like she's my sister or something and i usually end up talking to them during the dance instead of concentrating on being sexy because it feels natural to just talk and stuff. and the thought of being intimate with a chick feels just plain weird. my boyfriend says sometimes he is worried that i am a lesbian because i like to look at girls and i think he is turned off by the thought of me being bisexual or with a girl. i thought guys liked the thought of two girls??it's not like i'll dump him if i am! ayways, it's something i've wondered about myself since i was young and just wondered if anyone more experienced in that way had any input? of this sounds like i am dissing bi's or lesbians in any way, i apologize! i'm cool with it all. to each his own is what i always say...i don't beleive that any one person or even group of people has the right to tell ANYONE that what they believe or do is wrong. (unless they are hurting someone) <--disclaimer



it's not like i'll dump him if i am! ayways, it's something i've wondered about myself since i was young and just wondered if anyone more experienced in that way had any input? of this sounds like i am dissing bi's or lesbians in any way, i apologize! i'm cool with it all. to each his own is what i always say...i don't beleive that any one person or even group of people has the right to tell ANYONE that what they believe or do is wrong. (unless they are hurting someone) <--disclaimer

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<~~Look how the lesbian takes no offense. IMHO, a bisexual is someone who is happy being in a relationship with a person of either sex. Someone who is able to have sexual relations, and/or fall in love with someone of both sexes. My roomate is straight; however she has had sex with girls, and likes to play occassionally. Does that makes her bisexual? Nope. She couldn't be in a relationship with a girl. To me, she's just adventurous. I think you're very curious, and adventurous. Sometimes, I try really hard to make myself look at guys in a sexual manner, and I just can't do it. Find a girl you're really attracted to, and imagine something happening between the two of you. If it doesn't freak you out, you may need to give it a try. Couldn't hurt anything. Worse thing that happens is you're still straight.


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