My night was ruined last night. It was busy and I needed the money but couldn't go out there after what happened to me. Here's the story in the simplest form:
I was onstage when a group of 4 guys came in. They were shitty tippers to be perfectly honest. One of the guys held out a dollar to me, so I bent down, held out my string and waited for him. He was taking a rather long time, next thing I know I feel fingers on my crotch. How nice the guy went under my legs, tried to pull my g-string down to tip me you know where. I was so upset that anyone would try to do this. I actually scolded him like a little boy and said "Um no RIGHT HERE!" and took his lousy dollar. Then his buddy asks me to take him for a dance, they were whispering comments to eachother my whole set. I wasn't even surE if they liked me. So I already being pissed at them, took the guy for dances without sitting and talking to him first. He pre-paid for one dance and after the first dance, I didn't even ask if he wanted anymore. I put my top back on and the guy sat there without making a move. He didn't say anything or do anything...just sat there. So I get up, and he's started to look a little confused. He then asks me "Um don't you give head here?" JUST LIKE THAT! I knew he was from a small town, so maybe the small town dancers give in for money...I don't know. Then it made me sick that he was married and asking for that. I told him he had better go outside and walk down the street maybe he'd have some luck there. He said "No, I don't want to do that." He said all of his as though he thinks that it is in a dancers job description to "give head". I was so pissed I told all the girls to not talk to them and no one did. They also knew of how they tried to tip me, and I watched as another girl had the same thing happen to her.
Anyway, I wanted to quit over that. I should probably expect it to happen many more times, but I was just in shock that someone would literally expect it. I sat in the back room for 2 hours, and even asked the manager to go home early, but ended up sticking it out.
But I must admit, the job really isn't for me either. I'm just trying to get through college.



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, everyone says I scare them once they get to know me! AHAHAHA it's good. except I know I can't bitch out guys at work cause the last time I did that I got fired for being "unlady like". 
<---- Madonna/Whore
prostitutes deserve the same respect the rest of us do. no one should be seen as stupid or taken advantage of. but that is the reality of the situation: some guys will see you as less than human anywhere.
I say a good customer is a paying customer. If they're that much of a gentleman to pay you to chat it up then that's an added bonus. I'm glad you seem to be feeling better about this though.

) but I know you cant go around smacking someone.
I hope it gets better. There are lots of stupid-ass-hicks in the world. Unfortunately, it seems that lots of them show up at your club...
way to cheer her up deepgreen. jk
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. Lots of respect goes out to you girls. I know it can't be easy, and you earn every penny you get.


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