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    Hello ladies,
    Been a lurker for a couple of days and really really enjoyed all that you have written. It has also proven to be pretty educational too as you ladies are pretty open and articulate. I have many questions but would like to pose one that seems interesting to me. With the nudity and /or semi nudity in your daily work lives, how do you feel about nudity in your home environment if you have kids? I know a similar thread was done before in the ladies only section on home nudity but very few moms answered the query. My question is are you very comfortable with it, since you have to be nude most of the time at work? Or, do you feel uneasy about it at home because in the work environment it is obviously erotic, and would not want the same effect with your sons especially if they are older? I hope my question does not sound too strange but since I come from a pretty conservative background it seems to be an interesting one. Particularly because it appears that many of you are mothers (and very caring ones from what I read too ). Thanks for any replies in advance, meanwhile I'll get back to reading more threads, more questions to follow hope you don't mind .
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    Raz
    P.S: Next question from the gentlemen about some fancy dance moves to impress my lady with, watching full monty can take me only so far j/k
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    I was raised by a couple of hippie crunchy parents and it wasn't at all unusual to find one of them wandering about the house sans clothing. Myself, i'll walk around in my underwear but that's about it. If a kid happens to come across me as i'm changing there's no fuss, no one's embarassed etc. *shrug* Now if the kids aren't around (ie at school, etc) i'll wander through the house nekkid.



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    I really don't go around the house naked. I would never make a big deal about it if my son happened to see me. My husband is always naked though.

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    I think it depends on gender. I go naked, but my daughter is only two. And female. If I had a son I wouldn't do it. I would feel too strange.

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    I think with kids.....If you make a big deal about it, They will make a big deal about it. If you're relaxed and comfortable, They will be comfortable.

    With that said:

    I think at a certain age (more so earlier for boys) it's time to hang up the 'nudity' around your house. I don't walk around nude but I never really have.....I feel most comfortable in some sweats, or pjs. I still take baths with my daughter (if we're in a rush).....She hasn't asked questions, nor does she seem to care.

    I think once she gets older, I'll stop doing that.


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    We have a very nude house. Hyubby LOVES wo wander around in his birthday suit. I would rather be ocvered up because we have a huge picture window, and besides, I like to be warm. But my son is almost 4, and also LOVES to run around naked. He also climbs the banisters, dances around manically, and sings, all starkers. We joke about who's mom is a stripper! So in our house, nuduty is more of a joke than anything.

    Also, I am a slightly crunchy granola parent myself, and my BIG boy is still nursing. So to him, boobs are functional, like an arm or an eye. Nothing to be ashamed of.

    My son also loves the shower, and when he hears on or the other of us taking a shower, there is NO stopping him from getting in there with us. This is usually his idea. I read in some parenting magazine that you should take your cues from your kids, when threy start to feel embarassed about nudity, then yu should start to be concerned and behave with modesty/give them privacy. That makes sense to me.

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    Thanks for the replies Ladies! By the way Colleen, what is a crunchy granola parent?
    Raz

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    I have a six year old daughter and I do walk around naked. We still shower together on occasion and she is comfortable being naked around me. My mother was always very against this sort of thing growing up and I don't agree with it. I don't want my daughter to feel ashamed of herself or like there is anything bad about being naked in your own home.

    My husband never walks around naked when she is home. I don't feel that is appropriate.

    I'm sure this will all change when she is a little older, but she still has her innocence and feels no need to be embarrassed around mommy.

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    I have a 5 yr old son who recently started acting like nudity was gross or something, so I told him that the naked human body is a beautiful thing and not to make fun of it. I walk around naked going to and from the shower, we shower together sometimes, but I am also starting to show him a sense of modesty and privacy by encouraging the doors to be shut during changing or bathroom visits. As he gets older, I'm sure I'll cover up more around him, not out of a sense of discomfort, but out of fear that I may emotionally scar the poor boy. LOL Who wants to remember their mommies nekkid?

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    I dont walk around naked when im at home.. when i was a kid i always saw my mom nakid and it made me feel disgusted.. i would never make my kid feel uneasy like that. *plus i have a boy*

    also i feel a little naked and cold.. i only like that when im sleeping in bed..

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    My family has never been embarassed by nudity. Altho (thank goodness) I never saw my dad nekkid (ewww) I would sit on the toilet when I was little and my mom would be in her undies doing her hair and makeup or ironing her clothes and I never thought anything of it. My mom still does it... mom and daughter topless applying makeup... guys dream huh? lol. I guess Im the same way with my daughter... Ive never thought much about it but I dont think it has anything to do with being a dancer... my mom was never a stripper

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    I walk around here naked sometimes. My daughter is only 2 1/2, so it's not a big deal...her daddy is always naked too. We just don't make a big deal about it. As she gets older, I believe that we'll make the necessary changes as we feel that she needs them.

    But, I truly feel that as Americans we shun au natural beauty and the natural human body. There is nothing secretive nor shameful about the human body.

    And a "granola parent" is a hippie. A parent who went against the "normal grain" of society. (I hope that is not an insulting way to describe it. If it is, I apologize in advance.)

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    I'm a full time step mother of a 10 y/o boy, so never does he see me naked. He knows that I'm a stripper, and thinks it is a weird job, but he loves that I can do cool tricks at the playground and around the house! His dad is always walking around naked, and the boy doesn't seem to mind.

    However if the boy is asleep or visiting his mom, I do spend a lot of time in the nude.


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