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    Hi Everyone!
    This last week I have been experiencing men saying ridiculous retarded things to me a lot. It's not like I'm initiating it or anything, basically I'll get off the stage and not even make it to the dressing room without guys asking what my real name is or where I'm from!? Why do they all seem to want to know your real name even though I have a stage name? One guy got mad and turned his back because he thought I was telling him a fake name, which I was.
    The thing is, I don't even really start conversations with customers, I just talk to the ones who pay attention to me.
    I also sat with two different groups of guys who sat there and ordered me a ton of drinks and shots, and then gave me a total guilt trip for not being able to drink them all. The guy said, "what you're not gonna drink it? I ordered it for you and your not gonna drink it? Whatever!!"
    Am I just meeting a whole bunch of jerks in this club or what?

    Cianna

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    Default Re: Cheeky Men bugging me!!

    These guys are idiots, I hate that ish! The guys who keep offering you drinks just want to get you wasted so they can take advantage of you!

    As for the personal question thing I always say.. “lets go get to know each other more intimately.. I’ll tell you my secrets while I show you what I like” that way you don’t waste your time on men with no money.. then just make up what ever sounds good.


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    Default Re: Cheeky Men bugging me!!

    Hey Yea,
    that sounds like a good plan...why should I let them waste my time if all they are doing is pestering me. thanks!

    Cianna

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    Hi Cianna,
    Not all clubs are the same.. so clearly they bring in a different crowd. When men are trying to play you.. be smarter and PLAY them right back!

    For example, when they want to feed you drinks, tell them you prefer to be more intimate with them.. the drink taste so much sweeter with your dress of!

    Just be careful to never get wasted at work.. know your limits.


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    Thanks for the great advice, I'm gonna use one of those lines tomorrow night, hehe!!

    Cianna

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    Make your $$$$$$ Girl! Don't let fools bother you.


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    Am I just meeting a whole bunch of jerks in this club or what?
    The men you've recently been encountering simply do not have realistic expectations for the unrealistic environment of the strip club. Way too many men fall in this category.

    It's not about you, it's them and their lack of perspective--which prevents you from doing your job well and prevents them from having a good time.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

    William F. Buckley, Jr.

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    Default Re: Cheeky Men bugging me!!

    LO when guys ask my name i make them guess... and the name that gets guessed the most i go with.. i tell guys my name is angela.. mainly cause i look like an angela

    and if they give me crap about it being a fake name ill just say yeah its a fake.. i wouldnt want you stalking my and using my first name to find me....


    please..

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    Default Re: Cheeky Men bugging me!!

    I think it's really stupid to ask a dancer her real name. If we wanted guys to know our real name we wouldn't have stage names.

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    I have learned that if a guy asks my real name before anything else, I know he won't spend any money on me.

    This happened last night: I walked up to a customer and said "Hi, I'm Paris. What should I call you?" When he responded with the eyball roll and "So what's your real name?" I literally turned around and walked away with out another word. I was not about to waste another second on him, and didn't. We had a packed house, and I had a dance to do in less then a minute later.

    Don't sweat it about the jerks. Just find a nice guy who knows how to play the game!


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Default Re: Cheeky Men bugging me!!

    You know, I've waited for someone in a strip club to ask me if my name is really my name. I might use your line, Jay, if that's alright
    "Women, not girls, rule my world" - Prince

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    Default Re: Cheeky Men bugging me!!

    I guess people are just intimidated by you because your hot they lose there sense of reasoning , or they just have had way to much to drink who knows just hang in there you will soon enough meet some good people who dont ask so many stupid questions.

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    Default Re: Cheeky Men bugging me!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Yea
    For example, when they want to feed you drinks, tell them you prefer to be more intimate with them.. the drink taste so much sweeter with your dress of!

    Just be careful to never get wasted at work.. know your limits.
    OMG! LOL That's a great idea! Wish I'd thought of it myself.

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