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    question for the guys strippin!

    hey i always wondered....how is it to be a guy stripper>? when you guys work at clubs, do you get annoyed at nontippers and have the same beef with customers as we do? i would think females are a lot easier to make money off of b/c most of them are there for fun not a quickie. just a thoght i was having the other day that if you guys have diferent peeeves then us lady strippers, or if they have an easier time b/c females tend to be more "polite" maybe and i think would tend to throw more money at ya guys!...i dunno. tell me if im wrong! also, do guy strippers mostly make more money at gay clubs? that's what one of my male (straight) friends told me when he used to strip he made alll his money at gay clubs, whereas not as much as in clubs ment for females. i dunno, just something i was wondering about...i've never been to a male-strip club or even have heard of one in tampa, where i am from. also, feel free to post yer pics males so i can drool over you- uh i mean, see what yer workin with! haha ok im done now.
    fuck it.


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    isnt the male room one.... in tampa?

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    Okay, I'm a girl, but let me tell ya....

    Rule #1: WOMEN ARE WORSE THAN MEN EVERY TIME when it comes to being a customer--in regards to grabbing, etc. Just go to a male strip show and watch. REALLY watch. Most male dancers burn out in 4-6 years or so, unless they have the mental fortitude to handle it. If you think about it, socital taboos about touching do not extend to men...the assumption is that they always like to be touched by women. The only perk is that they make twice or three times what we do. And remember, it isn't just a "walk out on stage and do a 2 song/3song set with a reg. outfit on" thing for them. EVERY guy has to have a feature style show EVERY night, at least 3-5 DIFFERENT shows. If he is performing more than one night a week in a permanant club (LeBare's style) then he needs about 6 to 8 different shows to rotate--full costumes, props,and pre-recorded mix of 8 or 10 different songs and various sound effects and talking. It's a pain in the ass, and a bigger pain to DJ for. No wonder so many of them I met were assholes...they were to tired to be nice

    I hope some of our male collegues will post to back me up...
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    In my opinion it is really different. The comment above about doing all "feature" shows is true. So is the part about the $!

    I am stripping in Hong Kong so the girls aren't too grabby, even the western women. And yep, back home in Oz it was the gay clubs where I made my money, even though Oz folks don't tip well if at all.

    I do not do this as a Fulltime job, and maybe if I did I too would be burnt out. But I trained as an actor and that has defintely helped in dealing with all parts of the business. The customers aren't too much of a problem really at all.

    The only thing that is tough are "cock" issues - making sure it looks big, primed and "inviting". This can be hard wearing a g-string, and then there is the issue of the show becoming a sex show is you start wanking to get it up.
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    Women are 100 times worse then men, LOL. I have friends who are male dancers and after a show they look like they have been 10 rounds with an alley cat.

    They have bite marks, scratches, bruises, etc...

    But they usually have 3 times as much as I do in an 8 hour shift too.

    Chad is dead on. And so is Lil. Women don't have a sense of "I can't touch him" when they go to a review. Not like mst men do at a SC.

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    How do the men make so much money? Are the paid by the club for putting on the show, or do they get tipped that well? Boyfriend is thinking about dancing, but was previously told they didn't make all that much money and said forget it, but three times what I make is a little crazy. More info. please!

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    I got a lapdance from a man once, and I didn't touch him at all untill HE put my hands on him! Guess he thought I was cute or sometin'

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    Male dancers are a rarity in many places, so when they come to town the shows sell out and the women go crazy.

    That is why I think that male dancers make alot of money. I should know my hubby was one and I have male friends who still are.

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    So again, do men get paid by the club, do they make tips, where does all that money come from?

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    I think that in the US, it depends on location. I did some gigs in Vegas and New York some years ago and the two cities were completely different. The former had a wage as well as tips, and was a good gig. The New York gig was tips only. I was at a club primarily featuring black guys so I did not do well at all!

    I think the "base rate" is relatively high precisely because of what Kryssy said - it is rarer for guys to do it in most places.
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    I tend to make a lot of money when I dance and yes, the women can be VERY aggressive. I only dance part time so i have time to recover in between

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    oh snap ya'll...i was watching a hbo ep. of "real sex"....which is CRA-ZEY by the way! they had feature black male dancers and they went to all these clubs with this big ol ladies in church clothes just straight up MOLESTING then!!! anyways, i believe you- i have just never been to one....but their chaps were awesome!!
    fuck it.


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