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    Default Look and see

    I was looking up a review about the spearmint rhino in las vegas, on stripclublist.com and there is a funny debate going on instead of reviews about customers and contact. It is pretty interesting and angering. Check it out. Go to Stripclublist.com 1) Click on nevada to look up club in that state.. then 2) click on spearmint rhino and you can read it. Just wondering what you guys think, it made me so angry.

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    ugh... that made me irate.

    what assholes!

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    Crystal, thanks for the heads-up. It was very interesting and thought-provoking (given that I've spent a couple of nights at Spearmint Rhino in Las Vegas this week and probably will go again tonight). Correct me if I'm wrong, but (for those who want to get to the point) I believe the discussion starts just below the fourth banner/divider, from SRDancer.
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    Now, my :

    No one in the discussion made the distinction between wanted and unwanted contact. Posts from (presumed) customers were of the ilk that two-way contact is acceptable, and in fact, expected. Posts from (presumed) dancers were of the ilk that two-way contact is unwanted, even if the dancer says she does.

    Now I'm a pragmatist; I expect that a dancer will say or do what she can to pry the money out of my wallet, and anything is fair play (with the obvious exception of taking it out of there herself). I don't assume at the start that the dancer wants to be touched, but if she takes me by the wrists and presses my hands on her breasts/ass/wherever, I'm going to file them under "acceptable touching areas". I may then test the boundaries, and until such point she says "Don't do that", "Ow", or slaps/moves my hand, I will presume that she'll put up with it. Now whether she really, honestly, truly likes me, The_Oceans, doing that with her...not for me to know unless she's willing to share.

    Bottom line is, the dancer's the boss (just how I like it but that's another discussion entirely). You don't have to put up with any customer shenanigans that you don't want.
    "Women, not girls, rule my world" - Prince

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