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    As a long time club patron one of the best things a new dancer brings up on stage is her confidence and it always shows! I love to see the shy new girls sitting back at the bar come up onstage for the first time and light up the room with confidence and enthuisasm. When they have done a great job (girls gone wild material) I like to welcome them to "my world" and offer to buy them a drink to celibrate. After we have a drink I usually offer the honor of being their first lap dance customer but not everyone has what it takes for my taste so I don't mislead the ones that don't fit or cut it for me. I leave that honor for someone else.

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    Well said suga daddy. I always buy dances from the ladies who look MTV hot, put on a very good stage show, and seem like they would give a very enthusiatsic lap dance by how they approach me when they ask for a dance.

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    What about those super peppy ones? I have heard guys say that those types of girls are too much for them. Or am I missing something where there is a line btwn over enthusiastic to fun to be around.
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    its very important to show confidence. it adds tremendously to your ability to yourself and the fantasy of spending time with you. the customer wants to see a girl who is sexy, outgoing, maybe a strong sense of humor, intelligent and easy to talk to but isnt pushy, introverted or domineering.

    I always try to act alil shy as well as slightly submissive so I sell the fantasy, and it works for me.
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    Good point AmyLynne, Selling the fantasy is what we come in to get wrapped up in.
    Even the drama, cat fights between girls because they like this or that customer and even hearing about the lousy tippers it's all fair game inside the club fantasies. We see plenty of introverted or pushy girls sitting alone or back in the dressing room unless they are up onstage. I know even pretty girls have insecurities but in the club is no place for those bad habits if a girl wants to be successful.
    I'm going to go see my #1 girl today even though I have a Dr.s appt and can't stay very long after work it's the relationships we develope that keep me coming back.

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    We have a customer that preys on the new girls because he thinks they don't know any better. "you can grind a little, it's okay. I'm special here. I practically run this place. Do you want a another shot? You've only had 5. Give me your # and I'll show you some sexy moves to start out with." You know that guy.

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    "What about those super peppy ones?"

    One of my fav strippers was a "peppy one". She'd strip and then go clubbing/dancing. I think she prolly dances 24/7.
    Of course I like laid back strippers too.
    I like one of each at the same time actually I've found a lot of stripper friends who like to hang with each other while working as much as possible and one's usually always more peppy while the other is laid back.

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    damn you just described me. Ive gone from work straight to the clubs sometimes still in the same outfits. LOL
    AmyLynne

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    I love girls that are playful and seem to be having a lot of fun. Throw in good looks and I could fall in love

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    Oooooooooooooh, i'm so fucking honored to be in your presence for a drink. Not.

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    *cackles* Katrine you meanie

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