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    Default Re: [rant] Guys who have dated dancers or have been dancers

    One more thing... I want to make a complete and total apology to RoseDelight and Rhiannon for my comment in chat that all dancers were spoiled. It came out wrong and was taken wrong. I know that you all work for and deserve every penny that you make. The comment was made in jest and was not meant to be taken to heart. I hope that you girls and anyone else who was offended by the comment please accept my deepest apology. It was an ASSHOLE-ISH thing to say and I am sorry.

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    I don't really think you can blame somebody for sitting there, watching topless chicks, and nursing a beer for eternity. When one is young and a broke-ass mama-jama and strip clubs are still a novelty, this can be entertaining. I personally don't tip everybody that goes onstage, usually just ones that I want to approach me for dances later. However, the idea that one should be entitled not to tip because they date or have dated a dancer, or have some inside knowledge of the business is absurd. I agree that is all the more reason that they should be tipping.
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    Ahem..str8 and I have resolved our differences..

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    Default Re: [rant] Guys who have dated dancers or have been dancers

    When I go to a club, I always bring money and spend it, best I can, on the dancers. If there is no one at the tip rail, I will go up there and try to start the tipping. If I find a dancer who entices me, I will usually by lap dances. When my night's budget is done, I leave. I am positive and joke with those dancers who enjoy that. If a dancer whom I've become known to sits with me, I will pay for her time and/or buy multiple dances. Heck, I probably will anyway.

    It just upsets me to see guys hanging at the bar and drinking (alcohol or not), watching the dancers and not spending anything on them. Or worse sitting at a table and trying to get free flirting time, or even worse not tipping at the tip rail. Sometimes I will even drop a hint to them like "you can get change at the bar" or "she's fun in the VIP room". It rarely makes any difference to them. Hell, sometimes they are annoyingly loud as well, as in drunk.

    Those creeps are there just for a free show. They are sponges that take up space in the club (and maybe on earth too) that would be better used for someone who contributes to life.

    If they would try that sloth in a regular bar, going in just to pick up chicks or play darts, without paying for drinks, they would be thrown out. So throw them out of the strip clubs too. No one cares about those leeches. At least hit them with a non-participant door charge and put those proceeds in a jar to help reduce the tipouts.
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    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    It's pretty simple - if you go to watch a comedian or singer, you would expect to pay for the privilage. I regard dancers as entertainers, and accordingly would expect to pay to watch them.

    There are occasions when I go into a UK venue, (which runs slightly differently), and don't put into a dancers' jug, (see my earlier post on how UK venues work), but this is when that particular dancer makes it clear she does not wish me to. It's her way of saying thanks for a favour I might have done her at some other time - a lift or suchlike. Even then the 'non-contribution' only applies to that dancer - every other dancer in the place is trying to earn money and is under no obligation to gve me a free ride.

    I go to work to earn a living, and I'd be pretty upset if my employers didn't pay me. Similarly, dancers go in to work to earn an income. If you don't want to pay them, don't go into the venue.

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    Default Re: [rant] Guys who have dated dancers or have been dancers

    Phil your are so right, thank you thank you.
    I'm currently engaged to a guy that has danced before and he understands completely that we are there to be tipped.. He always brings in a roll of ones to tip the dancers and will elt me know which ones he's tipped and how much (I guess to make sure the dancers don't try to rat him out or something, which has happened before). The dancer definitely appreciate it and don't mind him coming into the club at all. He's actually helped dancers get money from unruly customers that were refusing to pay for their dances. He caught them on their way out and convinced them it would be wiser to pay the girl.
    Honestly I wish the guys that have danced or dated a dancer acted that way. I've met a few customers that have dated dancers or are currently doing so that will sit as far back as possible from the stage while they wait for their girl.. That's respectful becausse they try their hardest to leave room for the paying customers and if no one is tipping they'll come out of the shadows to help out. These are the men that truly understand our business and of course they get the most hugs and they up the popularity of their significant others.
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    I'm a stripper, I go into clubs, I buy dances. Pure and simple. Why be there if you're not going to be at one with your enetertainment? It's not a place to brag about the fact you strip/have dated a stripper. I never get it when people do. It's like bragging to Bill Gates that you've won a million, he damn well ain't gonna care never mind be jealous. Enough already! We only care about what is in the wallet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gypsy_girlchild
    I've met a few customers that have dated dancers or are currently doing so that will sit as far back as possible from the stage while they wait for their girl.. That's respectful because they try their hardest to leave room for the paying customers and if no one is tipping they'll come out of the shadows to help out. These are the men that truly understand our business and of course they get the most hugs and they up the popularity of their significant others.
    If you've gone into a venue to meet a dancer for reasons of friendship, the other very practical reason to be inconspicuous is that you will hit that dancers' earnings if you make a big deal of it. Many men go into a venue with the hope, (normally unrealised), of getting a phone number or a date. If a dancer too obviously has a friendship/relationship with someone in the club then that element of fantasy has gone for the other men in the place and her chance of lap dances is correspondingly reduced.

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    I agree with what you are saying, I don't know if I came across as saying many SO's come into the clubs, that's not it at all.... These are the rarer occasions when the guy comes in to watch his girl dance (usually at the end of her shift.) He never tells anyone that he is dating that dancer, we only know what she lets us know and I would never divulge that info to a customer, I think that is lower than low...

    I was just trying to say that some guys that have been dancers or dated them CAN be respectful and tip our sweating asses.
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    What she said. My husband was a frequent SC customer long before he met me and he still likes to get his pervert on. No worries; he drops me off at the door and circles around to park, then goes in with his bankroll. A few of our girls know he's my husband, and he's good for tipping stage and buying dances from a few girls when he goes in. He'd certainly better behave himself, 'cause he'll get an earful from me if he doesn't as soon as we get home.
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    lol, Lilith....
    I'm lucky and get to pick out hwo dances with ... He actuelly said he really wanted to a get a dance from a black dancer and so I picked my friend (who happened to be the hottest black girl in there.) HE let it slip that he was my guy and she tensed up until she found out that I paid for it and picked her and then she proceeded to give him a hell of a dance. I must say I was impressed because some girls tense up if they think a guyis dating a dancer. Who cares? They are there and they are paying so I treat them as a customer not someone's guy or that would be a waste of their money and a waste of my time.
    It's always a complimet to have a dancers date pick you for a dance because you know a lot of thought was put into it plus she probably gave the go ahead and if not, I don't have to go home to her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Str82ThePoint
    One more thing... I want to make a complete and total apology to RoseDelight and Rhiannon for my comment in chat that all dancers were spoiled. It came out wrong and was taken wrong. I know that you all work for and deserve every penny that you make. The comment was made in jest and was not meant to be taken to heart. I hope that you girls and anyone else who was offended by the comment please accept my deepest apology. It was an ASSHOLE-ISH thing to say and I am sorry.
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    Well said.
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