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    how to make a sexy eye contact

    ok so i have been going to my job practicing dancing and pole moves, and man i am getting good at the pole. the dancing i really didnt need help with, just to move around the stage and not stay in one spot.everyone that has seen me dance has told me that i am really good and that i will make a ton of money. but the only bad thing that they have said is that i need to do a sexy eye conact and smilemore. i really dont know what they mean. i picture that the guys that i have dance for is my finacee, and that works. so if you ladies have any advice please share. i have a couple of days until we open, i am so nervous, what can i do to calm my nerves and not be scared to go out on stage the opening night. and how would i keep my money on me while doing a lap dance? i have read to put in my garter, but how? thanks for reading

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    If you and I were melded into one stripper we'd be perfect! All I have going for me is the sexy look and smile - and I SUCK at pole work. I do get a ton of complements on my smile. It does take a little bit of effort. You have to just remind yourself and act like you are having a great time. And I usually will try to lock eyes with pretty much everyone in the club at some point when I'm on stage. It's a quick way to make someone feel connected to you. I just think really sexy thoughts. And then after a few seconds I'll just let this little smile start to creep across my face. Eyes half closed - chin sort of down and hair falling around the face always helps. It really will get you even more attention. Just try to have a sort of personal moment with each person. Like you are touching yourself just for them or look at them after a pole trick like it was just for them. Think of your fiance when you dance - seriously I think of my boyfriend a lot of times - it really does make me feel sexy and happy. If your stage has a mirror, maybe you could use it if you're still nervous, just smile and make sexy looks at people from the mirror? I don't know.
    As for carrying money - can you have little tiny purses? I carry mine with me everywhere I go - I don't trust my cash in the dressing room.
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    Eye contact is easy. Lower your head by about 2-3", and look up at them. Don't stare them down. A couple seconds is enough. Before you turn away from a guy, maintain eye contact for just a couple seconds longer than you normally would. Extended eye contact is a subconscious sign of interest. Don't be afraid to let your hair fall in your face, and don't be afraid to close your eyes, too! Both can be very sexy. Just try not to stare them down; You're trying to seduce them, not start a fight.

    As for the smiling, just think happy thoughts. Once the guy smiles, you should, too. Also, whenever you're looking at a guy, or, more appropriately, he's looking at you, you should be smiling. Just a little smile at the corner of your mouth is perfect. It looks coy and seductive. You don't have to be grinning hysterically.

    As for attaching money to your garter, you need a rubber band. Check the DJ booth, it seems to be the universal place to keep them. Take your money and fold it in half, making a "tent" with it. Slip the tent over your garter, (half on one side, against your skin, half on the other) and secure the loose ends with a rubber band around all of it. (Sorry for the shoddy directions! Best bet is to try to practice it, or ask a girl you work with to help you!)

    I would advise carrying a purse. I carry a small purse in the shape of a little black kitty. Just be sure to keep track of it, and make sure it's a purse you can zip up securely!
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    Default Re: how to make a sexy eye contact

    It may be quite simple. Go to your local library or bookstore. Find a good book on body language.

    When we flirt eye contact is one way, (consciously or unconsciously), that we make our interest clear. When someone refers to "sexy eye contact", what they probably mean is that the dancer, intentionally or othewise, is mimicing the body language, (and eye contact), associated with flirting.

    If you can do so, learn the appropriate body language signals well enough to give off the impression you are flirting with someone. Naturally, from a male point of view, if we get "courtship" signals we are flattered and far more inclined to agree to go for a lap dance.

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    As u look at a customer, think to yourself "I like what I see, and I love the fact that I can have you...if I wanted you" - try to let your eyes tell him. Wait a second after you look at each other and as you do what I just said - smile! Just make sure you don't grin... it will kill the effect. I'm not a stripper yet, but I love doing this to women. I get such a kick out of it. Just pretend you're mute and be a flirt. Do what you would do to tell a guy you have interest in him if you two didn't speak the same language - use your body language! I think body language is sexier than what any woman could ever tell me. A single look can speak volumes!

    I highly recommend that EVERYBODY reads a book on body language. If you do you'll soon start to see things in people and in social situations that you never saw before. As you learn to make better use of body language you'll notice that people will begin to react to you differently - in a very good way! Its especially important if you meet people from different countries on a regular basis, cause even though body language is universal some things mean different things in some cultures.

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    I used to have the same problem. I remember one club owner told me I was a great dancer, but I needed to make more eye contact with the customer and smile. I would just get so involved with the dancing aspect that I would forget why I was dancing. It just takes practice and sometimes you just have to make yourself do it. I know I have to make myself smile at times. But the eye contact thing is much easier now. Practice, Practice, Practice!

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    Default Re: how to make a sexy eye contact

    This is something from public speaking, if you practice dancing in a mirror make sure to look yourself in the eye, practice different looks, see what makes you feel sexiest.
    Take my hand - let me show you Wonderland, here we can do anything...Close your eyes, don't be surprised at the things you find to tease your mind.

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    i dont know how your stage is set up, but one thing i like to do is slide the pole to the floor, then crawl to them so that ur in front of them, and then look at them as if your curious about them--like, "oooh, who's this sexy guy." and just bust a couple of moves in front of them like ur dancing just for them. Or do something funny to make them laugh, like i will look at them, shimmy (shake ur chest) and giggle like u did something a little naughty. I dont know how to explain it but they will react somehow-usually they'll laugh too--then youve just broken the ice. i usually go for humor--ppl like to smile. and i almost always get a dance from that person that i "work" when im on stage--and even if they dont buy they'll tip well cause u gave a good show. Im new to dancing too, and its definitly not an easy job, you really gotta read ppl. sorry that this was soo long!
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